Can they take the baby to another country??

Foster agency called me saying my now recently deceased father’s baby needs an emergency home and I am next of kin. I say yes immediately but request paternity test because pretty sure my father wasn’t physically able to conceive around the time they did due to cancer and several related surgeries slightly before, during and after that time.

My sister gets a message from one of his colleagues who befriended the wife and said the baby’s uncle IN TURKEY is taking the baby and they’re trying to get a passport. Is this normal? Is this possible during investigation? I live in PA.

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u/Old_Ad261 — 5 days ago
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What size rug and couch

I’m moving in a month and would love to get ahead by buying some furniture before moving in. I included pics of the house to fill in gaps with the measurements I don’t have. I’d love to know what size couch and rug I can buy, but also things like what shape couch and anything else.

The room is 18’10”x 13’

We can’t do what they did because half the room is “dead space” but also I need a good buffer between the inside and outside to wash the dogs paws. I also don’t know where the tv would go because Reddit says never above fireplace.

u/Old_Ad261 — 2 months ago

CandyJar account subscription

Does anyone wanna share CandyJar accounts and split the annual cost? Is that even possible? None of my friends watch vertical dramas so hopefully a Reddit friend does

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u/Old_Ad261 — 3 months ago

Technology and vpn confusion

For those of you who watch vertical shorts for free using daily motion, how do you do it? I tried last night on my phones safari and it prompted me to download an app for a vpn. Should I have done that? I was too scared because I thought vpn for dark web

Today, I tried downloading dailymotion and it’s saying to create account with an email. People on Reddit say they’re using dailymotion and vpn and ad blocker apps or extensions. Isn’t using email and having a vpn blocker contradicting?

Does anyone use Amazon prime to watch any of these? How do you find them?

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u/Old_Ad261 — 3 months ago

Something to occasionally play in snow

Experts, I’ve spent months going in circles on what to buy and need help. I want snow pants or snow bib to play in the snow with my baby. Nothing super fancy. I’m looking at snow bibs and they all look the same, descriptions vary only slight, but the prices range from $80-800….

Preferably pfas free*

Please be specific, I don’t need help with brands, but specific items from brands

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u/Old_Ad261 — 3 months ago

How come I keep hearing about declining population and lower birth rates, but so many new houses and apartments are being made?

In my Bucks County (pa) home town, a development is being fixed to “solve the housing crisis” but is there a housing crisis? I thought a lot of people just can’t afford homes, I didn’t think it was because there’s not enough of them?

If you know a better sub for this post please help me out. I’m so confused. So my sister lives in “working class” income homes and they want to build brand new working class homes…. But won’t that make the existing working class homes worth even less and essentially be like poverty?

How are we letting this all happen?

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u/Old_Ad261 — 3 months ago

Am I screwed for having a noise violation in 2023 on my record? Will my application be discarded right away? I live in a competitive area and jobs are tough to get around here and even in less desirable neighborhoods

Teaching jobs are very competitive in my area for all grades and subjects, both good and bad schools. I have a noise violation from 2023 on my record. Is this going to make it significantly tougher? I’m 28 now. I’d be applying for lower elementary, if that’s helpful.

I’m worried my application will automatically will automatically be discarded after disclosing it when answer the questions

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u/Old_Ad261 — 3 months ago

Rug cleaning

I have a 9x12 rug that’s machine washable. It’s from hook and loom. The contents are: 85% cotton; 12% polyester; 3% other clothing fibers). Should I hire a company to clean it or should I try to do something with it at home? It obviously won’t fit in my washer machine. Any advice and directions would be helpful. Is this something I can do from home? What should I use and how should I do it?

Includes below are the care instructions from the website:

Our Eco Cotton rugs are made from 100% recycled fiber. To keep them in ship shape:
Vacuum regularly. Please do not use a beater bar.
If you choose to shake the rug, please roll the hem a little before grabbing it. We use cotton thread which is not as strong as the synthetic thread used on most other rugs.
Use as-is until it needs washing. While our rugs wash beautifully, normal shrinkage will occur during the first wash, and your rug pad may need re-trimming. After one wash, we have seen no further shrinkage. Please remove the label from reversible rugs prior to washing. This will prevent the adhesive from bonding to the rug and making that side of the rug unuseable.
Washing your Eco Cotton Rug
Machine wash cold. Use any detergent with no bleach. If the rug does not fit comfortably in your home machine it can be washed at a laundromat or commercial laundry. Please do not stuff it in too tightly. The water needs to circulate freely.
Tumble dry. Most dryers will stop while the rug is still slightly damp. If this happens, it’s fine to take it out and lay it flat (on a water-resistant floor) until it dries fully.
Clip off any thread or yarn ends that loosen in the wash.  This will probably be needed only after the first wash, if at all.  If a small knot appears (weavers may tie the yarns, if needed, during weaving), use a dull pointed object to poke the knot back into the rug.

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u/Old_Ad261 — 3 months ago

Genuinely feel so pretty

I got medik8’s liquid peptide serum because I saw several comments of people saying it made them look good instantly. I don’t know if I actually look better or if it shows I’ve been using something when I don’t use it, but I feel like it makes me so much prettier. In hindsight, they were prob ads which is scary.

My well meaning, sometimes overly critical twin has also stopped asking me if I’ve had water lol. I do kind of want to get her one but since I’m new to skincare, can someone confirm with me if the ingredients actually are helpful and if it’s effective??

Edit: I made this post because I had slight concerns that I was influenced by spam marketing on Reddit (not sure of the correct terminology)

Second edit: you guys are freaking me out about these guerilla posts if you think this is one. I’m literally uneducated in skincare and ingredients. Rhode milk and glaze has achieved the same thing, but idk if it’s more make up-y skincare vs treatment and long term goal oriented skincare.

Last edit: someone said results don’t last and I agree. Does that make it more makeup-y?

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u/Old_Ad261 — 4 months ago
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Shoe help

1.) for the first photo: what season do wear these shoes? Are they all 4 season? Can they be dressed up and down? What’s the most versatile color?

2.) second photo: what kind of outfit do you wear this with beside bathing suit? Can you wear them with a dress and are they the kind that can be dressed up and down?

u/Old_Ad261 — 4 months ago

Cookware help

Hey everyone - you helped me out a few months ago with one of my posts. I still have not gotten any cookware and my baby is ready (been ready) to start eating solids. We’ve been getting by because of grandma and wegmans hot bar. Aside from my one unused wok and small cast iron skillet, I still need to buy stuff. Please know, I’ve never cooked anything but noodles so I’m trying to remember what braise vs saute vs the other verbs mean. I’m not developed enough as a cook to have the foresight to say “oh I’ll use this pot or pan because I’ll need to do x”. One time I needed to sear and I used cast iron skillet and it was fine.

According to my research, “Rondeau - searing, deep frying, sauté, braise, and reduce all in the same Rondeau—a one pan meal at its finest.”

My questions:
1.) Out of the three photos, what is a need and what is a want? (Yes I read the wiki)

2.) can I use any of these three photos to boil pasta? If so, which? Can the Dutch oven be a stock pot too?

3.) “Saute Pans are better for the “jumping” motion sautéeing requires.” ….. Can’t I just use a wok if I need to make things jump? Or can’t I use a wooden spoon and mix it instead? I do a have fry pan too, can’t that work?

u/Old_Ad261 — 4 months ago

What do I do/how does this work

Im 28 and have my bachelors in k-4. I’ve only ever been a building sub and had one long term sub position. I left subbing in the fall of 2024 to have a baby and I want to apply to places for fall of 2027.

I’m so confused and worried about what I keep hearing about layoffs. Literally, yesterday I told my partner that I would apply to school districts nearby that are less desirable so I can be done with substituting and then I’d just keep working on applying to my dream schools and districts. Just this morning, I saw that both the less desirable and even the better districts are, or have, cut SO MANY JOBS.

This is where I need help. I was going to begin masters program to help make me more marketable and so I can hopefully stay home one more year with my baby, but still be doing something for myself. Would not having a masters at the moment actually work in my favor since they wouldn’t have to pay me so much??

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u/Old_Ad261 — 4 months ago

Botox and now nose scrunching - Help

I got my 11s done and a few other places around my forehead … now it’s almost like pulling on my nose skin when I make certain faces. It wasn’t a problem before. Do I go to my dermatologist, who is a third party, and ask for what to do? Or do I go back to the injector I went to? It’s like freaking me out, my nose didn’t have this problem before and I’m worried it’s going to age me until the Botox finishes its coarse. I don’t think I look weird but my nose feels … fatigued almost ??

I can’t tell if it’s really a big problem, or if I’m feeling where my nose is now scrunching so much because im hyper fixated and anxious

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u/Old_Ad261 — 5 months ago

New to cooking, is this crock pot safe

New to cooking, it’s going awful.

Anyway, I have a question for the crunchiest of the crunchys - is the crock pot in the target photo safe? It’s the one I have. If not should I upgrade to the vitaclay or is that a “you don’t need that, you can just use _____”??

u/Old_Ad261 — 5 months ago

Hue vs essentials question

Hey guys, new to all of this. The first two images are what I’m going after, but I want to be able to adjust the brightness so I figured Philips hue. Does anyone know if the essentials kit/bulbs can achieve this?

u/Old_Ad261 — 5 months ago

Immediate help

Hey experts and enthusiasts, I can become extremely hyper fixated with things like this and I do not have the time today or this week. Please help recommend a new vacuum for under $300 to help me avoid doing a deep dive and becoming hyper fixated.

I was using a shark rocket and the chord starting exposing the inner wires and this morning, MAJOR sparks were flying out so I’m too scared to use it. It was ok, not bad or good. I like that it had a light when it was turned on because it made cleaning more fun and it was helpful. It wasn’t overly heavy so I could whip it out easily, but it wasn’t too light where it was only good for quick messes.

I vacuum multiple times a day, usually a quick pickup and deep clean in the PM. We are renters, so I am hesitant to ball out on a vacuum because our needs may change when we move. I have messy toddler, husband, and dog with short hair (not fur).

I occasionally use my sisters powerhouse of a vacuum, Dyson animal, when I want to get DEEEP into cleaning but it’s way too rough on my living room rug (major investment) even with the beater brush off.

My favorite thing is see how much I can fill the canister each clean…. but for how much I vacuum I’m wondering if it’s bad how much it fills up despite the fact I vacuumed a few hours ago.

I don’t care about having to clean hair from the vacuum brush and I don’t care about needing to replace filters. My budget is at or around $300 or less at the moment. Final note - we spend SO MUCH time on our floors from playing to laying down.

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u/Old_Ad261 — 5 months ago

BUTTERBLU and GOTS

So as consumers, it’s seems like we’re stepping our game with demanding transparency and safer materials in fabrics and textiles. Someone recently made a post about Quince and potential false labeling.

Something similar happened to me with Butterblu. I was about to do an entire clothing haul for my baby and unfortunately their GOTS certification claim didn’t include any information beyond an icon.

I messaged them and requested a copy of their transaction certification for several of the clothing sets I was about to buy. After several days and an additional email requesting it, they finally got back to me three hours ago with a link to their “about” page. I will be following up as this is frustrating and unsettling.

In short - I’m not saying they don’t sell GOTS certified clothing, however, they have yet to be able to prove it. (By the way, consumers shouldn’t have to even email brands to personally confirm the validity of their GOTS claim because usually it’s on an items web page)

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u/Old_Ad261 — 5 months ago

I’m looking for resources (pdfs/fact sheets preferably) to help me with buying things like meat and eggs. The photos I included are an example of what I am confused about.

For clothing and textiles, there’s oeko Tex and GOTS certifications. Then for each, there’s a database to ensure authenticity and type of label. It gets pretty nitty gritty.

Can someone help guide me towards specific resources they’ve used but for buying food?

u/Old_Ad261 — 6 months ago