u/Personal_Air8926

How do u guys deal with retrospective jealousy?

Like how much importance should be given to past? How to get over a feeling that someone else might have shared the moments. That someone else was the centre of her life (for which she loved him so much that she was ready to do anything).

How to get over RJ? How to make sure it goes?

Because this creates a fear of marrying a non virgin wife (who has lied earlier) and a doubt.

I respect everyone. When it comes to me, I am (decided) like a one woman guy. I am not into hookups or anything, so this holds greater value for me.

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u/Personal_Air8926 — 18 hours ago

Why I (generally) never saw a couple where girl is very attractive and guy is not good looking/rich in college or school. But i have always seen slightly old couples where women is attractive and husband is not that attractive and chubby? (my observation not a generalization)?

Like what is the main issue? If the end point is indeed that slightly chubby not so good looking husband, then why appear to date only good looking or very rich guys in scl clg?

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u/Personal_Air8926 — 19 hours ago

"No one cares when it's a boy" Isnt this line scary and dreamy at the same time?

For women, when they fail, when they faulter, they are allowed to express and people help them and still they can live with dignity.

For us, it is different. I fell on road, i will get up myself. Something bad happened to me, i'm a man, i should take care myself.

This line is dreamy for girls,but scary for guys.

Because we know that no matter how we cry, no one will help us. Moreover, we will be termed weak and incapable and i don't know what more.

That is it. That is the reason for me. No one cares when it's

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u/Personal_Air8926 — 2 days ago

It's only in movies that a girl initially says no and then when u take care of her etc etc then she says "yes" and falls for you deeply...it has no connection irl

Just reminding...

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u/Personal_Air8926 — 3 days ago

Should i still try? or should i learn to let go?

So i was talking to this girl from last 2-3 yrs. and we had really great tuning (or so i felt). But not anymore.

We went into a situationship for sometime, but then we mututally ended it since it was LDR thingy and i told her that i will try AFTER coming back to the same state.

Now, when i came back and tried to talk to her,i felt things are off. She said that she didnt find anyone but still now the talk isnt that great.

Everything in me wants this to work, but still. I told her some things she used to tell me when we used to flirt and she replied "forget them, i dont even remember if i said it"

Now whenever i try to talk to her, she gets angry saying "u always piss me off" or "u always waste my time".

Now the major thing came when i gifted her an artpiece (i made for her) and got very very dry reply.

From then on, i think, she is not there anymore.

My texts are getting answered late (the texts which used to get answered in 5 mins at max when we were in situationship stage)

I think i am bothering her by trying more. Maybe this is the end and i should let go of it.

I still want her. I still want to be with her forever. But i dont think she wants me.

More often my messages are left on seen now or i think so.

TL;DR: Talked to a girl for 2-3 years, ended a short LDR situationship mutually with plans to try again when I moved back. Now I’m back, but she's completely cold, claims she doesn't remember our past flirting, replies late/leaves me on seen, and says I "always piss her off." I even made her an art piece and got a dry response. I still want her, but it’s clear she has checked out and I need to let go.

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u/Personal_Air8926 — 4 days ago

I think i need to learn to let her go am i correct?

So i was talking to this girl from last 2-3 yrs. and we had really great tuning (or so i felt). But not anymore.

We went into a situationship for sometime, but then we mututally ended it since it was LDR thingy and i told her that i will try AFTER coming back to the same state.

Now, when i came back and tried to talk to her,i felt things are off. She said that she didnt find anyone but still now the talk isnt that great.

Everything in me wants this to work, but still. I told her some things she used to tell me when we used to flirt and she replied "forget them, i dont even remember if i said it"

Now whenever i try to talk to her, she gets angry saying "u always piss me off" or "u always waste my time".

Now the major thing came when i gifted her an artpiece (i made for her) and got very very dry reply.

From then on, i think, she is not there anymore.

My texts are getting answered late (the texts which used to get answered in 5 mins at max when we were in situationship stage)

I think i am bothering her by trying more. Maybe this is the end and i should let go of it.

I still want her. I still want to be with her forever. But i dont think she wants me.

More often my messages are left on seen now or i think so.

TL;DR: Talked to a girl for 2-3 years, ended a short LDR situationship mutually with plans to try again when I moved back. Now I’m back, but she's completely cold, claims she doesn't remember our past flirting, replies late/leaves me on seen, and says I "always piss her off." I even made her an art piece and got a dry response. I still want her, but it’s clear she has checked out and I need to let go.

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u/Personal_Air8926 — 4 days ago

Do u think social media has actually given an illusion of choice?

Like, i agree it helps people connect and now LDRs are possible easily etc etc and u can get connected to better people.But it has also increased standards too. People who "post" online (in general) are ofc "attractive" else their content wouldve been vanished. The sole reason of their popularity is exception.

Now XYZ from delhi thinks he/she deserves better cuz someone sitting miles away from them is talking good to them and the peopel arounf them arent what they desevre

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u/Personal_Air8926 — 4 days ago

So you're telling me, i need to be fit, humorous, high eq and good communicator to "deserve" a girlfriend but it is NOT the other way around?

I mean i am NOT asking for advice. But still, girls naturally behave as if i need them or smth. Say smth wrong or slightly unpleasant and they behave as if i have abused them and fed them karela upto their nose.

I mean, what direction are we even heading as a society.

And this all is because of simps for sure or the "celebrated" playboys who are worshipped by guys like :- "he is soo good he sleeps with different girls daily".

This clearly gives girls a false (or maybe true) feeling of wantedness or being in demand. WTF.

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u/Personal_Air8926 — 4 days ago
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Marks out around 23-24 and final grades about 30th may or 31st (maybe 1st june too). Now everyone stfu and dont bait with "marks out....when?"

I dont no bro. Poeple asking marks as if they will get 11 CG this sem or their cgpa will get them directly into Jane Street or smth. dw R4jesh u will still be a 6 pointer.

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u/Personal_Air8926 — 4 days ago

Could P vs. NP be independent of ZFC?

Given our decades-long failure to crack $P \text{ vs } NP$, despite hitting massive mathematical walls like the Relativization, Natural Proofs, and Algebraization barriers, is it possible the problem is fundamentally unprovable?

If it is independent, it means we can neither prove nor disprove it using standard mathematical axioms. Are we wasting our time trying to prove a statement that Gödel’s Incompleteness Theorem already warned us might be mathematically unreachable?

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u/Personal_Air8926 — 6 days ago

If a foreign star comes to india and (assume) indian paps dgaf, then people will blame the paps. But if foreign paps ignored Alia then we are shaming "our" nation's star. (not her PR but make it make sense)

I mean this is the reason why we are trolled everywhere for no reason. This is the reason indian people are prime targets of online rac*sm.

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u/Personal_Air8926 — 7 days ago
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does someone know any hidden way to check lab marks early? if yes, plz dm

They removed the course outcomes too. Pleaseee tell.

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u/Personal_Air8926 — 9 days ago

10th 94%,12th 90.40%, college 9+cg (expected) (btech cs tier 2). So what percentile i should target? (GEN M) and ofc i wanna join directly.

Same as above, I have about 2 yrs left (3rd year starts this year). So should i participate in ICPC or some other competitions solely for this? or leave everything and try to score perfect in CAT? (ofc i am in beginner stages and out of touch so rn IIM A (not even B or C) hehe)

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u/Personal_Air8926 — 9 days ago

10th 94%,12th 90.40%, college 9+cg (expected) (btech cs tier 2). So what percentile i should target? (GEN M) and ofc i wanna join directly.

Same as above, I have about 2 yrs left (3rd year starts this year). So should i participate in ICPC or some other competitions solely for this? or leave everything and try to score perfect in CAT? (ofc i am in beginner stages and out of touch so rn IIM A (not even B or C) hehe)

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u/Personal_Air8926 — 9 days ago

Generally it is said that women choose whom to date and men choose whom to marry (basically men have more power and attention in marriage and women in dating) so all the men who are currently in that age, is this true? what are your experiences?

I am in no way criticizing women or smth. I am just asking if the situation actually flips as the aging starts and the "attention" part changes?

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u/Personal_Air8926 — 12 days ago
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realized that my internship dream is over because of a mistake!!!!

  1. Was a 9ptr till the 3rd sem.

2.fkd 4th sem to the extent i will miss the 9ptr mark by 0.xx thing (i might get stuck at 8.90 smth)

  1. Acc to all seniors, 9+ is needed for any ON CAMPUS internship.

  2. Saw the consequence of it in the JPMC.

  3. May win many things or try different "skills" but ofc the college won't let me win.

  4. Have no connections off campus.

  5. The dream is over.

  6. Or is it?

  7. Can I actually do something in summers that will save me in 5th sem (3rd y) when companies arrive??

  8. CSE Spec(non AI non DS)

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u/Personal_Air8926 — 13 days ago

Another day, another hypocrisy of uncles (not all)

So I had upper berth.

And I had 2 small bags. One small trolley with wheels and one medium sized trolley case.

I put th3m inside the berth and went to my seat.

Then this uncle comes, with his wife and 2 kids.

He only had 2 seats. That too in the adjacent row.

He started putting his 5 huge bags, but since other person also had one huge bag, that row was full.

So now he looked in my row.

And started like this "who's this??" (Ye kiska hai?)

Then my turn came. And I said these 2 are mine.

He didn't take a second and pulled the trolley out and told me to put it on my berth because :- "you're a student beta.....also you have only one seat...I have 2 seats I have a family ....please adjust".

I came down simply. Told him :- "call the TT and if he says, I will happily put it".

Then I put my bag inside where it was. He looked at me as he will kill me. And his wife started "these kids today are so bad no respect etc... we have come from so Farr...".

Then there was a small argument. They wanted me to adjust, I denied.

Finally he kept his extras in the middle empty space and strangled everything but was very proud.

Mind u he didn't have proper bags, he had "big fat jholas".

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u/Personal_Air8926 — 14 days ago