u/Realistic-Cow-7275

Hello. I am a woman of 18 years of age. I am a law student. And in my future, I hope to be a JAG officer. I have heard from a colleague that joining NCC would make your chances of joining JAG slightly better and that it would also give you a glimpse into how the army works.

I have read the NCC book. In accordance with it, our physical fitness must be like that as recommended by the ministry of defence. I have checked some files like

"the national guidelines for admission to the National defence academy"

and I feel like that's way too many documents to join the NCC. Yea, it would make sense if it were the army but NCC is a much more elementary stage.

I also checked out the height and weight part 😭. I am 5'5 and I am 72 kgs. I AM NOT OBESE. I have been working on my muscles since I was a younger teen and have quite some muscle mass. While I can still reduce maybe 5 kgs??? The maximum weight is 63 kgs. It's gonna be rough reducing 10 kgs within a few years. Cause if someone irl were to see me they wouldn't guess I'm more than 60 (cause I look bulky) - trust me I've tried asking around they are kinda in disbelief when I say so. I also have morbidly visible abs too. So, my question is, will they make any considerations regarding weight?

Pls let me know. Also if you guys would suggest any other platform/ area to post, lmk too. Cheeslings ✌🏾

I barely wore any good clothes when I was young. I counted and I had 18 normal pieces of clothes I can wear outside. I was 17 yrs old. While my mom had 2 wardrobes of clothes.

I remember having a dirty acne that looked like I had food on my face. I was so embarassed that I wouldn't leave my house. I asked my dad for a 400rs -- $4 serum and my mom used to call me expensive and useless. While her whole drawer is filled with beauty products.

I was looking into my health and told that I wanna start a diet plan, they body shamed me. Now my mom is doing so for herself and everyone is encouraging her.

She would give this jealous vibe whenever I tried to cook. One day I tried cooking something. Halfway in, I needed to let it stay for a while. She cooked the rest without me. Since then I stopped complimenting any of her food. I used to be the only one who compliments her.

When I was 13, I was a Cdrama and liked it so much I began to act cute like the fl. My parents said I was mad and once my dad even pushed me to the wall and threatened me. Now my mom (pushing 50) walks around with a flirty and high pitched voice (honestly annoying af)

Everything I needed to be normal, my parents absolutely rejected me from. Then I came to terms with my relationship with them. It's transactional and I can't expect anything more than what a parent is legally responsible to give.

Call me cringe but i genuinely enjoy that stuff. I enjoy fiction too like r/yandere and irl stuff r/medicalgore

I'm looking for ways but my real bank name will be shown apparently.