The final phase of NRI is Identity less

Im writing this for people aspiring to migrate abroad based on real experience

Today i spoke to my grandfather's brother and it's the first time Im talking to him

He went to US in 90s and returned back permanently this year, his 60th birthday today but his children didn't attend even among relatives only my family attented

His children and grandchildren are american citizens more like native Americans they don't feel connected to roots here except occasional visits

Most of the relatives don't realise that this person's family exists because he too came here occasionally and didn't mingle here

he talks to and has lot of friends in US but don't feel like he is one among natives.

Yes he earned good money, successful corporate career, children settled got married to natives, got green card, but deep inside there is a void to return back to India someday because he says he can't become a native,

after their children moved to Bay area, NYC for job. He felt lonely for 10 years although has friends, did lot of charity. after lot of postponement he returned home permenently this year gave up green card

He feels belongingness here but lacks friends and family here, he wished he should be buried in his share of his father's land

Over time hapiness of NRIs turns grief with age

They feel connected neither to their children nor their roots here, but has a great life in 30s 40s age

Edit - here native I mean is general americans, not that dictionary meaning of native Americans

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u/Minute-Strain5099 — 3 days ago

Resigned without Offer, any tips to get Job quickly in notice period

I have 4YOE in a SBC and lowest pay as Tester given my skills and experience, Im targeting automation testing roles but everyone are expecting immediate joiners trying since 1 year

So with hand on heart I resigned today and have 3 months notice

Please give tips and tricks to find job within 3 months

Looking for referrals for any openings at your organization

I have experience in selenium, python, ISTQB certification, GCP, API testing etc

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u/Minute-Strain5099 — 5 days ago

Power Cuts, Inkosari congress ki vote veste na cheppu tho nene kottukovali

WFH chestunna full frustrated morning nunchi 10+ times power cut, summer heat,

Last time congress ki vesa, entire warangal belt BRS to congress ayindi

but still oka tier 2 city lo inni power cuts enti

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u/Minute-Strain5099 — 17 days ago
▲ 2.4k r/hyderabad

What is 50LPA, what is FAANG, what is EMI, what is Traffic, what is 9-5 job, what is Tech

Sunkari Narahari Rao, Deputy Director, Multi Zone-II, Survey & Land Records, Telangana, Hyderabad

Net Worth - 80cr+

I work in big tech and all my colleagues are enough talented to ace any TSPSC exam if we spend like 2 years and still we ended up choosing tech in this nation and regret it

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