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Women have always questioned the idea of marriage

By the eighteenth and nineteenth centuries, women writers increasingly articulated a direct critique of marriage. Mary Astell’s Some Reflections upon Marriage (1700) questioned why women were expected to submit to husbands and argued that women were often pushed into marriage without meaningful freedom of choice.

Mary Wollstonecraft, John Stuart Mill and Harriet Taylor, Emma Goldman, and later Simone de Beauvoir all challenged different aspects of marriage: women’s legal dependency, unpaid domestic labor, sexual double standards, economic vulnerability, and the treatment of marriage as women’s primary destiny. Feminist objections have historically focused on the fact that marriage was not simply a private romance but also a legal and economic institution in which women often had fewer rights.

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u/Maximum_Walt — 3 days ago
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The prophet of our times

Video credit:
FRANCE 24 English

Excerpt from her interview:

The piece of speculative fiction that I have written is set in the future, and in the future the country has acted out in real life some of the things that are now just around as ideas in people's heads, and it's always very instructive to take ideas in people's heads and try to picture what they would look like and what they would feel like if they were actually put into practice. For instance, if you say woman's place should be in the home. That's sort of a glib thing that people throw out, but if you wanted to actually enforce it, if you wanted to put it into practice, no exceptions, no Margaret Thatcher is allowed to go around saying woman's place is in the House, home, but I'm prime minister so that doesn't apply to me. What would it look like? So that's one of the ideas that gets acted out in this book and in under the regime, which is a quotes religious unquotes right wing regime, it's not any religion you would immediately recognize right now, but they do go back to the Bible and I'll tell you which part of it.

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u/Maximum_Walt — 11 days ago

Hong Wang, recipient of the 2026 Fields Medal

On 23 July 2026, Hong Wang was awarded the Fields Medal by the International Mathematical Union, alongside Yu Deng, John Pardon, and Jacob Tsimerman, for her contributions to harmonic analysis and geometric measure theory, including the proof of the three-dimensional Kakeya conjecture. She is the first Chinese woman to win the Fields Medal.

u/Maximum_Walt — 13 days ago
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LIFE DELAYS CAUSED BY NARCISSISTIC PARENTS

Strategic Steps to Catch Up

Grieve the timeline. Accept that your path is unique. Stop comparing yourself to peers raised in stable environments.

Build emotional literacy. Learn to identify feelings. Use therapy (CBT, EMDR) to process childhood trauma.

Isolate specific skills. Treat adulthood as a series of learnable tasks. Master one micro-skill (like budgeting or networking) at a time.

Reparent yourself. Speak to yourself with kindness when you make mistakes. Provide the validation you missed as a child.

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u/Maximum_Walt — 14 days ago
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Have you noticed men using 'religion' as a tool to control women, not guide them?

I've been thinking about this a lot lately, and I need to get it off my chest.

There's a pattern I keep noticing: some men push their wives, girlfriends, or daughters toward a more "religious" or conservative lifestyle — not out of genuine faith, but as a way to control them. Dress a certain way, stay home more, don't go out as much, don't build a career, don't have opinions that don't come from him. It's not framed as control, it's framed as piety or "protection." But underneath it, the goal is the same: keep her small, keep her dependent, keep her inside four walls.

And the scary part is how effective it is. A lot of women end up boxing in their own thinking without even realizing someone else built the box. They stop imagining a life outside the house, outside the role they were handed. Not because they're incapable — because the space to think bigger was slowly taken away from them.

I want to be clear about something: I fully believe every woman has the right to choose how she wants to live — religious, conservative, liberal, whatever. That's her call, and it's a valid one either way. What I have a problem with is when that choice isn't really a choice — when it's manipulation dressed up as tradition or devotion, and a man is engineering it to serve his own control, not her wellbeing or belief.

I've seen this happen close to me, and it's infuriating to watch someone you care about get talked into shrinking their own life by "advice" that's really just a leash with better branding.

Curious if others have noticed this pattern too, or if I'm just seeing it everywhere now that I've spotted it once.

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u/Maximum_Walt — 14 days ago
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Afghan women in 2026

Video credit: BBC News

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Between 6 and 8 June, at least 30 women were arrested in Herat for wearing “improper hijab”. Days later, the de facto Ministry of Hajj and Religious Affairs announced that “observing hijab” would be the topic of the sermon on 19 June.

Imams received a 10-page document explaining that a hijab should cover the entire body except the eyes, be loose and thick and contain no adornments or fragrance.

During the reporting period, shops and health clinics were instructed not to allow women to enter without a male guardian, or mahram.

In April, the authorities issued a new Code on Judicial Separation of Spouses, which makes a woman’s marriage dependent on her guardian’s permission.  

u/Maximum_Walt — 4 days ago

The space between therapy and friendship.

https://ungaslited.com/woman-to-woman/

Not clinical enough for therapy.
Not casual enough for friendship.
Not scalable enough for AI.
Not impersonal enough for a life coach.

Something in the middle that is:

Real — a human who actually knows you
Practical — helps you navigate actual life tasks
Emotional — holds space without an agenda
Consistent — remembers who you are over time
Non-judgmental — does not make you perform wellness
Affordable — not $150 per session

That gap is exactly what Ungaslited fills with WOMAN-TO-WOMAN.

u/Maximum_Walt — 24 days ago
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Spinsters of the 60s

Video Credit: BBC Archive

In the 1960s, demographer John Hajnal identified the “Northwestern European Marriage Pattern,” in which people in northwestern European countries such as England started marrying late, in their 30s and even 40s. A significant proportion of the populace didn’t marry at all. In this region of Europe, it was the norm for married couples to start a new household when they married, which required accumulating a certain amount of wealth. Like today, young men and women worked and saved money before moving into a new home, a process that often delayed marriage. If marriage were delayed too long – or if people couldn’t accumulate enough wealth – they might not marry at all.

u/Maximum_Walt — 26 days ago

Weekly Exchange: Write to your companion

https://ungaslited.com/weeklyexchange/

Woman-to-woman is for you if :

  • You're not ready for therapy but need a place to start processing your thoughts and feelings.
  • You're an introvert who knows connection would help but feels overwhelmed by group spaces, video calls, or opening up to strangers.
  • You're navigating a difficult season and need someone to help you untangle your thoughts, gain perspective, and feel a little less alone.
  • You're healing from a toxic or narcissistic relationship and want a judgment-free space where your experiences are understood.
  • You don't have a strong support system or feel like you have no one you can truly talk to.
  • You're lonely in a way that's hard to explain, not because there aren't people around you, but because you don't feel deeply seen, heard, or understood.
  • You'd rather write than talk, taking your time to express yourself without interruption or pressure.
  • You're looking for a real human connection, not AI-generated replies or generic advice.
  • You're in therapy and want compassionate support between sessions.
u/Maximum_Walt — 28 days ago
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Iran’s Women-led Uprising is being actively eliminated

Video credit: VICE News

Medical professionals and human rights investigations have documented targeted shootings aimed at women’s faces, eyes and genitals, as well as sexualized violence during arrest and detention.

Families seeking to recover the bodies of slain women report being forced to obtain invasive forensic certificates prior to burial.

These practices turn female bodies into sites of political communication. The punishment targets not only dissent, but transgression itself.

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u/Maximum_Walt — 1 month ago
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AI Costs More Than The People It Replaced

Video credit: Economy Media

Despite widespread layoffs justified by AI reallocation, studies indicate AI is economically viable in only a fraction of roles. The unsustainable model of subsidized AI pricing is unwinding, forcing a market correction.

u/Maximum_Walt — 27 days ago

What We Offer in Woman-to-Woman

https://ungaslited.com/woman-to-woman/

What This Service Is

A safe, private space

A supportive companion

Non-judgmental, context-aware support

Woman-to-woman is for you if :

  • You’re in therapy and want compassionate support between sessions.
  • You’re not ready for therapy but need a place to start processing your thoughts and feelings.
  • You’re an introvert who knows connection would help but feels overwhelmed by group spaces, video calls, or opening up to strangers.
  • You’re navigating a difficult season and need someone to help you untangle your thoughts, gain perspective, and feel a little less alone.
  • You’re healing from a toxic or narcissistic relationship and want a judgment-free space where your experiences are understood.
  • You don’t have a strong support system or feel like you have no one you can truly talk to.
  • You’re lonely in a way that’s hard to explain, not because there aren’t people around you, but because you don’t feel deeply seen, heard, or understood.
  • You’d rather write than talk, taking your time to express yourself without interruption or pressure.
  • You’re looking for a real human connection, not AI-generated replies or generic advice.
u/Maximum_Walt — 1 month ago

He failed as a pastor. He failed as an actor. Now he's failing men on purpose and charging for it.

Every manosphere messiah has the same origin story, just with different props.

u/Maximum_Walt — 1 month ago
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This world cup made me realize that men have always been what they accuse women of

My observation is based on what I’ve seen on social media:

Do you know how men always say that women are sensitive, emotional, and can easily form parasocial relationships with their favorite celebrities, especially if it’s a male celebrity? Or say that female fans are crazy and waste their time on people who don’t even know they exist?

The way these men literally “gush” over their favorite players. How they glorify every move they make, how they use big words and poetic expressions to describe their “GOATness”. They way they become rabid in the comments to defend their player and make fun of their rivals. The things I’ve seen ? They are flirting at this point..

I finally noticed the hypocrisy. Most of these men claim to be straight but spend their day and night gooning “figuratively “ to their favorite player, but when a woman fangirls a male celebrity she’s weird and irrational?

Men are more of fangirls than girls themselves.

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u/Maximum_Walt — 1 month ago
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After Pushing Anti-Trans Laws to ‘Protect Women’s Sports’, Project 2025’s Heritage Foundation Now Wants Women’s Sports Gone to ‘Assist Fertility’

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u/BerryBoilo — 1 month ago