u/SyraxMireme

Hello, I'm interested in reading something about the psychology of men over 50 dating girls under 30 or, even more specifically, men in their 50s or over with children, dating girls/young women their kids age or younger.

But I can't seem to put in the right parameters and can't find much, not scientific at least.

Thank you in advance!

Being fully attached to someone who sometimes gives you so little that it feels like enough cause they usually give you 0, but that 1 that they give you feels like 200.

Is it emotional starvation?

We were at a town fest and my friend's uncle was commenting on a sorbet he didn't like and said "if you eat too many they'll give you diabetes", I don't like him very much but if he wasn't him I would've made him feel like a fool, I laughed and said "no, actually" and made a spin to show my devices. My friend's mom laughed, I hope they told him something after.

Complaining just bc he's one of those men who have to make a joke every 4 seconds, that's why it was annoying, I would've ignored another person probably lol

UPDATE: Got an answer from Palermo and they couldn't find him in the archives, so no foglio matricolare. Weird

So, I found Frank Fratello's immigration records, he put his sister and her husband as the relatives in Detroit, then he worked for Chalmers motors, as said in his draft registration card of 1917, then he fully disappears.

I found death certificates of his sister's children, where she lived (by looking for her husband), where she died, found the husband's photo even, I looked at census and immigrations and on newspaper deaths and for name changes and deformation of the name, he fully vanished from Detroit.

I've contacted the Italian city that should've known if he served and they told me that he did his mandatory service in 1910 and to contact another city to know if he got back, I'm still waiting, but I think I would've found him on some website that listed passengers.

EDIT: He's could've fought in the Turkish'italian war in 1911 nd then got in the US in 1914, I'll look into this conflict tomorrow. The possibility of him just going off the grid did cross my mind many times

Do you have any niche places to look for?

Do you know where Italians used to move to from Detroit? (Ohio maybe?)

Is it possible that he just got off the radar?

Edit: I'm more prone to look for him myself as I get protective and like the thrill, so even just answering these questions would be great! I've had help before but we all hit a wall

Thank you for your kindness in advance

I've been stuck for 2 years now and it's driving me mad

I was at the movies and randomly got sternum pain. I thought it was the position or maybe the cold ac/weather, but then I felt as if there's a bump. It hurts on the left side, just above where my breast start.

Internet's description of Costochondritis looks like it.

It's 5am and it hurts even if I move slightly. Even if it popped while stretching and I didn't notice I couldn't have broken something right?

Do we think I should do some proper stretching? Do I massage it with an ointment?

I'm trying not to freak out and I really don't want to go to the ER, maybe in the morning I'll ask the pharmacy

It's basically done; we have:

A measuring tape (to measure his D cause we joked abt it)

Adventure time sticker cause why not

Water bottle that he needs

Three lottery tickets of things we can do

D shaped pasta

An old book

A handmade bracelet

A card

It needs a couple of finishing touches but it's pretty much it, I couldn’t find many of the things yall suggested

I can't post pictures I'll try in the comments, thank you everyone for your help

I have a mouse in my house, my mom has put traps all over the house but I'm afraid (terrorized) they will attract mice from outside, idk I think I may be so tired that this little thing is freaking me out too much, I can't sleep or walk around the house.

I panicked the other night and I'm making mind movies rn.

It's stupid, but I'm picturing all the possible scenarios.

My mom has put a traps (grains) close to a door with a hole on the bottom and I'm crying thinking that mice (or worse) from outside could be attracted and get in.

I live with my mother and older brother, my father is a narcissist, he doesn't actively live with us, but he makes his presence felt.

I'm so tired of having to fix things! As in actually changing all the light switches in the house, begging for the black mold that's been in the house since I can remember to be removed, having to throw old food, buy things that we need, to make sure that the house won't fall to the ground.

The other day I had to start showering in the other bathroom because seeing that the shower head was leaking on the silicone around the tub and making (normal?) mold gave me too much anxiety, and when I told the others, one didn't care and my mom said that she didn't see.

I'm so tired!

Now I'm at the "summer" house and I saw a mouse 2 weeks ago, after two stray cats forced themselves inside in the middle of the house and I full on panicked. Nobody seems to see how important it is to actually call pest control and have it check out!!! So now I'm afraid of cats staring at my window and the possibility of mice getting inside from the old stone wall.

It's 00:17 and I can't sleep for these reasons, I'm so stressed out, I do so much (I'm a 22yo student), I can't believe having a mouse inside the house (maybe) isn't a good reason to fo something.

So I saw a little mouse running around my house, I'm afraid that they will make damages so I need a good way of getting rid of it and making sure they don't come back.

I'll check every nook and cranny to see where they might be getting in from, then? How do I make sure he's not in the house anymore?

Do ultrasounds work?

Idk if this is the right flair, I apologize if not.

My bsf has gotten his bottom surgery and I'm planning a gift basket for when he gets back!

This is what I was thinking of, could you help me out?

Chocolate

Penis shaped pasta (cazzetti)

Condoms (he hinted that he wants them)

A poetry book

A cool bandana for his arm

Maybe a handmade coupon for a place he likes

Something else that could be funny/useful?

EDIT: maybe some crosswords for children (Spiderman ofc) and a waterbottle) Keep them coming!!!

I'm not independent yet, I'm doing my master's degree and can't go away until I finish, I'm saving money and luckily have a pretty stable mother but he disgusts me and keeping appearances is starting to stress me too much.

I'm not gonna tell you my life story, but he's a standard narcissist.

The thing that makes me disgusted is the fact that him (57) is dating a 25y/o one month younger than my brother, who has very similar features to mine.

He's her professor or at least was when she graduated her minor degree with him, so I'm pretty sure she hit on him at 20 or something; I say she cause he knows I know (he doesn't know how much I know) and when we have conversations about age gaps and I tell him about my gross teachers hitting on me he says things like "when she insists...", as if he has the green light, as if they're gross cause they threw themselves on the students, he didn't, be clear that to me the grown man is at fault, she may not be a victim but she's not the adult.

To me it's fucking crazy and disgusting, to date a person of your children's age, who looks like your daughter and who didn't even have her frontal lobe fully developed, it makes me wanna throw up, and he jokes about me having to accept it! Well find yourself a fucking grown woman who you didn't basically groom and do the proper job of making me meet her as one should.

He had that creepy hypersexualizing fase in which he walked around whole dick to the front (like you could see the bulge in his pants), talking about being constantly hit on and talking about sex. Obviously he despises women.

When he compliments me I have this dichotomy of disgust and love, when he hugs me or fatherly touches me I feel disgusted. He makes me feel as if he's a wet rat, I hate this, I hate more that he's become like this and doesn't see how it affected me.

Fucking Byronic heroes.

Anyways, this is a rant, I just needed to let it out cause talking about it with my brother (to whom he obviously didn't say anything) doesn't seem fair.

I'm really tired and I don't know how to handle this situation that well.

My mother knows, shes as disgusted as me.

HELP: ADVICE NEEDED

I'm on sensor 2 today that just isn't working!

It won't start, no error, just won't go.

For the first one I compiled the replacement form, befor doing the same for the one still on my arm, do you have any advices?

Are there any faulty batches that I should know about?

Should I try to stay in a colder room for the 1h needed to connect?

Yes they're on the same side.

Edit: in both the filament was bent, it's not going into the skin

It's aligned with my Pod5 and it doesn't connect to the controller either.

Do I disconnect it and try to connect it again? I won't have access to a new one for at least 4 hours

My libre2+ is losing connection with my pump like crazy, I should change it on Wednesday, do I change it in advance? If so, would you ask for a replacement?

Idk cause changing it would mean that I also have to move my pump (which I should change later today) that is working perfectly where it is now (cause it's on the right side and the sensor would move to the left).

Apart from low snacks, are there must haves?

I wanted to make a really easy scarf for a friend, not too wide and that can reach right above his pelvis.

I was thinking two colors, pretty basic double crochet or something

(I'll look for the yarn on vinted cause I don't have the money to buy pure wool)