What is the nose rubbing thing whites and sometimes nonblack people do?

Has anyone else noticed the nose rubbing that they do when they see you? It reminds me of how they used to cough around black people to signal they're racist. It was called a Jim Crow cough. Now they rub their nose.

I've lived on the Northside for the past five years and now i understand why Chicago natives I've met say they don't like it

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u/Royal_Razzmatazz3622 — 11 days ago

Should I put in my two weeks notice?

Hey guys, i was the one same person who spoke about being bullied at my job that's part time at a nursing home. Today i got a call from my parents that my eldest brother passed away today.

I don't like how my manager responded or how he said he can't accommodate me about getting my scheduled changed.

Should i just put in my two weeks notice?

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u/Royal_Razzmatazz3622 — 14 days ago

Coworkers making comments about my weight

I just started a new job working at a nursing home as a server part-time. The first day I get there, some residents and people would make comments like mentioning exercise or getting a trainer and my coworkers would look at me like they were about to laugh. Yesterday, we were on a long break and the dishwasher sits next to me and shows me a Tiktok and asks me "who would win in a fight, rasputia or madea?". I know that was a microaggression about my weight. Just like I was going to catch the Metra to get home last night but decided to catch the bus to the CTA which took over an hour. Once I got on the train, this guy says to me "you don't have any food you don't need do you".

I was already overwhelmed that day because when I was trying to serve, there were so many people in the kitchen that day. My coworkers are also younger than me and when I try to engage them in conversation they act like they're annoyed but will talk to other people. Im still sad thinking about how I'm getting treated at this job but I have no other job prospects.

Also one of the younger girls said to me how she doesn't eat on her lunch break.

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u/Royal_Razzmatazz3622 — 18 days ago

Uptown apartment buildings that accept bad credit and housing vouchers

Hello everybody, I'm in need of some housing help. I have a housing voucher and have not started my new job yet. I am looking to stay in Uptown and am wondering does anyone know of any apartments with no application fees and they'll take bad credit with a housing voucher?

Thanks

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u/Royal_Razzmatazz3622 — 1 month ago

Do people do credit checks for apartments overseas?

One day I'm thinking about moving out of the United States, possibly within the next two years. I have really bad credit and it's kind of hard for me to get approved for apartments. Also have been struggling with consistent income since graduating college in 2021. So I'm wondering do they do credit checks when renting an apartment? Which countries don't do this?

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u/Royal_Razzmatazz3622 — 1 month ago

[TOMT] Old movie about man or couple on the run in southern Town

I saw this old movie it looked to be in technicolor or maybe I'm misremembering but i remember it having a country song playing at the beginning. There was this guy or couple on the run and they were in some country southern town. Could anybody help me find this movie? It seemed like one of those B-movies from that time period

It's not five minutes to live with Johnny Cash. The movie I'm talking about was in color. I know there was some kind of crime back story in it too

SOLVED: It's called Ring of Fire

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u/Royal_Razzmatazz3622 — 1 month ago

Has anybody noticed their interactions on this site differ based on your avatar?

I ask this because before I changed my avatar, it was the basic avatar from when you create your account, now you can tell I'm "ethnic" based on my avatar. Have you noticed the difference in interactions or is this just me? I didn't know where to put this to be honest.

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u/Royal_Razzmatazz3622 — 2 months ago

Johnny Pate is one of the great unsung architects of Chicago soul

Johnny Pate has been an arranger, composer, producer, and session bassist, but because he's worked largely behind the scenes, his contributions to soul, R&B, and jazz are underappreciated -- he's most widely heard today via sampling by hip-hop producers. Born John William Pate in Chicago Heights on December 5, 1923, he learned to play piano from a church organist boarding with his family, and in 6th grade picked up tuba. Upon graduating from Bloom Township High in 1942, he was drafted and in an Army jazz orchestra he added upright bass to his arsenal and got a taste for arranging.

After his discharge in 1946, he headed to New York, where jazz bassist Oscar Pettiford took him under his wing. Soon Pate returned to Chicago, where he arranged for Red Saunders' house band at Club DeLisa. In 1957, he formed his own jazz group which scored a top 20 R&B hit in 1958, which helped get him session work. He arranged or played on albums by legends such as Stan Getz and Wes Montgomery and gigged with the likes of Sarah Vaughan and Count Basie.

In the early 1960s, Pate was hired by soul producer Carl Davis at Okeh Records, which began his longest professional partnership: from 1963 until 1972, beginning with The Impressions, "Sad, Sad, Girl & Boy" and ending with "Superfly", Pate was Curtis Mayfield's regular arranger. He followed Mayfield to ABC-Paramount for hits such as "Keep on Pushing" and "We're A Winner" and also worked with Betty Everett, B.B. King, Gene Chandler, and Jerry Butler.

Pate moved to New York in the late 1960s, returning to jazz with MGM/Verve, and wrote classy blaxploitation soundtracks for "Brother On The Run", "Bucktown", and "Shaft in Africa". After a mid-70s stint in Los Angeles and jobs with the Bee Gees, Peabo Bryson, and Natalie Cole, Pate settled in Las Vegas in 1983 (but not before putting 4 kids through college - including his playing son Don), now 95 (102 in 2026), this living legend continues to reach new ears through reissues and sampling.

u/Royal_Razzmatazz3622 — 2 months ago
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I feel like Angie Stone didn't get her flowers while she was here and still hasn't

I am a fan of Angie and I feel like she didn't receive enough respect while she was here she still hasn't. Her first three albums, Black Diamond, Mahogany Soul, and Stone Love were all pretty solid albums in my opinion, even the album after Stone Love was good, the art of love and war.

Even her work that she did before she officially solo hasn't received as much attention such as with Vertical Hold and that she wrote for other artists as well. Plus the fact she was one of the early pioneers of hip-hop with The Sequence and didn't get mentioned or even invited to the 50 year anniversary of hip hop celebrations is crazy to me.

I remember when she died and I was literally crying and couldn't believe it, same with D'Angelo as I am fans of both of their works. I bring him up to say I kind of feel like people talked down on or overshadowed her work due to people claiming she "groomed" him which i don't see it that way now and they possibly were mutually attracted to each other. I just wish she got more respect while she was with us.

u/Royal_Razzmatazz3622 — 2 months ago

Any jazz clubs on the Southside?

Hey, I'm really into jazz and wanted to know if there are any jazz clubs on the southside or lounges that host jazz musicians from time to time. I've been to the Green Mill, the Constellation and some others but they're all on the northside. If anybody has any recommendations I'd appreciate it

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u/Royal_Razzmatazz3622 — 2 months ago

Chez Adele burgers are some of the best I've had

Ive ordered from Chez Adele a couple times and their burgers are pretty good. They're actually fresh compared to some other places and pretty well seasoned. The fresh cut fries they have are good too. Theyre on the far northwest side so I usually get it delivered but if you like smashburgers, id recommend them.

Compared to a place like Small Cheval which i feel whos burgers are subpar in comparison, they're good to me. Also think small cheval must use frozen burgers cause the last time I had them they were not good.

u/Royal_Razzmatazz3622 — 2 months ago

Can someone tell me where my wallet is?

Hey all, I lost my wallet this Tuesday. It was a small, square black cardholder that i was using as my wallet? Could someone tell me what happened to my wallet? I want to know because I honestly don't feel like trying to replace everything i had in my wallet.

It doesn't look exactly like this but this is the closest photo I could find of what it looks like.

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u/Royal_Razzmatazz3622 — 2 months ago

Racism, Bigotry, and Dismissal in the Astrology Community

Spiritual Gangsta Certified did a live on what happened recently with the white dude who had said the n-word during an astrology livestream

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u/Royal_Razzmatazz3622 — 2 months ago

Wish Eloquii still had brick & mortar stores

I honestly wish Eloquii still had brick and mortar stores instead of just being online. I know it's kind of pricey but I like that it's higher end plus size and not cheap, fast fashion. Plus they tend to have good deals sometimes. Some other stores I wish didnt close were ALDO and Nine West

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u/Royal_Razzmatazz3622 — 2 months ago
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What is with these AI chat bots on job applications?

Seriously what is with these AI chat bots on job applications? Why are these websites doing this instead of just directly taking you to the application? I don't want to pretend as if I'm talking to someone "helping" me apply for a job or schedule an interview.

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u/Royal_Razzmatazz3622 — 2 months ago
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Please start taking note of bus numbers and train cars

I think whenever you get on a bus or the L, start taking note of the numbers on the bus or train car as well as the route youre on just in case something happens, you lose something or to file a complaint.

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u/Royal_Razzmatazz3622 — 2 months ago

Tired of people being mean to me unprovoked

Yesterday I had such a bad day. Im still upset by it. I had a job interview that didn't go well and it was hot outside today. Then people were looking at me making very aggressive comments saying I was "musty". I am so tired of people hurting me unprovoked.

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u/Royal_Razzmatazz3622 — 2 months ago

Is a vintage turntable the way to go?

I was thinking about going to a Goodwill where I'm at in Chicago and possibly finding a nice vintage turntable. I've also been looking on Facebook marketplace and have seen a couple priced at around $50 to $100. Like i saw a Scott and Garrad but I do have an audio-technica that I've been wanting to get sent to me. Should I just go get a vintage turntable instead?

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u/Royal_Razzmatazz3622 — 3 months ago