5’3 20F Ive been getting palpitations (pounding/ fluttering) and try to catch the episodes on my apple watch do any of these results provide anything? Whats the best way (besides halter) to catch them?
So I met my boyfriend (21M) through a club at school. We’ve been dating for about 4 months.
Were the same age and go to the same college and We don’t have the club on the same days. On the day he goes, there are four people, he’s very close with one of the guys (Bob, 21M) and one of the girls (Jen,21F).
I want to preface by saying that none of his other female friends bother me. It’s literally only this one, and I can’t shake the feeling.
A while before we started dating, my boyfriend has been giving Bob and Jen rides to the club and he picks up jen because she lives near bob . That’s understandable. However, they aren’t necessarily on his way, so he does kind of go out of his way to pick them up.
One time which really bothered Bob wasn’t going to club one day. My boyfriend told Jen he was still going to pick her up. I guess he assumed he didn’t need to tell me that so I had asked if he was. At that point, we’d been talking for about a month and a half. When i asked him he was like its still up in the air but it wasn’t he had already agreed to taking her. Which is why when i told him i was uncomfortable with him taking her he couldn’t tell her no. We argued about it, but we’ve since moved past that specific issue.
Another thing is that he follows three of her Instagram accounts. The other day I asked him who his closest friends are to which he responded Bob and Jen. I asked why Jen was one of his closest friends, he said, “We’ve gotten closer over the past few months.” Which I already grilled him for and he said its because of having to speak to each-other at club. Eventually resolved that too.
The three of them want to take a trip to Busch Gardens. Jen’s friend was invited, so was I, but I said no because I honestly don’t want to be around this girl ever again.
The three of them definitely have this a trio dynamic and recently Ive started to think Jen likes my boyfriend. She laughs noticeably harder at his jokes than anyone else’s, she doesn’t like any of bobs instagram posts only my boyfriends.
Recently I went found something on his phone. To backtrack a while back he had a dm with her which he showed me. Then the other day i was going on his phone and the dm was gone, he deleted it. I called him out he said its bc the mere thought of her makes me upset but i insisted he be honest. He told me he had slid up on one of her instagram stories of her trip to spain which he deleted. I flipped out and told him to fix the mess he made. His solution was unfollowing her. Dispite unfollowing her 4 previous instagram accounts she requested him on a 5th which he declined. Because of this i told him to stop giving her rides. To which hes not doing anymore. I feel like i might be overreacting but idk Am i in the wrong or overreacting? The main problem im having is the fact despite me telling him their relationship makes me uncomfortable he does things behind my back and hides them from me.
So I met my boyfriend (21M) through a club at school. We’ve been dating for about 4 months.
Were the same age and go to the same college and We don’t have the club on the same days. On the day he goes, there are four people, he’s very close with one of the guys (Bob, 21M) and one of the girls (Jen,21F).
I want to preface by saying that none of his other female friends bother me. It’s literally only this one, and I can’t shake the feeling.
A while before we started dating, my boyfriend has been giving Bob and Jen rides to the club and he picks up jen because she lives near bob . That’s understandable. However, they aren’t necessarily on his way, so he does kind of go out of his way to pick them up.
One time which really bothered Bob wasn’t going to club one day. My boyfriend told Jen he was still going to pick her up. I guess he assumed he didn’t need to tell me that so I had asked if he was. At that point, we’d been talking for about a month and a half. When i asked him he was like its still up in the air but it wasn’t he had already agreed to taking her. Which is why when i told him i was uncomfortable with him taking her he couldn’t tell her no. We argued about it, but we’ve since moved past that specific issue.
Another thing is that he follows three of her Instagram accounts. The other day I asked him who his closest friends are to which he responded Bob and Jen. I asked why Jen was one of his closest friends, he said, “We’ve gotten closer over the past few months.” Which I already grilled him for and he said its because of having to speak to each-other at club. Eventually resolved that too.
The three of them want to take a trip to Busch Gardens. Jen’s friend was invited, so was I, but I said no because I honestly don’t want to be around this girl ever again.
The three of them definitely have this a trio dynamic and recently Ive started to think Jen likes my boyfriend. She laughs noticeably harder at his jokes than anyone else’s, she doesn’t like any of bobs instagram posts only my boyfriends.
Recently I went found something on his phone. To backtrack a while back he had a dm with her which he showed me. Then the other day i was going on his phone and the dm was gone, he deleted it. I called him out he said its bc the mere thought of her makes me upset but i insisted he be honest. He told me he had slid up on one of her instagram stories of her trip to spain which he deleted. I flipped out and told him to fix the mess he made. His solution was unfollowing her. Dispite unfollowing her 4 previous instagram accounts she requested him on a 5th which he declined. Because of this i told him to stop giving her rides. To which hes not doing anymore. I feel like i might be overreacting but idk Am i in the wrong or overreacting?
The past month my neighbors black tuxedo cat keeps showing up at our house and just chills on the porch. The days I see the cat I pet it and hang out with it. I am a believer in signs from the universe and that kind of thing so i was curious if this meant anything interesting other than the cat just liking our house.
Hi I started Qulipta 60mg 4-5 days ago. I started noticing Im not hungry at all. Like I have complete appetite loss I force myself to eat a little but its hard i get nauseous at the thought of food but i need nutrients. Im also experiencing increased anxiety and fogginess. Has anyone else experienced this and should I stop taking it and request a different medication.
(20 F) I have been having bad headaches and some lightheadedness recently. I went to the neurologist they did a brain mri told me its migraines and when the migraines are treated the dizziness will go away. They also found Chronic sinusitis but my nero and ent said not the treat it. I went to my primary for blood work to see if that would explain the dizziness my PT INR is on the cusp and my D Dimer is slightly elevated its .50 its not on the bloodwork sheet tho. She told me to follow up with a hematologist which im doing but my appointment isnt until Thursday. Ive also been experiencing heart palpitations which have already been assessed by my cardiologist which are apparently benign. I do sometimes get chest pain but its a quick like sharp pinch pain that goes away within 5 seconds. The past 3 days ive been having back pain it tends to move around but i find it to be mostly on my right side on my upper back. Along with that my neck has been feeling tingly like electric almost. Though that started after seeing my chiropractor. All these symptoms come and go and aren’t actively worsening. Is there anything on my blood test that I should worry about or that would explain any of this? I know loosing weight will mhelp but I dont think thats the full reason for these. In addition i do have pcos and insulin resistance.
(20 F) I recently over the past few months have been getting migraines and headaches with lightheadedness/ dizziness and i feel kind of rocky when it happens. I went to the neurologist got a mri everything was clear except chronic sinus disease. The neurologist told me I didnt need to treat it but i followed up with my primary who said i do need to treat it. I went there to request bloodwork to see if the dizziness was from maybe a thyroid issue but because i also mentioned ive been having heart palpitations on and off for months which were cleared by the cardiologists she decided to do some blood tests. The last time i got blood work 5 months ago my d dimer was borderline. This time the results were also borderline slightly over is what they told me. They also tested my PT INR. My pt was 15.1 and my INR was 1.2. I dont have the D dimer numbers to compare im also not on any medication. Im following up with a hematologist but Im having really bad anxiety about it and my appointment isnt for another week and a half. All my other results were normal except that and my cholesterol is high. Is there anything to be worried about.
Hi! The canada wildfires are giving me really bad anxiety as they don’t seem to have an answer on if they’re subsiding or when the smoke and air quality will get better. As someone living in New York Im getting a sense of impending doom and having a really hard time right now.
So I met my boyfriend (21M) through a club at school. We’ve been dating for about 4 months total, but we’ve only been officially for a little over 1 month.
We don’t have the club on the same days. On the day he goes, there are four people, he’s very close with one of the guys (Bob, 21M) and one of the girls (Jen,21F).
I want to preface by saying that none of his other female friends bother me. It’s literally only this one, and I can’t shake the feeling.
A while before we started dating, my boyfriend has been giving Bob and Jen rides to the club and he picks up jen because she lives near bob . That’s understandable. However, they aren’t necessarily on his way, so he does kind of go out of his way to pick them up.
One time which really bothered Bob wasn’t going to club one day. My boyfriend told Jen he was still going to pick her up. I guess he assumed he didn’t need to tell me that so I had asked if he was. At that point, we’d been talking for about a month and a half. When i asked him he was like its still up in the air but it wasn’t he had already agreed to taking her. Which is why when i told him i was uncomfortable with him taking her he couldn’t tell her no. We argued about it, but we’ve since moved past that specific issue.
Another thing is that he follows three of her Instagram accounts. The other day I asked him who his closest friends are to which he responded Bob and Jen. I asked why Jen was one of his closest friends, he said, “We’ve gotten closer over the past few months.” Which I already grilled him for and he said its because of having to speak to each-other at club. Eventually resolved that too.
The three of them want to take a trip to Busch Gardens. Jen’s friend was invited, so was I, but I said no because I honestly don’t want to be around this girl ever again.
The three of them definitely have this a trio dynamic and recently Ive started to think Jen likes my boyfriend. She laughs noticeably harder at his jokes than anyone else’s, she doesn’t like any of bobs instagram posts only my boyfriends.
Sometimes I feel like I’m being dramatic but part of me is like if ur one girl in a trio of two guys u probably like one of them. Overall im bothered and uncomfortable by her and only her idk if im being insecure or dramatic but i feel like im waiting for the next shoe to drop between them.
I also want to note he doesn’t call or text her their communication is mainly limited to the time they’re in person or need to communicate for club.
So I met my boyfriend (21M) through a club at school. We’ve been dating for about 4 months total, but we’ve only been officially for a little over 1 month.
We don’t have the club on the same days. On the day he goes, there are four people, he’s very close with one of the guys (Bob, 21M) and one of the girls (Jen,21F).
I want to preface by saying that none of his other female friends bother me. It’s literally only this one, and I can’t shake the feeling.
A while before we started dating, my boyfriend has been giving Bob and Jen rides to the club and he picks up jen because she lives near bob . That’s understandable. However, they aren’t necessarily on his way, so he does kind of go out of his way to pick them up.
One time which really bothered Bob wasn’t going to club one day. My boyfriend told Jen he was still going to pick her up. I guess he assumed he didn’t need to tell me that so I had asked if he was. At that point, we’d been talking for about a month and a half. When i asked him he was like its still up in the air but it wasn’t he had already agreed to taking her. Which is why when i told him i was uncomfortable with him taking her he couldn’t tell her no. We argued about it, but we’ve since moved past that specific issue.
Another thing is that he follows three of her Instagram accounts. The other day I asked him who his closest friends are to which he responded Bob and Jen. I asked why Jen was one of his closest friends, he said, “We’ve gotten closer over the past few months.” Which I already grilled him for and he said its because of having to speak to each-other at club. Eventually resolved that too.
The three of them want to take a trip to Busch Gardens. Jen’s friend was invited, so was I, but I said no because I honestly don’t want to be around this girl ever again.
The three of them definitely have this a trio dynamic and recently Ive started to think Jen likes my boyfriend. She laughs noticeably harder at his jokes than anyone else’s, she doesn’t like any of bobs instagram posts only my boyfriends.
Sometimes I feel like I’m being dramatic but part of me is like if ur one girl in a trio of two guys u probably like one of them. Overall im bothered and uncomfortable by her and only her idk if im being insecure or dramatic but i feel like im waiting for the next shoe to drop between them.
I also want to note he doesn’t call or text her their communication is mainly limited to the time they’re in person or need to communicate for club.
So I met my boyfriend (21M) through a club at school. We’ve been dating for about 4 months total, but we’ve only been officially for a little over 1 month.
We don’t have the club on the same days. On the day he goes, there are four people, he’s very close with one of the guys (Bob, 21M) and one of the girls (Jen,21F).
I want to preface by saying that none of his other female friends bother me. It’s literally only this one, and I can’t shake the feeling.
A while before we started dating, my boyfriend has been giving Bob and Jen rides to the club and he picks up jen because she lives near bob . That’s understandable. However, they aren’t necessarily on his way, so he does kind of go out of his way to pick them up.
One time which really bothered Bob wasn’t going to club one day. My boyfriend told Jen he was still going to pick her up. I guess he assumed he didn’t need to tell me that so I had asked if he was. At that point, we’d been talking for about a month and a half. When i asked him he was like its still up in the air but it wasn’t he had already agreed to taking her. Which is why when i told him i was uncomfortable with him taking her he couldn’t tell her no. We argued about it, but we’ve since moved past that specific issue.
Another thing is that he follows three of her Instagram accounts. The other day I asked him who his closest friends are to which he responded Bob and Jen. I asked why Jen was one of his closest friends, he said, “We’ve gotten closer over the past few months.” The issue with this was the time frame in which they got closer was the entire time we were talking. Which I already grilled him for and he said its because of having to speak to each-other at club. Eventually resolved that too.
The three of them want to take a trip to Busch Gardens. Jen’s friend was invited, so was I, but I said no because I honestly don’t want to be around this girl ever again.
The three of them definitely have this a trio dynamic and recently Ive started to think Jen likes my boyfriend. She laughs noticeably harder at his jokes than anyone else’s, she doesn’t like any of bobs instagram posts only my boyfriends.
Sometimes I feel like I’m being dramatic but part of me is like if ur one girl in a trio of two guys u probably like one of them. Im just overall bothered by her and uncomfortable idk if its insecurity or not and i feel like im just waiting around for something to happen between them.
I also want to note he doesn’t call or text her their communication is mainly limited to the time they’re in person or need to communicate for club.
Hi!
I recently had a situation with a friend 21 F lets call her becca. Becca and I have been friends for a little under a year, and i wouldn’t consider her a close friend but she was my friend. Our friendship was mainly built off of our dating lives and we mostly spoke about men which I didn’t mind bc I had someone to talk about it with. She seems to thrive off of male validation and is very male centered, and currently isn’t getting a-lot of male attention. Which is important because she always is talking about a new guy which she hasnt done in a while.
A few months ago I started talking to this guy who we both know. When I told her about him the first time she was very negative but i brushed it off and decided i just wont talk about it with her. So we kept talking and i never told her we were still talking. About a month goes by and for my birthday i had a party, they were both there. She found out that night that we had been talking and she got mad at me for not telling her. She called me a bitch and it seemed to really ruin her mood for the night that i didnt tell her. NOTE: Only my best friend knew were talking at the time.
After that I started to really distance myself. I would occasionally reach out and answer if she reached out, but contact was limited. Recently when she calls me,somehow the guy im talking to (lets call him dan) gets brought up and she tells me to add him to the call. I never thought anything of it.
A few days ago they both graduated (we all go to the same school) she called me asking where he was which i didn’t think anything of and they ended up meeting up, which I encouraged. Throughout the night she had called me multiple times for no reason and would show me that shes with him. She hasn’t called me since and prior rarely called me.
She had posted an instagram story of their shoes as they were wearing the same ones at graduation, and she tagged him in the story. Which i thought was weird 1.because theyre really not friends and they dont talk unless im there as well 2. she only ever reposts sports posts never posts anything regarding her. She also had asked him multiple times to repost it to his story. I personally think it was ill intended and am cutting her off, but am I being dramatic? I feel like her posting that looks weird as hell,and as a girl i dont think its normal to post the guy your friends talking to on your instagram story. I know nothing is going on between them or anything. Im just trying to make sense of why she would do that . I know she doesn’t have a crush on him or anything I feel like shes trying to compete or is jealous. Regardless Im hurt by it.
Hi!
I recently had a situation with a friend 21 F lets call her becca. Becca and I have been friends for a little under a year, and i wouldn’t consider her a close friend but she was my friend. Our friendship was mainly built off of our dating lives and we mostly spoke about men which I didn’t mind bc I had someone to talk about it with. She seems to thrive off of male validation and is very male centered, and currently isn’t getting a-lot of male attention. Which is important because she always is talking about a new guy which she hasnt done in a while.
A few months ago I started talking to this guy who we both know. When I told her about him the first time she was very negative but i brushed it off and decided i just wont talk about it with her. So we kept talking and i never told her we were still talking. About a month goes by and for my birthday i had a party, they were both there. She found out that night that we had been talking and she got mad at me for not telling her. She called me a bitch and it seemed to really ruin her mood for the night that i didnt tell her. NOTE: Only my best friend knew were talking at the time.
After that I started to really distance myself. I would occasionally reach out and answer if she reached out, but contact was limited. Recently when she calls me,somehow the guy im talking to (lets call him dan) gets brought up and she tells me to add him to the call. I never thought anything of it.
A few days ago they both graduated (we all go to the same school) she called me asking where he was which i didn’t think anything of and they ended up meeting up, which I encouraged. Throughout the night she had called me multiple times for no reason and would show me that shes with him. She hasn’t called me since and prior rarely called me.
She had posted an instagram story of their shoes as they were wearing the same ones at graduation, and she tagged him in the story. Which i thought was weird 1.because theyre really not friends and they dont talk unless im there as well 2. she only ever reposts sports posts never posts anything regarding her. She also had asked him multiple times to repost it to his story. I personally think it was ill intended and am cutting her off, but am I being dramatic? I feel like her posting that looks weird as hell,and as a girl i dont think its normal to post the guy your friends talking to on your instagram story. I know nothing is going on between them or anything. Im just trying to make sense of why she would do that . I know she doesn’t have a crush on him or anything I feel like shes trying to compete or is jealous. Regardless Im hurt by it.
Hi!
I recently had a situation with a friend 21 F lets call her becca. Becca and I have been friends for a little under a year, and i wouldn’t consider her a close friend but she was my friend. Our friendship was mainly built off of our dating lives and we mostly spoke about men which I didn’t mind bc I had someone to talk about it with. She seems to thrive off of male validation and is very male centered, and currently isn’t getting a-lot of male attention. Which is important because she always is talking about a new guy which she hasnt done in a while.
A few months ago I started talking to this guy who we both know. When I told her about him the first time she was very negative but i brushed it off and decided i just wont talk about it with her. So we kept talking and i never told her we were still talking. About a month goes by and for my birthday i had a party, they were both there. She found out that night that we had been talking and she got mad at me for not telling her. She called me a bitch and it seemed to really ruin her mood for the night that i didnt tell her. NOTE: Only my best friend knew were talking at the time.
After that I started to really distance myself. I would occasionally reach out and answer if she reached out, but contact was limited. Recently when she calls me,somehow the guy im talking to (lets call him dan) gets brought up and she tells me to add him to the call. I never thought anything of it.
A few days ago they both graduated (we all go to the same school) she called me asking where he was which i didn’t think anything of and they ended up meeting up, which I encouraged. Throughout the night she had called me multiple times for no reason and would show me that shes with him. She hasn’t called me since and prior rarely called me.
She had posted an instagram story of their shoes as they were wearing the same ones at graduation, and she tagged him in the story. Which i thought was weird 1.because theyre really not friends and they dont talk unless im there as well 2. she only ever reposts sports posts never posts anything regarding her. She also had asked him multiple times to repost it to his story. I personally think it was ill intended and am cutting her off, but am I being dramatic? I feel like her posting that looks weird as hell,and as a girl i dont think its normal to post the guy your friends talking to on your instagram story. I know nothing is going on between them or anything. Im just trying to make sense of why she would do that . I know she doesn’t have a crush on him or anything I feel like shes trying to compete or is jealous. Regardless Im hurt by it.