u/No-Belt5698

my parents dont talk to me about trans stuff or dont go into their true beliefs about it really cus ig they see me as the "woke" one but theyll happily tell my brother about this stuff and he tells me.
it wasnt anything crazy its just like "oh i think its a mental illness and i dont want to feed into by using the pronouns"
it just kinda stings cus i knew they were vaguely transphobic before. like my mom said that children should transition or my dad saying trans women shouldnt be in sports but i thought it was just whatever and if i present like a woman maybe theyd accept me.
they dont know im trans and the one time they suspected it they freaked out. i ordered an auto injector and the packaging said what it was and they immediately thought trans (not a great sign ik) but i convinced them it was for an ftm friend of mine and i heard my dad on phone (he was out but my was at the door calling him) say that "please dont ever do that stuff" i really tried to forget but i know for a fact he said that

fmstl is there even a point to coming out to them?

I just came back from longtrip aboard and the first thing i did was meet up with my gf. Im tired and shit so im boymoding. We go to the park and smoke some weed. its raining so theres no kids and we can chill under the slides in peace. while cuddling (not even anything crazy just me laying my head on their lap) this old man appears out of nowhere and sits in the bench across from us. We felt awkward but moved on to a different part of the park so we can stay alone. he moved like a minute later to another bench across from us and im too tired to think about it but my gf kept watch of this guy.

well turns out he was fucking touching himself while looking at us. ruined my whole fucking day cus i was so excited to my gf again after so long being apart.

i knew a "trans guy" in highschool who was super confident and would tell everyone hes a trans femboy. he told me once he had to opportunity to go on hormones (we were 15) and didnt cus "it was too late and besides my boobs arent gonna shrink" and i ate that up cus #everyonesvalid . god i wish i was able to go on estrogen when i was 15 in retrospect but my family would have never given me anything like that.
also he detransed or smth to an all pronouns theyfab who reposts reels about how hard it is being a woman

also he sa'd me a bunch a year after that

she likes to put her face in mens armpits (weird ik) and she keeps trying to do that my mom always makes a point to talk about how "oh she just loves doing that with men"

also my aunts cats are scared of men and are ofc scared of me

fmstl

for me i had the desire to be a woman since elementary school (somewhere around 7-8) but didnt think that was an option. (didnt know trans ppl existed) when i was 13 came out as enby and enbycoped until a year or two ago

what causes this? i mean he has facial hair and a low voice but is perma faggy and has a lot of facial piercings

my reasoning is that by putting "fem" you assume that they present feminine or their agab is immutable and will always make them feminine. theyfab doesnt do any of that, literally just says they/them female at birth. i dont get why theyfab is seen as discriminatory somehow over that?!
same goes for theymabs

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