u/PineappleBitter90

For the past 4 years I’ve been telling myself I’m so qualified for every position that I apply to, I stand out more than anyone else who applied, they want to hire me so bad, I visualize working and meeting people who work there etc. but then months go on and I get rejection emails or no email at all. I’m wondering what you did to manifest if you did manifest a job you really wanted? Also, what do you think I’m doing wrong? I personally think after two months or so after not hearing anything I do start feeling desperate and worrying they didn’t choose me but for a month or so I do keep the belief alive. Wish I knew what is stopping the fruition of my manifestations

Anyone here study public administration and if so how were your job prospects? It relates to my major and I’m planning on getting a post grad diploma in the field

I have taken a few communications courses at uni and I have a few years worth of communications experience and also an internship related to it. I was hoping to go back to school to do a post grad diploma in the field as my major was not related to it at all. I’m not trying to make 100 k or anything right off the bat but I was just wondering if I have a chance to land an average paying job with a diploma and experience in communications or is the field too over saturated with sparse jobs?

Over the past month I’ve unconsciously manifested a few things. I thought about a song I couldn’t remember and I was on vacation and ended up hearing the same song a week later in another country (the song is pretty rare and from the 90s). I also randomly thought about an old family member who I met once in my life 12 years ago and never heard about since, a week later I found out she passed away recently. I was also thinking about a moment from tv history from another country this like almost 20 years old anyways while scrolling on Reddit someone posted it as a tb. There’s even more honestly and it all came from me thinking and completely forgetting about it and going on with my life.

Things with SP have been questionable to say the least so I was questioning manifestation as a whole but honestly those unconscious manifestation successes are really helping with my belief in the law. Anyways I kept ruminating on how a few years ago I messed things up with SP, I’m blocked everywhere and we don’t talk unless it’s me reaching out and getting ignored or occasionally getting an unpleasant response. He told me he had a girl about 2-3 months ago I kept saying that it’s not true and it’s not going to work out. Anyways last month or so he was adding more girls on social media usually I’d get all sad but idgaf and gave it a meaning that he doesn’t have a girl anymore and these are people he’s just talking to. Anyways recently he was angry at me but replied to me and was saying how the girl he liked (as in past tense and usually referring to someone he’s talking to) said something to him which means he in fact doesn’t have a gf anymore and he’s prolly talking to people and I’m also manifesting that these talking stages don’t go anywhere either LMAOOOO. Also in my awareness I was thinking about a long time ago when SP called me funny anyways even tho he hates me he actually found a joke I said funny & regardless of all the hate he let me know it was funny. Hey I mean I understand that I manifested all this and I just have to start believing he doesn’t in fact hate me, also since I was the one always reaching out I don’t want to reach out to him anymore he can come to me and I know he will.

I’ve been looking for a job since 2022. Everyone who knows me knows that I keep applying and I have a good amount of experience, I’m applying to jobs related to what I studied, related to my interests that I have experience in and just anything to make ends meet. One of my friends told me if what you’re doing isn’t working change your approach. My last resort is reaching out to my unis career services and having them assist me in any way that they can (even tho I’ve tried this and it didn’t work already) but within these past 4 years I feel like I’ve done everything. What more do I have to do or what is everyone else doing that I’m not doing?

I have a friend who I’ve known since I was 4 we are now in our mid 20s. Around 5-6 years ago she’d ghost me for weeks to months and forget about me and due to our long friendship and the fact I had other friends I didn’t mind. A problem I had with her was she’s always late, she’s known to start getting ready at least 2 hours after the time we planned to meet and usually she meets me a good 5 hours after the time we both decided since she’d get ready late. I am a very punctual person I shower, put on makeup, choose my outfit and etc. very early and I’m ready on time always. I end up having to wait hours on hours for her while she says she’ll be out soon. When I’m dressed up with a full face of makeup I can’t do any other productive task since I usually like to be cozy and makeup free while I do any tasks at home so I’m just laying around with a full face of makeup uncomfortable scrolling on my phone waiting for her. She has done this for years and completely disregards peoples time. This is the reason why unconsciously my brain doesn’t like hanging out with her and I plan hangouts very rarely since I know that most of my day will get spent waiting for her to get ready. Anyways I haven’t went out with her in a few months but we still communicated through messages unfortunately she saw me hang out with another friend who is very punctual who I like hanging out with and she got mad and told me she doesn’t want to be my friend and that she’ll find other friends. I’ve brought up her tardiness many times and she doesn’t seem to change she thinks it’s normal part of her life yet she’s always on time for work and when she goes on dates so I’m just confused as to why she takes forever to meet with me. Am I wrong for not wanting to hang out with her often? it takes me months to muster up the energy to actually wait for her and hang out with her I mentally can’t do it anymore I find it so disrespectful that she can’t ever seem to get ready on time and hang out. I went to a wedding with her and it took her an hour each to glue on false lashes. I just don’t get it, I never got mad at her when she’d ghost me for months but all of a sudden when I like being her friend yet can’t fathom the thought of having to wait hours just to hang out I’m the bad guy.

It’s been 3 years of me trying and I know that my fear of not having sp and reacting to the 3d is why things are the way that they are but still it makes me sad when sp meets new people who he has gotten closer with than he ever did with me especially since we don’t talk or follow each other anywhere (I’m blocked everywhere). It’s 3 years I could’ve gotten to know him and grown closer that wasted away with hatred, anger and resentment. We’re not that old but still it makes me sad. Can anyone give me words of motivation it feels so heartbreaking at times

During that time of the month especially on the second day I get so bloated and gassy. I also have diarrhea like symptoms. I have another friend who goes through the same thing. Matter of fact I’m bloated a few days prior up until the second day and it really prevents me from enjoying my time when I go out so much to the point if I start getting that feeling I don’t leave my house for a few days. Anyone else go through this? What has helped?

All the doctors I’ve gone to for my hair loss have pinpointed that my hair loss is due to genetics but my mom doesn’t believe them. After all these blood tests and analysis she believes that it’s another reason that’s unknown. She started losing her hair in her mid 20s she blamed it on getting pregnant. All her siblings including her older brothers and sisters still have a full head of hair they’re 50+ yet she barely has any hair on her head and it clearly follows an AGA pattern. She gets so dramatic at the thought of mine and my siblings hair loss blaming everything under the sun even things that have no correlation, she has no medical background yet she thinks she knows more than the doctors. She keeps telling us to simply grow our hair like we’re the reason why it’s falling all while she only has a few strands of hair on her head. I choose to ignore her but she gives my siblings such a hard time acting like they did it to themselves and how she had hair in her early 20s, she doesn’t quite understand the complexity of genetic hair loss. I don’t know what kind of delusion she’s under. Has anyone gone through this, on one hand I’m losing clumps of hair due to AGA and nothing seems to be working and the side effects of my medications are so tough and on the other hand I have someone in my family minimizing what I’m going through like I’m causing it myself. It’s genuinely very annoying.

I’m on vacation in Malaysia from Canada and I really like it here. It’s fascinating seeing the cultural differences. I love the way women tie their hijabs it’s so unique and cute. Back in Canada I had a teacher from Malaysia who said Malaysia is the food capital of the world, I did try a lot of Malaysian food and I really like it. I’m sad I’m missing the World Cup back home but it’s a nice change of environment.

I applied to a job around may 12th at a non-profit and I sent a follow up first week of June to which they said they’re still going through applications. I’m wondering how long non-profits actually take to send out interview invites? Anyone who has experienced this how long did the process take?

I have AGA and I’d like to start wearing medical wigs but I’m not sure where I should buy from or if medical wigs are even the best choice for me at all. I don’t want any metal in my wigs, I want it to look as natural as possible, I want it to be affordable and from an ethical company. I’m in Canada and I’m even considering trying on medical wigs in person. Has anyone here tried medical wigs, what are your opinions ?

Hello everyone! I started manifesting my sp 3 years ago after a whole lot of crazy things that happened my SP despises me which obviously is an assumption on my part. These past few years I’ve had small successes such as sp leaving 3p, sp saying things word for word (albeit not romantic) and a few other things. Apart from sp I have manifested hearing from people in my life after thinking of them or seeing people on social media after having not seen them for years. After all these years I started doubting manifestation even with all the proof I have due to the fact I’m not in contact with my SP. I used to do SATs and Visualization with intense emotion acting like it was happening right before my eyes but as of lately it’s like my brain can’t do that anymore. The fruition of my manifestations are so random to the point idk how it happens. I try to trace back how my other manifestations came in so I can use the same formula but it’s so random each time. I just want to be in contact with my sp and hopefully get in a relationship, I’m so exhausted. I wish it would click for me.

Hello! Just wondering if anyone here has tried medical wigs? Do they look natural? I’ve had AGA for about 13 years now and I’m turning 25. My hair is very fine and there’s a lot of bald spots. Spironolactone has stopped working for me and it made my mental health really bad so I don’t wish to continue. My only option now is to wear wigs and I heard that medical wigs don’t have any clips or combs which is ideal since I never liked the feeling of that anyways, they gave me a headache when I used to wear cosmetic wigs. If you’ve tried medical wigs please do share your experience with them. I just want to feel like myself again :(

I started taking spironolactone for my androgenic alopecia 2 years ago. Shortly after my mood swings were so bad, going from someone who could control their emotions and think rationally I became anxious and started overthinking everything. It’s like how I am constantly now and it gets even worse throughout the month. It’s been like this for two years now. The effects on my hair were positive for about a year but for the past 10 months my hair has been falling out in clumps again and it’s clearly not working anymore. My skin is much clearer than what it used to be but I’m going to put my mental health first and quit spironolactone. Wondering if anyone else here felt intense emotions while on this too? I assumed it’d go away after a few months but it persisted and if not got worse. I can’t choose my vanity over my sanity that’s for sure.