u/Salty-Astronaut3608

23M. I've been in a relationship with my gf for the past 1.5 years almost.

She told me she was studying in christ university blr bba. As for me, I'm right now working as a software engineer. For the past year we've been talking about how our day was, how was life what happened in her college and how her day was.

Cool, I've been happy with her, she also used to send adorable gifts for me.

Sometimes i felt she was lying but I took it for granted. It was mostly long distance but we've met twice past year, and we tried to enjoy every moment of it. Everything was good.

Lately she was telling me after 2nd year of college she's planning to change career and start a new college. Personally i wasn't in favour of it but I'm okay she wanted that.

She had some entrance exam in delhi. We met a few times in delhi, i arranged a get together, we had a fair share of fun.

However, her parents were always against by it, always. As of today her father sent me a note saying :

"She has been lying everything about college and bangalore. Everything is a lie" ( in summary)

Along with that, her father shared proof that she's just passed 12th with passing grades. I cross checked with exam result portal and turned out its actually true. This was when my heart sank-in. I'm confused, what is right and what is wrong. I'm confused whom to believe. I know her father is right. She's so wrong lying to my fucking face for over a year (before that were friends so over 3 years almost).

I don't know... if anything was real..

EDIT: I broke up with her. Just wanted to vent

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23M. I've been in a relationship with my gf for the past 1.5 years almost.

She told me she was studying in christ university blr bba. As for me, I'm right now working as a software engineer. For the past year we've been talking about how our day was, how was life what happened in her college and how her day was.

Cool, I've been happy with her, she also used to send adorable gifts for me.

Sometimes i felt she was lying but I took it for granted. It was mostly long distance but we've met twice past year, and we tried to enjoy every moment of it. Everything was good.

Lately she was telling me after 2nd year of college she's planning to change career and start a new college. Personally i wasn't in favour of it but I'm okay she wanted that.

She had some entrance exam in delhi. We met a few times in delhi, i arranged a get together, we had a fair share of fun.

However, her parents were always against by it, always. As of today her father sent me a note saying :

"She has been lying everything about college and bangalore. Everything is a lie" ( in summary)

Along with that, her father shared proof that she's just passed 12th with passing grades. I cross checked with exam result portal and turned out its actually true. This was when my heart sank-in. I'm confused, what is right and what is wrong. I'm confused whom to believe. I know her father is right. She's so wrong lying to my fucking face for over a year (before that were friends so over 3 years almost).

I don't know... if anything was real. What should i do?

Hello everyone, I’m a Software Engineer based in India with two years of experience and a Bachelor’s degree in Electronics and Communication Engineering.

I’m planning to pursue a Master’s in Embedded Systems, but I’m unsure which program to choose among FH Dortmund, RPTU, and TU Chemnitz.

My primary goal is to secure employment after completing my Master’s.

I and my gf decided to have sex 10 days ago, after 2 days she started vomiting so we decided to have a pregnancy test just to be sure.

She tested once, then it resulted faint line, she told she by mistake used water with a little urine.

Then she tested again with help of her elder sister then she only got one line (FYI. She drank a water before test).

I'm just confused is it even possible to get a faint line with urine and water? Or it can be an evaporation line?

I'm both in shock and scared as fuck. Me and my gf decided to have sex 7 days ago, after 2 days she started vomiting. Today she tried to have a pregnancy test.

There was one dark line and one faint line. OMFGGGG😭😭. I USED A CONDOM, and came outside!. Still she is pregnant??!!!😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭

Pls i need some help and advice on how can i proceed forward😭🥲

Edit: I'm not a father. She tested again and it was negative

I don't know what to do. I'm both sad and filled with guilt writing this. Me and my gf decided to have sex (with condom) 7 days ago.

I've talked to everyone and i know it might not be the cause of pregnancy because symptoms hardly come after 3 days.

But I'm scared if I have done something to hurt her body. I don't know. I don't know what to do. I'm scared 🥲😭

23 M working as a Senior Software Engineer 2 yoe.

I was planning to go for masters but I'm only getting embedded engineering masters. Confused if i should keep my current job or go for masters... one major downside is that masters in embedded would sort of be a reset for me since I'm currently working as a full stack developer.

I want to do something that will secure my career and a better life in future. Any advice would be helpful. Thanks!

23 M working as a Senior Software Engineer at ~16lpa, 2 yoe.

I was planning to go for masters but I'm only getting embedded engineering masters. Confused if i should keep my current job or go for masters... one major downside is that masters in embedded would sort of be a reset for me since I'm currently working as a full stack developer.

I want to do something that will secure my career and a better life in future. Any advice would be helpful. Thanks!

I (23M) had sex with my gf 20F for the first time. I used condom, made sure I came outside her vagina. Since it was my first time and her first time so we weren't really sure what to do but, after all the deed j saw a small white dot near her vagina. This got me thinking that cum mightve leaked inside her. I made sure to change condom after i came outside. Her period is in 10 days but im kinda scared now.. what are the chances of pregnancy?

I (23M) had sex with my gf 20F for the first time. I used condom, made sure I came outside her vagina. Since it was my first time and her first time so we weren't really sure what to do but, after all the deed j saw a small white dot near her vagina. This got me thinking that cum mightve leaked inside her. I made sure to change condom after i came outside. Her period is in 10 days but im kinda scared now.. what are the chances of pregnancy?

TYPO: gf*😭

Recently got an acceptance for RPTU Embedded Svstems. Just had a few doubts related to it.

⁃ How's the iob prospect after? Have been hearing that ece iobs are dried up now

- How's the academics / culture there:

Thanks!

my_qualifications: I'm a Senior Software Engineer right now with 2 yoe Right now working on web development domain Bachelors in Electronics and Communication Engineering). Current CTC:16 lpa

I'm a Senior Software Engineer right now with 2 yoe, (Right now working on web development domain, Bachelors in Electronics and Communication Engineering). Recently got an acceptance for RPTU Embedded Systems. Just had a few doubts related to it.

- How's the job prospect after? Have been hearing that ece jobs are dried up now.

- How's the academics / culture there?

Thanks!

I'm looking for a pet boarding for my 2 cats for a week from june 1st to 7th june.

Any leads would be really helpful.

thanks!

I am a senior software engineer at an mnc in india currently 23. However, I've been planning to go for masters in germany. But since my bachelor's was in electronics and communication engineering, I am only getting embedded engineering courses in shortlist.

Should i switch career because of this? I am very confused, on one hand i feel that software engineer might slowly die, on the other hand i feel embedded engineering is like a reset button to my career. Very confused in life, please help...