u/Sofiasunshine86

Hello lovely community, I had my second appointment in an eye clinic yesterday. They tried to measure my strabism and it was kinda difficult for them because it seems to change a little in different situations or I was not able to answer correctly I really don't know. In the end we almost had it but not perfect. They put a Prism glass in front of my glasses on the one eye.

And honestly that was kinda weird, I usually see double but I'm used to the way it is. It only gets annoying when I'm tired, usually I can just ignore it. But looking almost at the same point gave me serious double vision that I wasn't able to ignore. They let me walk around with this for like 20 minutes to get used to it.

I thought I would walk into walls when they were on my left side and couldn't see distances there. Very weird. I mean a prism isn't a simulation but it made me nervous. I really wanna get rid of the strabism. But the doctor wasn't sure if my brain can ever get normal vision. I think I could get used to it but still...

At least he said the optic correction would be no problem but I need to know if I can live with the way I see afterwards. The doctor asked me several times if I see double permanently, I told him yes. My eyes both work I just have strabism. So he put a lens in front of my Support eye and asked me if this would be annoying. Of course it was, the eye works for god sake lol.

Did anybody had similar experiences?

But I got 41 audiobooks. Most last more than 20 hours, so I'm fine for a year I guess. Fantasy, scifi and some other stuff. The whole expanse series, whole red rising, 3 body problem. What did you guys get?

A person I knew as a gay man before came out as trans. So far so good, but honestly, passing is non existent. For the sake of it I'm using she pronouns. She basically looks like a dude with a Belly and a Beard Shadow in a dress with a grown ass man voice.

I met her at a party today and she complained that she got thrown out of the lady's restroom in another club the week before. I know the club, went there many times and never had issues. The bouncers told her to use the men's restroom.

I didn't try to be mean, told her to maybe use some makeup, she said she does, but I couldn't see any. Eyebrows are also not done at all. Like I said, basically a dude in a dress. I told her about a cheap and good place for hair removal. She said she's fine the way she is. She's also happy with her ( non existent) passing. Also she doesn't take hormones yet, isn't even sure if she wants to and of course has no issues with her genitals. Also no plans for any voice training.

How on Earth can you explain to these people that the world doesn't work like that?

Not to all of it but the basics. I'm a trans woman that transitioned in her mid 30s, ,srs ,hrt, breasts implants, name and gender change, beard and hair removal, voice training and a Glottoplasty. I got lucky with genetics and I'm one of the few who pass while transitioning later in life and I would say I live mostly stealth. Zero problems in women's safe spaces.

I think you should have gender dyshphoria. Why else would you know that you are trans and have a need to transition? But I do understand if someone doesn't want the SRS because of safety reasons. We all know it doesn't always works perfect. But not even consider it is not understandable to me. Some people live as trans but willingly don't do hrt. I also have no idea why. Dysphoria must kill you at this point.

I mean people do express themselves differently but why on earth does a trans male want to dress like a woman and just use male pronouns? Or a trans woman that keeps her beard and let it grow. Or didn't voice train and sound like a grown ass man. Like wtf? Or maybe that goes into non binary, which I don't really get but whatever. I let the people be.

I've been born with that and always felt wrong being born male. In the 90s, there was basically 0 information about that and I thought I was a sick weirdo until I saw a trans person in television for the first time. Ok I still felt weird but at least I knew what was wrong with me and that I wasn't the only Person. I think that especially younger people just jump on it like being a trend. They have no idea how crippling dysphoria feels like.

Hallöchen zusammen, ich bin nicht mehr die jüngste, werde bald 40. Ich habe im kaufmännischen Bereich gearbeitet und keinen Bock mehr drauf. Eigentlich wollte ich schon immer im sozialen Bereich arbeiten, daher meine Überlegung. Die Frage ist natürlich auch wie da der Jobmarkt aussieht.

Der DFB und vor allem die FIFA kriecht vor einem offen faschistischem Regime. Ich meine Trump hat ja den FIFA Friedenspreis erhalten, dieser ist natürlich auch seriös und wurde nicht für ihn erfunden. Wer da jetzt hin fliegt, sich maximal abzocken lässt und evtl noch von ice erschossen wird hat selbst schuld.

Das schlimmste Bild das ist mir vorstellen kann ist das unsere Mannschaft gewinnt und dann am ende im weißen Haus Medaillen von einem pedo kriminellen facho überreicht bekommt und noch fröhlich in die Kamera lächelt.

Früher habe ich wirklich sehr gerne die WM spiele geschaut. Ich werde kein einziges ansehen und hoffe auf eine grottige Leistung. Dann ist hierzulande zumindest ruhe mit dem Thema.

Just wanted to say that I'm happy that I'm not alone in the world. Death to all onions!

Hey girls, I like racing games. I also own Forza 5 played it for a while but never fell in love with it. I just didn't like the Mexico setting. But im very much into the Japan setting of the newest game.

Also I'm not entirely sure if my PC can handle it in good graphics and 60+ fps (3060 ti ryzen 5 5600x, 16 GB ram) . Forza 5 was no problem but the newest part is way more demanding.

Edit: thx for the comments I bought it and will try it tonight when the download is done. I want my pink Lamborghini xd

Yes I admit it. Like maybe 7-10 years ago I thought this guy was actually super smart. A genius that made lots and lots of money and uses it to get humanity to the next level. A visionary, when he said something I believed it.

Dear Lord I was so dumb. Today I'm one of his biggest haters and I could smash my face against the wall. When I see his dumbass retard hair transplant gender affirming care fuck face I just wanna throw up.

This guy rants about trans people all day long while having more gender affirming care than all trans people combined. He is a racist, bigot, Idiot and whatever you wanna call him and much more. I hate him so much. Nobody will see love him no matter how much money he scams.

Please forgive me.

Ich bin Weitsichtig mit+4 Dioptrien, dazu habe ich ein Gestell mit großen Gläsern. Da ich nicht wie ein Maulwurf aussehen möchte überlege ich die teuren Zeiss Gläser von Fielmann zu nehmen (360€) , da diese maximal dünn sind. Ich könnte auch die mittlere Qualität (280€) nehmen. Der Unterschied ist auf dem Papier nicht gigantisch (10 Prozent weniger Vergrößerung und 15 Prozent dünner zur Vorstufe), aber unter diesen Umständen evtl relevant. Dazu gibt's halt bei Fielmann die Versicherung.

Bei online Anbietern wie meinbrillenglas könnte ich solche Gläser für 200 Euro bekommen.

Da ich die Brille ständig nutze überlege ich ob sich die Mehrkosten lohnen. Hat da jemand Erfahrung mit?