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Title: Why do I feel shy wearing shirts even at 21?

I’m 21M, and I’ve had this weird insecurity about wearing shirts since childhood. Even now, I feel shy or uncomfortable wearing a normal shirt, especially around other people. T-shirts feel much more natural and comfortable to me.

I know it sounds like a small thing, but it’s been with me for years, and sometimes I wonder why I feel this way. Has anyone else experienced something similar, where you’ve been uncomfortable wearing a certain type of clothing since childhood? Did you eventually get over it?

How do you deal with the feeling that your job takes away your entire life?

I’ve been working for around 1.5 years now. My current job is a day shift, from 10:30 AM to 7:30 PM, so I spend around 9 hours at work every day.

After logging off, I come home, eat, shower, relax for a bit, and before I know it, it’s time to sleep and get ready for work again.

What’s bothering me is that I genuinely feel like I have no time for myself anymore. The days go by so quickly, and it feels like the same cycle keeps repeating: work → home → sleep → work.

I know having a job is normal and I’m not expecting to have unlimited free time, but I’m wondering how other people deal with this feeling.

How do you maintain a life outside of work when your job takes up most of your day? And at what point did you decide that you needed to change your job, schedule, or lifestyle?

How strict is Emirates’ employment/background verification for cabin crew?

I’m planning to apply for Emirates cabin crew and I have a question about the one-year hospitality/customer-service experience requirement.

I previously worked as a receptionist at a small, locally owned hotel for around 1.5 years. The hotel belonged to a relative, and I was genuinely involved in the day-to-day work there, including dealing with guests and handling reception duties.

However, there are a few complications:

It was a very small/local hotel.

I was staying with my relative, so I wasn’t receiving a regular salary.

I don’t have formal salary slips or employment documents from that job.

The property has since been sold by my relative, so the hotel is no longer under his ownership.

For those who have applied to or worked for Emirates, how strict is the employment/background verification process?

Would it be reasonable to include this experience on my application if I can provide some form of reference or other evidence, or would the lack of formal employment records make it risky to include?

I’m not trying to misrepresent anything—I genuinely worked there. I just want to understand how Emirates usually handles this type of informal/small-business work experience and whether it can count toward the one-year requirement.

Hi everyone! I’m aspiring to join Emirates as cabin crew, and I’m trying to get a realistic idea of the overall monthly salary.

From what I understand, the basic salary is around AED 4,980, and the flying pay is approximately AED 69.6 per flying hour. I have a general idea of how these two components work, but I’m not very clear about the meal allowance and other allowances.

I understand that the meal allowance depends on the destination, country, and number of layovers, so I’m not looking for an exact figure. I’d just like to know the average amount you usually receive in a month.

For example, would it typically be around AED 3,000–4,000 per month, more than that, or less?

If any current or former Emirates cabin crew members could share a rough monthly figure, I’d really appreciate it. I’m just trying to understand the realistic monthly take-home package before I pursue this career.

Thank you! ✈️

Hi everyone! I’m aspiring to join Emirates as cabin crew, and I’m trying to get a realistic idea of the overall monthly salary.

From what I understand, the basic salary is around AED 4,980, and the flying pay is approximately AED 69.6 per flying hour. I have a general idea of how these two components work, but I’m not very clear about the meal allowance and other allowances.

I understand that the meal allowance depends on the destination, country, and number of layovers, so I’m not looking for an exact figure. I’d just like to know the average amount you usually receive in a month.

For example, would it typically be around AED 3,000–4,000 per month, more than that, or less?

If any current or former Emirates cabin crew members could share a rough monthly figure, I’d really appreciate it. I’m just trying to understand the realistic monthly take-home package before I pursue this career.

Thank you! ✈️

Pata hai aaj kya hua soo we work in a small firm where we have common washroom for both genders so I was getting fresh and there was no enough water so washed and went outside then my crush use the same washroom and come outside and shouted go and clean it dude are u stupid or what in front of everyone I'm embarrassed

It was happened on Friday I'm still crying idk how I'm gonna eye contact them on Monday

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So we work in a small firm where we have common washroom for both genders so I was getting fresh and there was no enough water so washed and went outside then my crush use the same washroom and come outside and shouted go and clean it dude are u stupid or what in front of everyone I'm embarrassed

It was happened on Friday I'm still crying idk how I'm gonna eye contact them on Monday

Pta hai aaj kya hua

Ab me kya karu

21M

I have crush who is also my friend 20F we are office colleague and yesterday I invite her just for dinner that's it she came we had dinner after then she went to washrooms to wash her face and saw my underwear with two big hole 😭

For context I purposely wore that underwear at home since I live alone and most of the time I'm naked

But she saw and said nothing

Once she left I cried

So I heard from an ex Emirates cabin crew that apply with fake experience fake it till u make it

According to her Emirates does not check prior experience reference as they don't have time or resources to do that

Is it correct?

So my mama sends me 5 lakhs and he is nice men supported me financially and even stayed at his place for 2 year because of seperation with my father

I told him u send me this money for tax purposes

He said yes

Now I don't understand how one can get benefit in tax while transferring money to someone else account

He is CA by profession 10exp btw

For those of you who work as cabin crew, especially at airlines like Emirates, Qatar Airways, or Etihad:

As a new joiner, were you ever nervous or intimidated by your pursuer or senior cabin crew during flights because they were supervising and evaluating you?

But then during layovers or days off, everyone goes to the beach, pool, or other leisure activities together. It suddenly feels so different—you might be wearing swim shorts, be shirtless at the beach or pool, and just hanging out with the same seniors you were nervous around a few hours earlier.

Did that feel awkward at first? How do you mentally switch from the professional hierarchy onboard to such a relaxed environment off duty? Does it become normal after a while, or is it still a bit strange seeing your seniors in such a casual setting?

I'd love to hear your experiences.

For those of you who work as cabin crew, especially at airlines like Emirates, Qatar Airways, or Etihad:

As a new joiner, were you ever nervous or intimidated by your pursuer or senior cabin crew during flights because they were supervising and evaluating you?

But then during layovers or days off, everyone goes to the beach, pool, or other leisure activities together. It suddenly feels so different—you might be wearing swim shorts, be shirtless at the beach or pool, and just hanging out with the same seniors you were nervous around a few hours earlier.

Did that feel awkward at first? How do you mentally switch from the professional hierarchy onboard to such a relaxed environment off duty? Does it become normal after a while, or is it still a bit strange seeing your seniors in such a casual setting?

I'd love to hear your experiences.

I'm 21M skinny and currently I'm living in ahemdabad and I just love to be shirtless in rain outside I also love to run in rainy season can I do that ?? I mean is it ethical or appropriate or not???

I'm 21M from india Guys today is my first day at my corporate job I'm so nervous I'm not good with computers and I will be working there in American Taxes

I quit my previous job in 2 months in same field coz terrible anxiety and no training it's small firm of 4 people and I can rely on 1 person only to learn this and he was Lil toxic

I gave my Akasa Air cabin crew interview in indore it was invite only

There were 90 candidates only

14 of us made into third round which was personal round

After clearing GD and BMI

Now in third round the told 11 candidates including me to leave for the day and we will update by mail

And she took 4 th round of remaining 3 candidates

It means am I rejected???

Also she ask me would you rather choose to work as a ground staff or wait the mail I said I will wait for the cabin crew mail.

The personal interview was for around 6 min

And I showed my research about the airline in answer

I gave my Akasa Air cabin crew interview in indore it was invite only

There were 90 candidates only

14 of us made into third round which was personal round

After clearing GD and BMI

Now in third round the told 11 candidates including me to leave for the day and we will update by mail

And she took 4 th round of remaining 3 candidates

It means am I rejected???

Also she ask me would you rather choose to work as a ground staff or wait the mail I said I will wait for the cabin crew mail.

The personal interview was for around 6 min

And I showed my research about the airline in answer

I'm 21M from India tomorrow is my first cabin crew interview with Akasa at Indore location I'm excited and little nervous too.

I hate my corporate job and I just can't wait to get my dream job as crew

Please help me with tips to crack

I'm indian 21M and I just hate clothes specially in summer I don't have separate room so I love to chill shirtless but also I have to put on something whenever anyone come so idk u guys feels this too or is it me only

I'm indian 21M and I just hate clothes specially in summer I don't have separate room so I love to chill shirtless but also I have to put on something whenever anyone come so idk u guys feels this too or is it me only

So I'm 21M hate clothes specially in summer and don't have separate room I like to be shirtless in day and love naked sleeping but unfortunately as I don't have separate room so can't live that life so is it only me or u also face this???