u/Roids-in-my-vains

I've recently been playing some of the Mass Effect Trilogy, the Dragon Age Trilogy, and Skyrim and one thing I noticed about these games stories is how the writers idea of engaging the players is to make every character fawn over the protagonist, in Mass Effect 1 you have 3 conversations with your companions and they start confessing their love for you, in Dragon Age 2 and Inquestion every character childhood and personal trauma is resolved when they meet the protagonist, the most egregious example of this is Skyrim, where your charisma void, unknown protagonist can enter a guild that has hundreds years of history and immediately become the leader of the guild after doing a couple of quests because everyone else in these guilds summits to the protagonist, this might be the worst way any writer can engage the audience in their world/ characters and the equivalent of constantly pampering a baby.