u/One_Average_41

she is a minor and she made a random lip syncing reel which might made her happy but,

the top comment of that reel joking about a rapist

Not trying to turn this into a gender war, but I keep seeing men say they're scared to marry because of a few cases they've heard about. And honestly, do they ever stop to think about what goes through women’s minds when they hear about countless cases of harassment, abuse, rape, dowry violence, and domestic violence? If a few cases can make men afraid of marriage, imagine what hearing about these realities so often can make women feel.

men and women are statistically far more likely to be killed by men than by women. yet when a woman kills a man, it often provokes selective outrage because it challenges traditional ideas about masculinity, power, and gender roles more than the broader reality of male violence does.

**and yes every single crime irrespective of gender deserves justice and I never denied that**

(this is a 5 weeks old reel, so data is much higher now)

I'm not saying misandry doesn't exist. Of course people can be prejudiced or hateful towards men. My point is that comparing misandry and misogyny as if they're the same thing ignores the history, scale and impact behind them.

Misogyny isn't just "some people don't like women". For centuries it has been built into laws, institutions, social norms and expectations. Women were denied basic rights like voting, education, property ownership, financial independence and political participation. And even today, women face disproportionate levels of sexual violence, domestic violence, harassment, child marriage, FGM in some places, workplace discrimination and sexual double standards.

And it's not limited to one area. You see gender inequality in workforce and leadership, unpaid care work, medicine and research, politics, education, media, online spaces and everyday life. Women are still more likely to be judged for their appearance, sexuality, age and "likability", while men are often judged more on status and achievement.

There's also internalized misogyny. Women can absorb the same sexist ideas they grow up around and then reinforce them against other women. Women slut shaming other women, policing their clothes or sexuality, or believing women are naturally "too emotional" or "bad leaders" doesn't prove misogyny isn't real. If anything, it shows how deeply social norms can become ingrained.

And then there is the way women are treated after being victimized. A woman is secretly recorded, sexually assaulted, or has an intimate video shared without consent, and somehow the questions become "Why was she there?", "Why did she trust him?", "Why did she record it?" or "What was she wearing?" Instead of asking why someone violated her privacy or consent. Victims can end up facing slut shaming, harassment and social consequences while the perpetrator receives far less attention. In some tragic cases, the psychological consequences can be devastating.

And yes, men have serious issues too. I'm not denying any of that, but why does every conversation about those issues have to happen as a response to women talking about misogyny?

(Feel free to correct me if I am wrong anywhere and share your opinions too and any point that I forgot to mention)

im genuinely laughing hard rn🤣, imagine just a single msg broke their lil delicate egos

this was a reel of two siblings, one little girl and his elder brother and this is the top comment. imagine sexualizing a sibling duo and thinking its funny

well i guess these are expected usually from husband material guys