I’m not sure what this is and it appeared about a day ago.
Here’s what I do know:
Not sure what to do about it
Self explanatory, really lol. Will people in my circle get a notification when I make a new place? Or will they get notified if I turn on alerts for that place, etc?
Im selling two pieces of furniture! The couch is in fair condition for $100 (negotiable) and the trundle is in good condition for $250! Dm for details and more pictures!! I’m located around Courtland and John Wesley
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I’m turning 20 on the 5th of July and I’ve been super excited about celebrating because I feel like I’ll actually have (a few) friends to celebrate with this year. I’m also excited because I believe that turning 20 is a big step in the transformation of becoming an adult.
When I turned 16, i spent my birthday alone without family or friends. I was in a very difficult time in my life where i had just been bullied out of my last school, so I was in the summer between that one and my next school I was attending that fall.
I spent it alone because I had no friends and because my dad thought it would be a good idea for him to go to a lake house retreat with his friends and fiancé. It was no secret how suicidal and depressed I was; in fact, they were the ones who even agreed that I switched schools. I was even more depressed about this and voiced it openly about my disappointment and frustration that he wasn’t there for me because of my loneliness and also because I believed that 16 was also a huge turning point in my life in terms of maturity.
This year, I’m going to be 20 and my dad has just informed me that he’s going on a cruise over my birthday. I didn’t even get to find out by him telling me, which made me more upset.
I feel like he’s missing these important milestones in my life and doesn’t care. I have two twin younger brothers turning 19 this year (next week), and my dad and his (now) spouse are in town for them.
AIO? I’m an adult now, which I understand means I should be mature about this, but I also feel like I have a right to be upset. It also upsets me that they’re leaving ON my birthday, so I feel like it’s ridiculous to assume that they “forgot” or anything.
TL;DR : my dad and his spouse are going out overseas during my 20th birthday celebration and did the same thing when I was turning 16 and had no friends and spent it alone. He didn’t tell me until I asked about something unrelated to my bday
EDIT: we also always do a birthday dinner for the family member. When he isn’t here, it doesn’t happen.
Edit 2: i want to clarify that this isn’t the only time he’s prioritized his vacations over me. When i was 17, I needed a very important surgery that he refused to pay for for over a month because of the price (12k) even though he was planning a 30k trip to Bali the next month
Are they good quality? Ratings seem to be good, but I’m nervous to order them lol
I’ve been friends with this group for almost 2 years and they tend to joke a lot like this. However, I’m usually the one at the punchline of the joke. I’ve expressed that this makes me sad and uncomfortable; like I’m lonely even within the group, but it doesn’t seem to stop. I’m 20M (BATS guild) and the others are 18M (PHM guild) and 16F (others in the group are also around 17-19). I know I could be overreacting, but it makes me sad that they don’t seem to want to hang out with me as me and only want to do group stuff. I’m in summer classes for my college so I stay on track and also work a part time job, so I’m not usually available. When I am, I get treated like this. I feel so unlikable, but AIO?
Edit; I’m friends IRL with one person here and the rest are mutual friends who live far away and have different devices (Apple and android), which is why we use discord. Like I also said, I’ve known these people for 2 years so we all met when I was freshly 18 cus I just turned 20. It’s not as big of a gap as yall are making it seem
I’ve been adding dolls for the past few months and i have a slight spending problem, so I do have a lot so far.. I’m sure you can tell that I also have a favorite lol
Also ignore my bagged up sweet screams Drac.. she’s in bag jail until I can find her shoes somewhere for a reasonable price and get her a proper stand
My title says it all tbh. Mine still has no info and I feel like everyone keeps getting theirs but me and I ordered back in mid February
Hello! I was wondering if it would be better to take a new class with a professor you’ve had prior or to take a new professor? Purely speaking from a rapport and networking perspective. I took this professor last spring and I got an A+ in her class and have the opportunity to take a different type of class with the same teacher. Is it better to take her again to build that relationship?
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I bought this keychain and a sticker from an artist in artist alley this year. I totally forgot to grab their card and won’t be able to go back tomorrow. I tried using google image search and searched elsewhere and it didn’t seem to help. Can anyone help me find their username on socials or even just their booth number? I believe they were within 2600-3000 in artist alley, but totally forgot their name. They were definitely located on the right side of the alley that they were in too😔🙏
I can’t post pictures here, which sucks, but i can describe them:
Both the keychain and the sticker were of Draculaura from monster high 🙏🙏
Hello! I ordered stuff back in February and today, when I was looking to see if any of my details have updated on the shipping process, i noticed that my shipping address and my billing address were processed as the same location.
I WOULD LIKE TO NOTE: this is not the actual case for me. My card is linked to a different address than my current shipping address. *** My question is: if they took my money and I haven’t received any cancelation notices, is it probably fine? Google wasn’t much help, but said that some websites only cancel it for mixed up info like that if they set up a system to prevent fraud that way. However, will it go to my card company and they’ll see it as wrong? It’s been 3/4 months and nothing, but I’m still worried. I don’t think they used any systems like that in the checkout process that I’m aware of? I know it’s kind of a niche situation, but has anyone else had this happen and it’s been fine?
My dad (61M), known as Papa to me because I have two dads, gives me (19M junior in college)100 a month to spend on things I enjoy such as hangouts, food to eat out, etc, and deposits it into my bank account directly. On top of this, I have a college fund that pays for school related expenses such as food, books, tuition, etc. It does not pay for non food items such as toiletries, cleaning supplies, etc. I am a full time student (16 credits during fall and spring and 6 credits during the summer without fail).
When I was in my senior year of high school, I held two part time jobs, juggled 2 AP classes, graduated a year and a half early (by completing what would have been my spring junior and senior year’s worth of work as a sophomore).
When I graduated and was preparing for college, my papa told me to quit both of my jobs to focus full time on school. He was adamant and promised that he would cover my expenses so I could focus on my education. I was reluctant, but agreed. When freshman year college started, I was living in a dorm on the required meal plan. However, I am a vegetarian. The dining hall was never prepared to make sure there was enough vegetarian food for those who were actually vegetarian and those who just wanted the fully veggie food. I barely had anything to eat for lunch and dinner every week day because it would always be gone by the time I could get there from classes.
Knowing this, my papa would not allow me to purchase any food or supplies for the dorm. I was also unable to find a job near my school by the time I realized that it was going to be this way. I didn’t have a car, had no money, no job, and was living off of $100 a month my OTHER parent was providing me (divorced parents). At one point, I was walking around in the rain in 5 year old crocs that had burned a hole through the rubber.
My papa has more than enough money to provide me at least an additional 100 to get something. My other parent is not as well off, so I never pushed for any more money from him.
I eventually blew up at my papa telling him that he made me quit and lose my only forms of income and I was living off of scraps that year because he wouldn’t uphold his promise.
Fast forward to last week:
My papa was talking about the money he was giving us to a family friend at my brothers’ high school graduation party. I overheard my papa telling him that he was giving me *too much* money because I already get enough from my dad (still 100 bucks almost 2 years later). I was already heated hearing this, so I walked over and told the family friend everything I said above and my papa looked embarrassed by this. I feel like I might be overreacting only because I know a lot of college students get and have way less than I do. It’s not that I’m ungrateful for the college fund and 100 I get, but it wasn’t enough to live off of when I was a freshman.
AITAH for telling the true story and disrupting them/getting upset?
**crossposting**
For some context, my bf (NonB 19) and I (M19) have been together for over 3 years and i have met his mom on obviously multiple occasions. We have a great relationship and I know she loves me a lot when I come for holidays. She is not the problem. The problem is my bf’s twin brother (NonB 19) who i have a hard time getting a long with. We’ve fought over so much over the past years and we almost never see eye to eye even though we technically have a lot of the same goals and interests. For the past 5/6 months, it has been especially bad where he has tried to turn people against me over speculation, OCD, and his anxiety. Because of this, I wasn’t allowed to attend the Easter family gathering and stayed home while my bf and his brother went out of town to see her and their extended. This incident was the only family holiday I haven’t attended against my wishes. This was partially my decision as I didn’t want to stir up any drama.
However, a few days ago, my bfs brother reached out and wanted to stay in our shared apartment for a minimum of 3 DAYS because of some lease struggles with their new apartment. I was obviously apprehensive and said no, especially if they had other options (they did). I’m feeling frustrated that they’d want to stay at MY apartment with me and my bf for multiple days but couldn’t handle a few hours for Easter.
And now, this Tuesday, my bf is having an outting with his mom for Mother’s Day (late timing due to scheduling conflicts) and we don’t know if his twin is also attending. I’m nervous to keep pushing for more information because I don’t want it to be a big deal, but I’m also going to be very upset if I can’t go just because his brother is going. Am I overreacting?
Has anyone taken the Baroque Art history class? If so, how was it and who was your professor? I’m on the waitlist for the fall with Grace Harpster and her rating is a 3.6 on RMP, so I’m a little nervous.