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Why setting up boundaries is sooo damn difficult, I know they say it's a key to healthy relationships but damn people are stubborn af with difficult personalities. 😩 I already feel overwhelmed, no energy to do anything.

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u/Sad-Little-Guy6969 — 16 hours ago
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I am shocked. I shouted on people when got angry for the first time since years (I couldn't hold it anymore) . And nothing happened... To my surprise. They even hurried a little while I was in a hurry. This is some witchcraft.

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u/Sad-Little-Guy6969 — 1 day ago

I wish we could comment those posts but whatever. The paradox is you are nice to some people and they treat you wrong. Some may treat you nice but women will never love you if you are nice them and self-sacrificing. Quite the opposite they ghost you, laugh at you and cheat.

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u/Sad-Little-Guy6969 — 2 days ago

I have a new strategy, some of you may not like it, but others may find it useful. For those who are on day 0.

Since pornography and masturbation got us trapped step by step. For me it started years ago by looking at some normal half-naked pictures and ending up with extreme content.

It's the same technique that I use when I'm too sleepy to get out of bed: first I move my fingers, then my hand, the entire arm and finally the body. It's a lot easier than moving my body all at once.

If going all in and cutting pmo all at once doesn't work for you, try to do it the same way as it trapped you.

For example:

1 week

Instead of watching extreme content watch normal content

2week

Instead of watching it look at normal pictures

3 week

don't use any stimuli at all

4 week

Don't do it at all by replacing it with some hobby or other distraction.

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u/Sad-Little-Guy6969 — 3 days ago
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How do you guys fight corn addiction? And lust in general, I can't even stand a day without it, and complimenting friends and others about how hot they are? Some of them were not comfortable with it but it just can't control myself. WHAT DO WE DO? 😭

And the content I watch is the straight ticket to hell haha 😂

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u/Sad-Little-Guy6969 — 5 days ago