We have recently shifted to Jodhpur
My wife is looking for places to buy pure cotton shirts and kurtis for herself which are also reasonably priced for workwear,
Please suggest where can we go,
TIA
have appeared for a exam and i might get an admission in college, so might have to leave my current job stat. If i leave stat, they will cut one months salary. I might get a seat and I might not.
Should i tell them before hand that i might leave if i get a seat and will continue if i dont? Will that help? I dont want to lose the amount. Its quite significant. I am contemplating this in hope of a notice period waiver
Asking for a unbiased view, have a degree to start which will take about 5 years of my life. I am 32 have to plan maternity as well during this time and the location is such that my husband might not be able to come with me because of language and regional issues and that will be a barrier in his career growth. Should i skip taking it? I worked hard for it but the options are very few. One option is give the exam again, but I dont know what uncertainty might kill me.
Have a honda city 2012 version
Car battery randomly died in the middle of the road during day time
Drove forabout 10kms,parked the car went inside the store for 10 mins, came back and the car refused to start
Battery label says changed on 2023
No lights were on at any time
Should i replace
Are markets/shops in old city closed on mondays here? Have some shopping to do in old city
My husband has involved my in laws and his sister in all the fights we have had in our initial years of marriage, despite telling him not to. I told him its not right to do so, why involve family when we chose each other, why not solve the problem by ourselves and keep a boundary. But every single time he has involved them, manipulated things in a way that it looked like i am at fault and harassing him. He also tells everything about our life to them, what we buy, what we are thinking to buy,what we are planning to do. I told him please stop saying all this because then they say something else and then he gets influenced. He says I am being controlling. For me this is breach of my privacy. His parents will call themselves progressive and neutral, but they always side with him. I called them biased in a fight and his father yelled saying how did you called me biased. My husband’s explanation to all this is, oh I am close to my parents unlike you, i share everything with them.Whenever he fights, I will initially try to be quiet and not talk, hoping things calm down first and then we will talk. That irks him off. He says you become a wall, I cant talk to you so I have to involve your parents my parents etc. post fights i Have felt the change in his family’s behaviour.
because of all this I haven’t been able to build any relation with my in laws. I feel judged all the time. Despite telling him that all this involvement is the reason why I am not able to be close to them. He thinks I Just hate them and I am being against his family. Very recently he fought with me out of nowhere and said a lot of shit, this was my mistake that I called his family to tell them all that he’s been saying. His parents manipulated things to make it look like its my fault and said very nasty things about why did i call them.
I dont know how to navigate this situation. I dont feel any love or respect for his family and I dont feel confident sharing anything with my husband because he will just go and blurt it out to his parents and will say oh they are chill and we are close. Now he says, i should never call his parents and vice versa. I told him, I respect them but I will not listen to shit at the cost of my self respect.
Post marriage, I left my job for a while, till I didnt have a job I felt really looked down upon in his family, now when I am back to my feet and earning well they seem to be envious. I get paid decent for the limited time I work, at times to make his point my husband has even said things like she has the luxury to work for 5 hours and thats why she wants to fight and not do any household work.I feel bad about this, because one why would you be jealous with your own wife’s working hours? And second I am not your maid. So if i am working limited hours, post that whatever I do sleep/pursue my hobbies why is it a problem and why is it supposed to be bought in the middle of a fight even when the fight is not even about all this?
This situation feels shit to be in. I dont know how to navigate it
In laws made a whatsapp group with us, my husbands sister and her husband. None of them talk to me, they are absolutely rude and cold. In laws had ugly arguments with me now and the. and then and try to manipulate my husband. Now randomly they’ll message good morning on the group and expect everyone to reply. Husband feels i am disrespecting them by not replying to their messages on the group. If at all i ever posted on that group, no one would reply but if someone else posted they would. Why should i be obligated to reply? This group has become a headache for me. I cant leave even if i want to.
They have been coldly telling my husband as to how i talk to everyone but them and dont reply. I only talk to people who are courteous to me, and they are not . They say the nastiest shit and expect everything to be okay because they are old. How do you deal with this situation if you were in my place? Reply or not reply to these usual helloos or whatever
I have an hdfc moneybackplus card since 5 months, cibil is around 740.
Still i am not eligible for a upgrade yet? While taking the card i was told you’ll be offered to upgrade within three months? How to go about this? Please help
New to jodhpur, where can I get pure cotton/linen clothes for women?
My husband whom I dated for ten years before marriage, post marriage whenever he gets angry has started abusing me. This was never the case before our marriage. He comments on my finances, my parents, my looks and everything. Calls me really abusive hindi words like bh@#c#%| ,Ra@d#. I have tried to make him understand that this is unacceptable and you cant abuse me no matter how angry you are. He says this is him, if I want him to not abuse, i shouldn’t disrespect him. I told him you cant threaten me and even if you feel I am disrespecting you,you should either space out or talk without abusing me or my family.
Even in that conversation he kept on abusing and kept on saying you be careful, if you dont do this I will not abuse, but if you do, you be ready to face the worst. He says when I am talking, the only way to shut me up is by abusing me. He says because i commit a mistake, this is his way of reacting, if i dont commit a mistake, he will also not say, but if i do he will make sure he makes it hell to me.
I find this extremely hurtful and unacceptable. His parents feel he has temper issues but oh he said sorry after the fight so you should let it go, how can you say sorry, expect everything to be okay and abuse again if you are not heard?
How do I deal with this?
For context i come from a good stable family and I am financially independent and working. I regret my choice today, and I feel ashamed of why and how he decided to have this right to abuse over me.
I have told him arguments or disarguments you cannot abuse me. Am i very wrong in asking for this bare minimum?
And mind you i have told all this in very polished terms, imagine a guy shouting all this in hindi jn a very disgusting way with all the gaalis you can think of.
Went to the apple store today, the blue colour model on display, which is been there for quite a while for public usecase did not look blue, it looked purplish pink. Like there was blue but the sides and the camera area was looking more purple. Just like orange is the blue colour also eventually looking like this? Wish to know before i make a decision to buy
Husband abused me by saying very derogatory shit. About my finances, the car I drive(thats my old car I have from before marriage), how he will not help me one bit financially even though I have never asked for money. I am financially independent. He said things like I have married him for alimony and he will make sure I dont get anything. I have no intent of all this. I dont even understand why he said all this. His trigger was why I have not changed my particulars(my address to his, his surname to my name etc- even though we dont live in the same city as his permanent address) to his till now after so many years of marriage. His parents got involved and said oh its a one time thing, he was angry, you both should introspect. It looked like they wanted to put the onus on me. I dont understand even if you are angry how can you say such shit? I am extremely upset with him and his parents. I stopped talking, its been two days now he wants to talk like nothing has happened. He still feels i deserved it and I am being rowdy by not talking. How do i deal with this situation?
I am a doctor, not a CA not a business person. As a doctor i have spent my life studying and i feel my financial literacy is close to zero. What do i do to improve this? How does everyone keep up with the updates on policies/where to invest/how to plan etc
Any particular place where i can go through all this?
I have a ipad air 3rd generation, the ipad works fine but the battery has started draining very fast. My question is do they replace the battery for ipad? I read somewhere that they complete change the unit with a new ipad? What does this even mean? Also for my ipad which is from 2019 i dont even see a option of battery replacement on the apple india site, what exactly does this mean???
Got my wagonr 2014 model’s throttle body and ignition coils changed, the car feels heavy while driving now and takes time to pick up the speed even after full acceleration, is this normal? What am i supposed to do?
Is it a bad idea to visit goram ghat this weekend? Will it be worth it or should wait? Also if i am going by my car, how to go further?
Hi guys
Can anyone suggest a good hotel/resort surrounded by nature. Basically green surroundings and mountains.
Thinking of doing a one day trip to somewhere from jodhpur. Please suggest. Budget till 12-13k max for a day. Anything below it is also fine! Just want some good staycation
I was sitting with a iphone 13 waiting for 18 to come up. With the whole price hike issue,I was confused whether to wait or not. My phone had started acting up,heating while charging, draining fast and hanging randomly.
For anyone who wishes for an upgrade, go for the 17 pro or promax. Its so worth it!
We cant predict the prices but one thing is for sure they’ll increase. So if you have been waiting just like me,i would recommend go ahead and buy it! Also, a lot of people are buying,stocks are limited especially if you need a particular colour.
Had planned to order from amazon, but it was out of stock. So plan at the earliest!