Constant Mechanical Issues and Delays

I’ve noticed an influx of mechanical delays with frontier. I’ve taken 6 flights in the last two months and EVERY SINGLE ONE was delayed for mechanical issues and I’ve seen a few posts of people complaining about the same thing. Is this just a coincidence?

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u/SourPunchStraw1207 — 2 days ago

How to tell if someone unfollowed you

I don’t know if this has already been uncovered but I just found a new way to tell if someone unfollowed you if their account is public. My account is private. Go to your messages. Scroll all the way through and see who has an “x”. Let me know if it worked for you.

u/SourPunchStraw1207 — 25 days ago

Area 13.1 Half Marathon Bib

Hello everyone, if you’re in the Roswell area and would like to attend the area 13.1 half marathon, I have a bib I’m willing to transfer at a discounted rate. Unfortunately I won’t be able to attend this year. If you’re interested please let me know so that I can loop in the organizers for a seamless transfer.

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u/SourPunchStraw1207 — 27 days ago

The Tired Oldest Daughter

I don't even know if I'm looking for advice, validation, or just to know I'm not the only one. I'm the oldest daughter, and I'm exhausted. I'm 31, and I feel like I've spent so much of my adult life being responsible for everyone else. I have three younger adult siblings, and somehow I'm still expected to check behind them, remind them of things, solve problems, and among other things. They're adults. I love them, but I'm tired of feeling like another parent. The hardest part is that whenever I try to focus on myself, I feel selfish. I'm trying to lose weight, improve my health, build my career, save money, travel, and finally create the life I want. But there's this constant guilt that I'm abandoning my family if I stop carrying everyone. I don't even think my family intentionally wants to overwhelm me. It's just become expected that I'll figure things out because I've always been the responsible one. And I don't know how to stop being that person without feeling like I'm letting everyone down.

For those of you who have been through this, especially the oldest daughters, how did you finally choose yourself? How did you stop feeling guilty? Did you have to set boundaries? Did your family eventually adjust?
I love my family, but I don't want to wake up at 40 or 50 realizing I spent my whole life taking care of everyone else's future while putting mine on hold.
I'd really appreciate hearing from anyone who's been on the other side of this.

I also want to add that my mom often make comments like “we’re family, we’re supposed to help each other”, “we’re all we got”, “what if something happens to me”, etc. it’s draining.

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u/SourPunchStraw1207 — 1 month ago

The Tired Oldest Daughter

I don't even know if I'm looking for advice, validation, or just to know I'm not the only one. I'm the oldest daughter, and I'm exhausted. I'm 31, and I feel like I've spent so much of my adult life being responsible for everyone else. I have three younger adult siblings, and somehow I'm still expected to check behind them, remind them of things, solve problems, and among other things. They're adults. I love them, but I'm tired of feeling like another parent. The hardest part is that whenever I try to focus on myself, I feel selfish. I'm trying to lose weight, improve my health, build my career, save money, travel, and finally create the life I want. But there's this constant guilt that I'm abandoning my family if I stop carrying everyone. I don't even think my family intentionally wants to overwhelm me. It's just become expected that I'll figure things out because I've always been the responsible one. And I don't know how to stop being that person without feeling like I'm letting everyone down.

For those of you who have been through this, especially the oldest daughters, how did you finally choose yourself? How did you stop feeling guilty? Did you have to set boundaries? Did your family eventually adjust?
I love my family, but I don't want to wake up at 40 or 50 realizing I spent my whole life taking care of everyone else's future while putting mine on hold.
I'd really appreciate hearing from anyone who's been on the other side of this.

I also want to add that my mom often make comments like “we’re family, we’re supposed to help each other”, “we’re all we got”, “what if something happens to me”, etc. it’s draining.

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u/SourPunchStraw1207 — 1 month ago
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The Tired Oldest Daughter

I don't even know if I'm looking for advice, validation, or just to know I'm not the only one. I'm the oldest daughter, and I'm exhausted. I'm 31, and I feel like I've spent so much of my adult life being responsible for everyone else. I have three younger adult siblings, and somehow I'm still expected to check behind them, remind them of things, solve problems, and among other things. They're adults. I love them, but I'm tired of feeling like another parent. The hardest part is that whenever I try to focus on myself, I feel selfish. I'm trying to lose weight, improve my health, build my career, save money, travel, and finally create the life I want. But there's this constant guilt that I'm abandoning my family if I stop carrying everyone. I don't even think my family intentionally wants to overwhelm me. It's just become expected that I'll figure things out because I've always been the responsible one. And I don't know how to stop being that person without feeling like I'm letting everyone down.

For those of you who have been through this, especially the oldest daughters, how did you finally choose yourself? How did you stop feeling guilty? Did you have to set boundaries? Did your family eventually adjust?
I love my family, but I don't want to wake up at 40 or 50 realizing I spent my whole life taking care of everyone else's future while putting mine on hold.
I'd really appreciate hearing from anyone who's been on the other side of this.

I also want to add that my mom often make comments like “we’re family, we’re supposed to help each other”, “we’re all we got”, “what if something happens to me”, etc. it’s draining.

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u/SourPunchStraw1207 — 1 month ago

The Tired Eldest Daughter

I don't even know if I'm looking for advice, validation, or just to know I'm not the only one. I'm the oldest daughter, and I'm exhausted. I'm 31, and I feel like I've spent so much of my adult life being responsible for everyone else. I have three younger adult siblings, and somehow I'm still expected to check behind them, remind them of things, solve problems, and among other things. They're adults. I love them, but I'm tired of feeling like another parent. The hardest part is that whenever I try to focus on myself, I feel selfish. I'm trying to lose weight, improve my health, build my career, save money, travel, and finally create the life I want. But there's this constant guilt that I'm abandoning my family if I stop carrying everyone. I don't even think my family intentionally wants to overwhelm me. It's just become expected that I'll figure things out because I've always been the responsible one. And I don't know how to stop being that person without feeling like I'm letting everyone down.

For those of you who have been through this, especially the oldest daughters, how did you finally choose yourself? How did you stop feeling guilty? Did you have to set boundaries? Did your family eventually adjust?
I love my family, but I don't want to wake up at 40 or 50 realizing I spent my whole life taking care of everyone else's future while putting mine on hold.
I'd really appreciate hearing from anyone who's been on the other side of this.

I also want to add that my mom often make comments like “we’re family, we’re supposed to help each other”, “we’re all we got”, “what if something happens to me”, etc. it’s draining.

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u/SourPunchStraw1207 — 1 month ago

The Tired Oldest Daughter

I don't even know if I'm looking for advice, validation, or just to know I'm not the only one. I'm the oldest daughter, and I'm exhausted. I'm 31, and I feel like I've spent so much of my adult life being responsible for everyone else. I have three younger adult siblings, and somehow I'm still expected to check behind them, remind them of things, solve problems, and among other things. They're adults. I love them, but I'm tired of feeling like another parent. The hardest part is that whenever I try to focus on myself, I feel selfish. I'm trying to lose weight, improve my health, build my career, save money, travel, and finally create the life I want. But there's this constant guilt that I'm abandoning my family if I stop carrying everyone. I don't even think my family intentionally wants to overwhelm me. It's just become expected that I'll figure things out because I've always been the responsible one. And I don't know how to stop being that person without feeling like I'm letting everyone down.

For those of you who have been through this, especially the oldest daughters, how did you finally choose yourself? How did you stop feeling guilty? Did you have to set boundaries? Did your family eventually adjust?
I love my family, but I don't want to wake up at 40 or 50 realizing I spent my whole life taking care of everyone else's future while putting mine on hold.
I'd really appreciate hearing from anyone who's been on the other side of this.

I also want to add that my mom often make comments like “we’re family, we’re supposed to help each other”, “we’re all we got”, “what if something happens to me”, etc. it’s draining.

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u/SourPunchStraw1207 — 1 month ago

Probation inquiry?

Does probation begin the first day or training or after graduation? Just curious how that work because with OO probation doesn’t begin until after IOE is complete.

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u/SourPunchStraw1207 — 2 months ago