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Ben bu sene psikoloji lisansına başlayacağım ve bu alanın içindeki herkese bazı sorularım olacak cevaplarsanız iyi olur tartışmalara yeni düşüncelere fikirlere açığım.

Öncelikle ben Türkiye’de okumuyorum UOY’tan kabul aldım ama Türkiye’de okuyanlara da ya da daha doğrusu nerede olursanız olun bu alana giren herkese karşı olacak bu sorularım.
1-şu an bulunduğunuz yerden memnun musunuz?
2-sebebi?
3-bu alana yeni giren kişilere ne tavsiyeler verirsiniz?
4-insanlar genelde sadece klinik psikolojiyi biliyor oluyorlar bu alan dışında neler yapılabilir?
5-bu alana girdiğinizde pişmanlıklarınız ve iyi ki yapmışım dediğiniz şeyler nelerdi?
6-şahsen ben akademiye yönelmek istediğimi düşünüyorum tabi bu değişebilir ama sizi bu akıllıca bir düşünce mi ?
7-Özellikle Türkiye’dekiler için soruyorum; ne kadar fırsatlarınız var?
8-bunu da Türkiye’den sonra yurt dışı deneyimi yaşamış insanlar için soruyorum; sizin için en belirgin farklar nelerdi bu alan konusunda yani hem Türkiye hem de eğitim aldığınız diğer ülkededeki farklar?
(İstediğinizi cevaplayabilirsiniz)

Hi,Currently im doing Bsc psychology (Hons) in UOY. And ı was wondering could ı get in directly into a academic PhD program or should ı consider; masters+Phd programs?

How common is to go into directly phd after bsc?

Some of my traits are like this ;

Negative
Unsociable
Unenergrtic
Careful
Authentic
Looks insensitive but doesn’t
Melancholic
People pleaser
Polite
Comfort seeking
Doesn’t easily trust people
Good listener
Spiteful
Doesn’t open up easily
Resting face

Probably Victim or childlike? (Honestly ı couldn’t quite understand this romance style thing)

I have a hard time connecting with anyone.
I can’t decide if weather do ı want it or not.
İt usually gives pull and push vibes.
I usually resist anything but underneath ı somewhat like it a little bit of push.
I like it when someone take cares of me and makes me comfortable.
I’m somewhat struggle with; house chores ,taking action,showing vulnerability etc.
-I hate it when ; He is childish,Asshole,when ı feel like his mom ,unhygienic,irresponsible,shows Exaggerated emotions and actions,selfish,untrustworthy, too much extroversion,bubbly,hyperactivity,Bipolar,kind of an collectivist and Hierarchic mindset,controlling, superficial,thinks that we are unequal ,old fashioned, also stereotypical relationships bores the hell out of me.
- things that ı like:ı want someone who is interesting ,mature(mentally),calm,reliable,introverted(but not more than me),open minded,independent,chill,patient,has similar interests and mindset,reasonable,sees me as an equal talking about ;ideas,philosophy,psychology,sociology etc
I like when he is somehow shy idk :7
For physical preferences; ı don’t have strong preferences but I will try;
for weight: something in the middle
Height somehow taller ,ı kinda like black hair but it depends on the person .
And lastly ı don’t like children

Did mock exam without preparation and got 95-105.
Most easy part for me is reading
And the most hardest part was speaking.
How can ı improve my score?

Hi,this is my first time taking this exam and need score at least 110.
I took the mock exam first time without any preparation.
I will be taking this exam in a half month what is your suggestion pls give some me tips.
And about the mock exam in the speaking part ı get really anxious and ı use “ehh” or “Iıı” so frequently that ı thought ı’m gonna end up with a really low score. For me the reading part was the most easiest part.
Waiting for useful comebacks hopefully 🤞

F

-I usually have very low energy levels so I’m mostly concerned about more practical things.
-ı concerned about money because of;
Earn at least a decent amount that ı can live comfortably,do what ı wanted,travel,peace of mind etc.
-ı used to couldn’t care less about fashion.
I used to be so messy that my room looked like a dump,ı pick something random and wear it (this might be because of major depression thought)but ı grew out of it , and now ı keep my things neat, ı care more about what ı wear. Because ı noticed that living more comfortable and valuing my body makes me feel good.
- ı usually wear comfortable thing but care about self expression ,like makes me kind of unique.
-ı don’t care about what is trending or fashionable
I just wear what ı want.
I hate wearing colorful things.
-ı’m not very a good cook, just making simple things but ı’m picky about it and usually eating same thing again and again because ı’m to lazy to do so. Sometimes ı eat just because of necessity. I don’t want to get starved lol.
When ı was a child ı had a really weak body and ı was to thin from my peers that ı need to go to a doctor and he said that to me ; you look like starving African kids you need to gain weight.
My weight is more normal than before but ı’m sill skinny af.
-ı enjoy doing dance,skateboarding,crafting etc. but ı’m definitely not an active person though ı’m a fast learner.
And ı usually don’t care what people wear.

Emotion

Some people say that ı look like robot 🤖
I usually get along with the emotional athmospere at the moment, ı’m scared of expressing my emotions without a filter. But ı’m not really good at it because my emotions shows in my face without my permission . I find hard to simile.
Example ; we were taking a group photo and ı thought ı was smiling like joker and then ı saw the photo and ı looked like Batman .
I enjoy classical music,art,opera,balet.
I usallly keep my emotions to myself but blow after. I’dont like theatre. If there is a person that ı find annoying the most that probably will be a person that Showing exaggerated feelings, celf centered, never listens,selfish and a person that cares a lot about hierarchy.
I don’t talk much if there isn’t anything that makes my interest blow.
I’m quite introverted myself people drains me easily ı don’t have that energy.
When ı’m in a group of people usually ı’m the most introverted one. But it depends on the person that ı’m be with tho. I’m usually very cold and distant .
I’m not the one who that approaches people first.
And ı don’t look like it but ım quite sensitive deep down.
I’m not really good at dealing with people and ı have no idea how realationships need to work.
Because ı get drained easily.

Will

I go with the flow when ı’m with sameone ı don’t express my preferences out loud but ı have it.
If ım with a person that ı feel more comfortable around ı might say it thought.
That’s why ı prefer to be alone most of the time because when ı’m with people ı feel the need to agree what they say.
But this is just for events.
For example; going somewhere,doing an unimportant activity etc.
I can make my own decisions about my life and ı don’t like it when people interfere . When ı’m talking with anyone ı can express my preferences easily and ı don’t care when people judge me for it. I don’t try to impose anything usually.
I do my own thing ,though ı’m to lazy and ı have low energy levels.
But if I’m doing something with someone that doesn’t interest me much ı prefer giving someone the lead (because ı don’t want to make effort)

Logic

I feel like a lot of people doesn’t care about the truth as much as ı care .
I like talking about philosophy.
Example; when ı’m talking with semone; teacher,friend,family etc. ı noticed that ı Unconsciously impose my thoughts and this is making people feel irritated.
I take so much time to think about things.
When ı’m researching something ı value the most correct and reliable recourse. I’m to picky about it. Something that ı noticed in recent years that ı can’t swept by my emotions or other things like ego etc. if I’m doing something it needs to be reasonable . I rarely discuss my ideas. I always try to make sense of everything like someones emotions any idea any event. That it looks like piss people off sometimes. I mean it is or it is not? Simple as it is. I thought ı was a thoughtful person but recently people say that ı’m to judgmental.