u/SadInitiative2105

Planning to get my first tattoo next month.

Budget: 8-10k

Location: around arm, outer biceps.

Not sure what should i get. An important date? A thing? A symbol?

How do you decide what tattoo you wanna get?

The goal is to look really cool & kinda masculine but it must also have a nice meaning.

I am mostly a passive reader of this sub but something that cringes me is how people give themselves these self proclaimed titles that are so vague —

I am kind, mature, Introverted, pretty chill, fun loving, & so many more.

Here’s the breaking news:

Everyone thinks they are kind.
Everyone thinks their idea of having fun is better.
Everyone is pretty chill until their girl has a guy bff.
Everyone is mature until some serious shit happens & then they have no idea how to act.

I am not a woman but i am pretty sure an intelligent woman would find these terms extremely vague. Better tell something you’ve done or has happened to you, that may reflect all these qualities.

Maybe take inspiration from hinge prompts.

Thank you if you made it till here 🥀

Would love to hear some thoughts on this ;)

I will not mince my words. Dating market is really bad if you have average looks.

\[Don’t really take the title too seriously. Read the post.\]

Women will never say it. But they will chose that 6ft curly hair fair skinned guy with jawline & forearm veins more often than not.

I am no one to question their choices or judge them for that. If you do that as a guy, it makes things worse for you. You become cynical, misogynist & invites depression.

Then what’s the solution?

Nothing actually. If you are an average looking man, you can’t beat that guy in the offline dating scene.

But Instagram & Twitter are your saviours.

Develop a personality. Humour. An audience on any platform.

You don’t need to be a 100k followers wala influencer. You can have women approaching you in DMs at even 5-7k followers.

Now why’s there such a disparity in offline & online dating market?

Bcz everyone wants to have s•x with someone they really find physically hot/attractive. And women are no different. So they chose that best looking guy in bars, parties, events, or if they don’t really know you a lot.

And most average looking men are too skeptical of opening up to women freely. They are kinda insecure.

But when you show your personality through your tweets, reels, videos, or work in general, it compensates for your average looks. And women experience regularly how shitty really hot attractive guys treat them most often.

So you might just get a chance.

Take this with a pinch of salt. I am currently single of course. That’s why I am so free to write this shit at 12 midnight. Lol

What do you think btw? 👀

I will not mince my words. Dating market is really bad if you have average looks.

\[Don’t really take the title too seriously. Read the post.\]

Women will never say it. But they will chose that 6ft curly hair fair skinned guy with jawline & forearm veins more often than not.

I am no one to question their choices or judge them for that. If you do that as a guy, it makes things worse for you. You become cynical, misogynist & invites depression.

Then what’s the solution?

Nothing actually. If you are an average looking man, you can’t beat that guy in the offline dating scene.

But Instagram & Twitter are your saviours.

Develop a personality. Humour. An audience on any platform.

You don’t need to be a 100k followers wala influencer. You can have women approaching you in DMs at even 5-7k followers.

Now why’s there such a disparity in offline & online dating market?

Bcz everyone wants to have s•x with someone they really find physically hot/attractive. And women are no different. So they chose that best looking guy in bars, parties, events, or if they don’t really know you a lot.

And most average looking men are too skeptical of opening up to women freely. They are kinda insecure.

But when you show your personality through your tweets, reels, videos, or work in general, it compensates for your average looks. And women experience regularly how shitty really hot attractive guys treat them most often.

So you might just get a chance.

Take this with a pinch of salt. I am currently single of course. That’s why I am so free to write this shit at 12 midnight. Lol

What do you think btw? 👀

I am looking to shift to a furnished flat with flatmates. If you are already living in a flat and got a room spare, I would love to talk.

Priority:

- Private room
- Ac and all other basic appliances.
- Walking distance from nearest metro
- Walking distance from nearest gym
- chill flatmates

About me -- 23M. Working as a creative producer & marketer with creators & brands. Also a part-time content creator. [@hey.snehil]

Budget -- Depending on flat and stuff, 10-17k.

Please DM with flat pictures and a short intro.
Any leads are highly appreciated.