My grandmother is always criticizing my appearance

My grandmother, whenever I come here, always criticizes my appearance, my hair, my clothes, no matter how I dress. When my hair was long, she complained about how long it was. I cut my hair, and now she's complaining about the blonde highlights I got. She always says in front of my mother, "Don't you think she should improve her hair?" She also humiliates me in the street when someone compliments me, saying things like, "But she should dress a certain way, wear dresses." And it's only with me, because my sister has an alternative and different style, and she doesn't care. I don't take her comments seriously; my self-esteem is pretty good, but I'm getting the impression that she doesn't like me and that it's better if I cut her out of my life. My mother tells me not to worry because they're elderly, but it frustrates me to go to her house and have her always find something about my appearance

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u/No_Pay_8539 — 18 days ago
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Does anyone have a mother who clearly prefers their brother/sister?

How do you deal with it? Cut off contact?

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u/No_Pay_8539 — 20 days ago

Is there some kind of disorder that causes a person to scream and say nonsensical things all the time

It's somewhat similar to Tourette's syndrome, but people with Tourette's feel bad about the tics, but this person I'm talking about doesn't; she shouts nonsensical things all the time and wants everyone to hear.

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u/No_Pay_8539 — 1 month ago

Is there some kind of disorder that causes a person to scream and say nonsensical things all the time?

It's somewhat similar to Tourette's syndrome, but people with Tourette's feel bad about the tics, but this person I'm talking about doesn't; she shouts nonsensical things all the time and wants everyone to hear.

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u/No_Pay_8539 — 1 month ago

Is there some kind of disorder that causes a person to scream and say nonsensical things all the time?

It's somewhat similar to Tourette's syndrome, but people with Tourette's feel bad about the tics, but this person I'm talking about doesn't; she shouts nonsensical things all the time and wants everyone to hear.

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u/No_Pay_8539 — 1 month ago
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Do people often have fear of you?

I wouldn't say fear, but I see that many times people don't have the courage to say things to me or they tend to do what I tell them to do. I think it's because I have a somewhat closed-off face.

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u/No_Pay_8539 — 2 months ago

Dad talks and screams with the dog all time

My dad has a dog, one of those fluffy ones, that he's obsessed with. He's always talking to it, yelling random things, ALL DAY LONG. You can't have peace if you want to study or watch something. He happily yells at the dog for everyone in the house and even on the street to hear, things like "my baby," some strange nicknames. I'm thinking of moving out and suspecting he has Tourette's. He also talks to the dog as if it understands something

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u/No_Pay_8539 — 2 months ago
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Does anyone else get scared of themselves when they're angry?

When I get angry or have a meltdown, I usually think or say horrible things, or fantasize about homicide in my head. I know I won't do it, but it's a way to relieve myself. What irritates me most are other people. I'm very self-aware, so sometimes I worry about my thoughts,Anger is a horrible feeling for me to experience

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u/No_Pay_8539 — 2 months ago
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Have you ever been a victim of jealous during your childhood/youth?

I'm a 22-year-old attractive woman. When I was a child, I was already very popular with the child-boys at school. I had two friends who, one day out of nowhere, while we were laughing and talking, started pulling my clothes, hitting me, and aggressively pulling my hair. I couldn't react; I simply stayed quiet, and they stopped, but they were laughing while they did it

Again, during adolescence, this time with two other friends, I was at one of their houses and we were talking about boys and stuff, and they were talking about about a boy who liked me. Then, out of nowhere, they both asked to put makeup on me, but they were ruining my face on purpose, applying everything wrong, and laughing at me, trying to make me look ugly with the makeup. At the time I didn't think much of it, but today I remembered and realized how strange it was.

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u/No_Pay_8539 — 3 months ago