u/Over-Incident-8729

Hey all! I been trying to find new queer (in this case butch) friends. I’ve had many lesbian friends over the years and none lasted, very fake people have been in my life. Anyways, I post tiktoks here and there about fashion and my relationship and try to become mutuals with others. Making friends in different states and having each other on social media is just fun, and I love making new friends. I’ve come to realize the TikTok butch community is very standoffish.. a lot of people who have butch in their bio or make videos about it have a a few hundred followers and only follow 12 people.. like okay that’s fine but more common than you think. They are not open to new friendships. I also notice them liking comments and not following back.. also fine but sigh it’s hard. Yes bars/clubs/events irl are easier than online but any other recommendations for meeting friends?

Went from having 1,000+ views on all my shorts, and even if they didn’t do well even a few hundred to 0. Everyday posting one, it gets 0. For weeks now. No violations on my account. Why?????!!!

First time purchase was when the glitter tees released a few weeks ago.. all the promo pics are gone from the Instagram??? Anyone know what that’s about?

Anybody use Dr. Bronner soap and just put it onto a loofah mix it in and then wash yourself I know it’s supposed to be diluted but I never do that and now that I’m thinking about it.. I do kind of have some dry skin so I was wondering if anybody else does it just for the convenience

Hi everyone! As I get older I start to shy away from calling myself a “masc lesbian”. When I was younger it resonated, picture your typical hey mamas lesbian. I am now 22 and have a whole different look and maturity to myself. I have a short mullet (a bit longer than shoulder) and style wise think baggy jeans and vintage tees. Does a butch have to have short hair?

Hi all! Vulnerable post. I have been on 15mg of lexapro for about 2 years now. It saved my life. You read a lot online that lexapro makes people numb and not care but that’s not really the case for me. When it comes to feelings, yes I am numb. I don’t care when people are mad at me. Upset with me. My brain can’t seem to care it’s just like okay well I don’t know what you want me to say. But when it comes to fear, I feel fear 100%. I’m scared to do things, to say things, and it gives me horrible anxiety. I don’t understand why I can not care for people’s emotions but I could care for fear? I guess it’s better then being 100% numb to everything. Anyone else have similar experiences?

Hi all! Vulnerable post. I have been on 15mg of lexapro for about 2 years now. It saved my life. You read a lot online that lexapro makes people numb and not care but that’s not really the case for me. When it comes to feelings, yes I am numb. I don’t care when people are mad at me. Upset with me. My brain can’t seem to care it’s just like okay well I don’t know what you want me to say. But when it comes to fear, I feel fear 100%. I’m scared to do things, to say things, and it gives me horrible anxiety. I don’t understand why I can not care for people’s emotions but I could care for fear? I guess it’s better then being 100% numb to everything. Anyone else have similar experiences?

I posted a few days ago asking for some advice on my trip to Oregon in November. I did not give many details unfortunately so this time I’m going to be more specific. 2 girls, early 20s, love shopping/nature, will have a rental car. We do like to drink. Vintage/thrift shops are a must. Any hidden gem scenic views? Where should I look for Airbnbs around? We will be staying for 5 days. Locals please help!!

I’m only halfway through tonight’s episode but why is gal giving rude? When he was speaking to Jen questioning her…

What app do you have more success on? I posted things that have been sitting on Depop for a year on vinted and they sold immediately

Hi guys, I’ve been a reseller for about 5+ years now. I’ve been documenting it on YouTube the past year. I don’t get much traction. I basically record with my meta glasses and record my hauls. As a reseller do you like to watch thrifting content? What do you like to see in videos? I need some advice on what people wanna watch!

I just bought an e-bike from marketplace and it worked perfectly. I bring it home and it’s dead, I charged battery for about 2 hours and the screen won’t turn on. Does it need to charge for hours for just the screen to come on?