Tips on how to get over her?
No idea how a 3 month situationship ending has me in a chokehold, but it does.
Tips on how to get over her? What do yall do in these trying times 😩😂
u/Ok-Salt-8884 — 12 days ago
u/Ok-Salt-8884
r/thrifting r/MakeupAddiction r/ActualLesbiansOver25 r/BeardedDragons r/Zepbound r/childfree r/LesbianActually r/doordash r/fruit r/foodsafety
Maybe a little niche 😅 but breeding kink
My situationship and I ended but I was so thrilled we had the same kink- breeding.
Any other lesbians out there who have this? Im trying not to be a sad girl thinking ill never find it again 😅
u/Ok-Salt-8884 — 18 days ago
The amount of straight girls on the dating apps. Dating app fatigue
Oh my god. WHY?
I'm on a dating app, Hinge, and it literally let's you select from a huge range of options for sexuality, including bicurious.
But nope. Its just a decent amount of women who are identifying as "straight" in the dating pool 🥴 I'm getting so tired of seeing it.
I think i need to get off the app for awhike.
Does anyone else get dating app fatigue?
u/Ok-Salt-8884 — 2 months ago
▲ 12 r/LesbianActually
I wish she liked me back
Thats it.
Just being a lonely sad sack after a literal 3 week situationship. Its so stupid. I really like her. Unfortunately she doesnt see anything with me except a friend with benefits.
Not looking for advice. Just being a sad girl tonight.
u/Ok-Salt-8884 — 2 months ago
▲ 528 r/BeardedDragons
My girl, Ruby, had her mass removed and wow. I didnt anticipate how shed look after
Ruby is at least 10- i was told she was 2 to 3 years old when I adopted her and ive had her for 8 years. She had a questionable mass and we got it removed yesterday. Im not sure what I was expecting her to look like but it wasnt this! Looks like ny sweet girl was involved in a shark attack! 😳
u/Ok-Salt-8884 — 2 months ago
▲ 0 r/fruit
Just bought some green grapes and they have brownish spots on them
Are these safe to eat? No idea what these dots are
u/Ok-Salt-8884 — 2 months ago
▲ 10 r/foodsafety
What are these brown dots on my green grapes?
Just bought them today and I'm unsure of what these dots are. Theyre like brownish red. Are these safe?
u/Ok-Salt-8884 — 2 months ago
▲ 81 r/childfree
Got my nails done and had to listen to a screaming baby for a solid 20 minutes
I found a really good nail tech finally and she is home based, okay cool. But now sometimes her baby is there. The last time was fine. This time was a nightmare. The baby screamed and cried for a solid 20 minutes. Not those quiet pouty cries. I mean screams, full belting out thise vocal cord cries.
I had to sit there and pretend to be okay with it so I could get my nails finished but oh my god I was so irritated.
I like kids- I understand they cry, can have temper tantrums, all of that. Cause theyre kids! Its expected.
I just dont want to listen to it when im paying for a service that's supposed to be relaxing.
Now i have to find a new tech and im salty.
u/Ok-Salt-8884 — 2 months ago
Nothing like your ex getting married 6 months after you break up
Thats it. Thats the title. 🙃
u/Ok-Salt-8884 — 3 months ago
Ladies in their 30s- how are yall doing your makeup and what products work well on your skin? Help!
So ive basically just not been wearing any foundation. Barely any mascara. Dont get me wrong- im okay with how i look. But I dont feel... pretty.
Id love to see what other women in their 30s are doing for makeup and any products recommended.
Ive got combo skin, dont need anything too heavy. Ive tried the fenty tinted moisturizer and just hated it. I feel like it just looks... wrong. Like it slides off.
My skin care is somewhat simple. I use gentle face wash 2x a day. PM I use snail mucin, a niacinimide serum, and treitinoin. Followed by moisture.
AM is sometimes a BHA Paula's choice toner (not everyday, but for my sebaceous filaments) and then moisturizer and sunscreen.
Definitely need help 😭
u/Ok-Salt-8884 — 3 months ago
▲ 20 r/BeardedDragons
Tumor on my 11 year old beardie - advice?
So my little girl got her mass checked again. She had it checked about a year and 4 months ago. We checked it again this month and sent out samples for pathology.
Here is the update from our vet:
"The sample contained a small number of spindle-shaped cells, which are cells that arise from connective tissues such as fibrous tissue. Based on the appearance of these cells and the fact that the mass has remained essentially unchanged for the past year, the pathologist feels this is most consistent with a well-differentiated spindle cell proliferation, which could represent a slow-growing connective tissue tumor. Cytology alone, however, cannot determine whether this is benign or malignant.
At this point, I think there are two equally reasonable options. Because the mass has been stable for about a year and is not bothering her, it is very reasonable to continue monitoring it for any changes in size, shape, color, firmness, or ulceration. The other option would be to surgically remove the mass and submit it for histopathology (biopsy). This would provide the most definitive diagnosis and, if it is a tumor of concern, would both take care of the bulk of the problem as well as more specifically guide next steps"
I adopted Ruby 8 years ago and she was "3 or 4" so shes probably around 11. Surgery goes from about 1k to 2,200 (USD) but then also need to add in pre surgical blood work. So about another 300. So maybe 1,300 to 2,500k. It her age and also the tumor not growing in (almost) a year and a half. Im leaning towards monitoring.
Curious to see what other owners would do/advice
u/Ok-Salt-8884 — 3 months ago
▲ 650 r/BeardedDragons
Her last meal *follow up from yesterday's post*
As a follow up from yesterday's post- here is my girl, who was by my side for a decade, and her last meal with all your suggestions. Oranges, watermelon, scrambled eggs, sweet little short cakes, peaches, cheese, and blueberries.
Of course she didnt even eat 5% of this. Dont ask me why I made a human size plate lol.
And her favorite wasssss... THE ORANGE. Thanks all for your suggestions. Shes on the other side and I'll see her in the next life, I hope.
u/Ok-Salt-8884 — 3 months ago
▲ 33 r/childfree
For those CF but still have friends who want kids/have kids - vaccine question
Not quite a rant? But like. Mixed emotions learning my friend wouldn't vax her potential child. Also not sure if this is the best subreddit but took a chance lmao.
I have a friend who wants a child. Cool, whatever, love that for them if it makes them happy (couldn't be me lmao). I have friends who have kids and CF friends, too.
But i had a nosey question. I asked her if she had a kid would she vaccinate them and she said no..
Im like Hella pro vax (like i feel normal people are...? Like do you want your kid to get measles????) and I get its not my potential child but im like? What?
Has anyone like ran into this or just got irritated reading news stories about people not vaccinating their children.
u/Ok-Salt-8884 — 3 months ago
▲ 495 r/BeardedDragons
My girls last day is Friday. What are some forbidden treats that I can spoil her right before?
Like dogs being given chocolate before.
Ive been spoiling her with superworms, blueberries and hornworms.
Any auggestions?
u/Ok-Salt-8884 — 4 months ago
▲ 56 r/doordash
My dasher just asked me for an additional tip
I tipped 20% on my order per usual, and just got this message. Im not sure how to react? How should I respond? I doordashed before for a weekend and remember being able to accept orders and see distance (is this still the case?) So im bit unsure why they'd be asking for more.
u/Ok-Salt-8884 — 4 months ago
Would you date someone who doesnt have friends?
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Im interested in this girl- but in true lesbian fashion, im getting attached after a week. she did mention in the beginning she isnt close with some family and doesnt have friends.
As someone with a small circle, i thought maybe she meant something similar. But it kind of seems like she actually doesnt have friends.
Am I over thinking? Cause it kinda seems like a red flag?
u/Ok-Salt-8884 — 4 months ago
▲ 124 r/ActualLesbiansOver25
Bush or no bush?
33F and i love hair. I love it on myself and my partner.
Obviously you can't control another person's comfort and choices but I seriously lose attraction at fully bald. It makes me feel like..... um. It creeps me out, reminds me of someone young.
Just a little strubble. Little something. Nope just smooth as a dolphin. Freaks me out.
Anyone else in this camp?
u/Ok-Salt-8884 — 4 months ago
Anyone else just, really fucking sad?
Seriously how does a 3 week situationship that ended fuck me up so much?
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Im Re reading the texts and im like fuuuuqqqqqqqqq.
u/Ok-Salt-8884 — 4 months ago
▲ 186 r/Zepbound
Im so thankful for zepbound but man im a little sad right now
I (34F), was 160 at 5'1- obese, fatty liver, and sleep apnea. And now im down to 133, much healthier. Liver enzymes normalized and sleeping better.
But looking down at my stomach, i see all these new weird stretch marks. I know we all have them, i had them at a young age around my thighs but this is new. A lot of times I feel confident with less fat but noticing more marks and more... skin.
Not sure the point of this post- sorry. Was just looking for a safe space to share my thoughts.
u/Ok-Salt-8884 — 5 months ago