u/Used_Sleep_9973

I want to rant and please if you see this i need your support and feedback if you have slight experience please let me know

I decided to wear the hijab two years ago but i have always hated it
some days im motivated but others im not
i keep seeing those influencers and digital creators with hijab to help me motivated but i don't think it works
as of now i am a part time hijabi i wear it to work etc but when i am doing quick errands or going out with friends that i am comfortable with i don't wear it
i am not sure what to do
i am trying my best to hold on to it but idk
so my questions are to you
how did it feel when u took it off ?
what was the breaking point to taking it off?
if you didnt take it off why ?
the reasons why i want to are :
\- i am uncomfortable the hijab makes so uncomfortable and overstimulated
\- it restricts me from dressing up, daily activities and expressing myself
\- i dont think it reflects me which ik sounds stupid but i dont think ima a person that is fit to wear it

Again i see all this pretty girls in hijab and i wish i can be like them but i can
see trends like hijabi do it better but seriously do not relate it makes me insecure and its not that i feel prettier without hijab thats not the case because i feel insecure in both cases the hijab just adds another layer or type
i love Allah i really do and i actually don't why i am holding onto the hijab
cause i talked to my friends and my family about it and they are supportive but im not sure what do i do
i am trying and i am trying but going to events or outings with girls i cancel cause i never feel me or comfortable.... i dont want to do something i regret
thats why i am being a part time for now

Hii
i am visiting alsalt
any idea, recommendations, underrated places to visit there?

Whats the best place in amman to have my hot girl walk
walk and enjoy little things in life

hellooooo
i am visiting amman right now
please your best matcha recommendation and trust me ik good matcha please recommend your top best!!!!
Help me out!!!

Hello i want to share my experience...

i was diagnosed with pcos a month ago
i noticed irregular bleeding during my ovulation which led me to get myself checked

the gyno prescribed me YAZ a low does birth control
pill
i am experiencing nausea and bloating after taking it
also i am more sensitive and cry more ( i am on day 12)

I am trying my best to fix my eating and going to the gym or do Pilates at home

tiktok is recommending to buy mg / omega 3 and inositol to help but idk

if u have any advice or recommendations let me know? small changes or even comments or your experience with the pill or pcos in general? anything would help i feel like i need the support thank you

i wish I liked the hijab because I see these beautiful woman and I keep following them on TikTok on Instagram how beautiful and whimsical and how proud they are of the hijab and they do these trends that hijab do it better but I can't relate I genuinely cannot relate. I've never felt more uglier. I've never felt me. How do they do this? How are they so beautiful in the hijab and I could not relate to the slightest
and they say hijab never stops you from doing anything but it stops me from doing everything. I just can't find it only as a restriction 

some days i want to wear it and feel normal indifferent
and some DAYS I CAN'T STAND IT I CAN'T IM OVERSTIMULATED I FEEL SO UGLY ... idk what to do...

GIRLS IDK IF ITS JUST ME
but im a very cutsey soft looking and like natural girl and also a hijabi like im not a BADDIE like sharp features that like looks sexy u know what i mean
AND MY TYPE IS TATTOO BIG BACK NICE HAIR (buzzcut or fluffy hair) LIKE PRETTY BOY BUT IN A HOT WAY

LIKE MY TYPE IN WAY HELL WILL EVER LOOK AT ME AND BE LIKE YA SHE MY TYPE AND IT JUST MAKES MEEEEE TOOO SAAAAADDDDDDDDD
😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭cause also they are known to be fuck boys and i canttttttttt ugggggghh

i want a simple answer and your answer
whats THE thing that convinced/ proved that hijab wasnt an obligation/ made you take it off?

for those who reject hadiths
you reject all hadith or the ones that u feel the miss aligned with the quran or what?

cause for me there are some hadiths i do believe in and of the prophets teachings and stories cause i believe there are many beautiful stories we can learn from but i do not believe in every hadith that doesnt make sense on the basis of the quran and my understanding of islam and alot of statements were made out to be hadiths

I want to remove my hijab but before i do
i want to research
what convinced you that it wasnt fard?
give me your experience ? you advice

i should sleeping instead i'm baking cupcakes

what are cool rooftops with djs and cool music and vibes
also one another thing
would they let my hijabi friend in?

PLEASE IF YOU ARE 25 or LESS DO NOT GET MARRIED WALAHI U ARE YOUNG ENJOY LIFE MEN ARE NOT WORTH IT THEY REALLY ARENT
WHY ARE YOU EVEN QUESTIONING WETHER U SHOULD GET MARRIED OR NOT
HAVE FUN
TRAVEL
LIVE
LAUGH
ENJOY YOURSELF!!!
men are not worth it
especially if u are young and u get a guy that 10 years or older than you like please be fr
thats not okay
he wants to manipulate u to utilise u
use your degree u use your knowledge live your life
do something DONT TRAP YOURSELF WITH BUMPY MEN
KEEP YOUR STANDARDS HIGH
i am sick and tired of hearing women lowering their standards ,lowering their mehr, sacrificing what they love , what they want to do , what they wear, etc for a man
ENOUGH!!!!!!
and by the way all these men bragging about I wanna get married are just horny they don't wanna be husbands. They just want the title of a father and the title of a husband without the actual role or sacrifice or the consequence they're not actual genuine husbands they don't even know how to be husbands or fathers they just want a maid
SO FOCUS ON YOU
AND WHEN THE TIME COMES AND A GENUINELY GOOD MAN THATS IS UP TO YOUR STANDARDS COMES YOUR WAY WHO Supports you , who cares for you , loves you ... then go for it
but don't be asking questions i'm 22 he is 34 should i marry him he seems like a good guy
CAUSE I WILL KMS I CAN'T STAND IT
OR im not going to use my degree ill just married hehe NO NO THAT'S NOT GOOD OR FUNNY BE INDEPENDENT dont let a man take advantage of u pleaseeeeeeeeeeee yes its nice to depend on a man but a man who is worth it and not before u know u can depend on yourself first cause that man can lie and switch up

so please take my advice 🙏🏻

Hi guys!!
if i would go clubbing
for fun like good music and dancing
where would u recommend ?
like a safe space thats just vibes

Whats your advice ?
i wanna take it off and ik i can no one is forcing me to go put it on
and i chose to wear it
but 2 years later and i still hate it
i feel so ill confident and i always get taken to back to do shit because of it
although i do see beautiful women in it and they do all sort of things with it on
but idk why to me it's hard why is it a restriction in everything and its soooo overstimulating plus
everytime i try my best to look pretty make up outfit the second i put it on i start crying
it ruins everything
idk what to do

If a place says couples only and im girl alone
can i enter? i.e beach club at ayala

i lowkey wanna go on a date
or like a flirty friend
i miss the vibes😫😓

I am planning to go to antalya alone
for 8-10 day trip
i am also thinking to go to kas while i am at it
but i am worried about transportation cause ik there is a lot of scams
any transportation companies you recommend
or apps
cause ik bitaski works and uber will those help avoiding scams ? do they always work