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Does anyone else ever just start crying bcs you want to feel romantic love so badly but you just can’t

Like I want to feel romantic love so badly and I want to be in a romantic relationship until I’m actually in one. I always feel so trapped and I hate it bcs I always end up hurting the other person by breaking up with them. I hate being aro so fucking much dude. I can’t even accept that I’m aro because I crave for romantic love until I’m in a relationship. I want it so badly but I don’t feel it and I want to so badly. I crave for a romantic relationship and to have romantic feelings, but at the same time, romance grosses me out so much and idk why. I just wanna be normal. How do I accept myself as aro? I just wanna fix myself. I don’t wanna be like this, I wanna stop being aro. I hate this sm.

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u/S1LLY_G00B3RXD — 6 days ago

I’m confused on my sexuality.

So I’ve identified as lesbian since i was like 10. I don’t have attraction to men, I can’t picture myself with a man, even saying “this is my boyfriend” makes me grossed out. The problem is, I wanna get back with my ex, who transitioned to a man. I still love him, and I wanna be with him, but I don’t have attraction towards men, it’s just him. I don’t wanna call myself berrisexual bcs it doesn’t sound like me, and I feel like I’m not lesbian enough. I’m attracted to him, not his gender, and I know I’m not pan or bi because I only like women, except for him.

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u/S1LLY_G00B3RXD — 18 days ago