Should if I cut my grandma off when I turn 19?
I (16F) want to cut off my grandma once I move out of my parent’s house. The most recent thing she had done is killed our family dog. She left him outside and never let him back in. He was a pug and his name was Bruce. However she has also killed who other animals. Two cats. She let them outside even when we begged her to not let them out because we live next to a park with coyotes. One was hit by a car not far from our house and the other was killed by a coyote. She’s also incredibly rude. Everytime I see her she makes some jab at my weight. (I am working on it) but last time she said “I wonder why \[job I work at\] hired you. You obviously are too fat to do that.” I also do Legos/models and she gets mad when I buy them because “why aren’t you saving”. My therapist says when I am older I should cut her off, but my parents are huge “blood is thicker than water” people. I feel like this will cause me to be ousted from the rest of my family. Should I cut her off to protect my family, or for my own sake?