My grandmother is always criticizing my appearance
My grandmother, whenever I come here, always criticizes my appearance, my hair, my clothes, no matter how I dress. When my hair was long, she complained about how long it was. I cut my hair, and now she's complaining about the blonde highlights I got. She always says in front of my mother, "Don't you think she should improve her hair?" She also humiliates me in the street when someone compliments me, saying things like, "But she should dress a certain way, wear dresses." And it's only with me, because my sister has an alternative and different style, and she doesn't care. I don't take her comments seriously; my self-esteem is pretty good, but I'm getting the impression that she doesn't like me and that it's better if I cut her out of my life. My mother tells me not to worry because they're elderly, but it frustrates me to go to her house and have her always find something about my appearance