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Help with possible retronychia

Sorry there's no subreddit for ingrown fingernails but I thought maybe someone here would have some advice. I broke the pinky metacarpal, 4 months ago. Everything is healed up, but the ring finger nail, which was extremely swollen too, is growing weird, and it's getting uncomfortable. It hasn't grown at all during this time which I'm told is normal for hand injuries. And it looks like it might be retronychia but I saw dermatologist, and he wasn't sure what to do. He had never seen anything like that before and had no idea what retronychia was. The orthopedic hand specialists in my area are booked out at least a month in advance. And I'm in pain every day, and I just don't know what to do. I've called my provider. I've called my insurance company. Nobody can get me in anywhere. So here I am to see if anyone has any sage advice. Thanks! I took a picture of both ring fingers to compare. The nail is also very receded which was a preexisting problem that the broken metacarpal exacerbated.

u/adebade4 — 9 hours ago

Men's curly haircut recommendations?

The guy who's been cutting my hair for years, moved out of the area, and I guess I'm trying to figure out where I might go. My hair's a little on the fine side, but dark and curly medium length, so just trying to see who might be a good stylist in the area. Thanks!

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u/adebade4 — 6 days ago

Help with understanding taurus midheaven

I'm trying to find out what to make of this Taurus Midheaven, 1 degree. What does having a first degree, mid heaven mean? What kind of jobs I guess or career path would make sense for that placement? In case anyone's curious, my north node is Capricorn fifth house and first degree as well. I know people tend to read those side by side.

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u/adebade4 — 8 days ago
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Can someone help me with taurus midheaven?

I'm trying to find out what to make of this Taurus Midheaven, 1 degree. What does having a first degree, mid heaven mean? In case anyone's curious, my north node is Capricorn fifth house as well. I know people tend to read those side by side.

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u/adebade4 — 8 days ago

Living on Chiron line good/bad for healing?

Chiron and rising both in leo

I guess I'm trying to understand what this means. And how the 2 relate to each other. The chiron in Leo has left me with sort of blockages to self-expression. Dancing always felt like a foreign language and I was a shy kid even with leo rising. Now as an adult I'm much more open though still feel like I'm working through the blockages constantly. Whereas my rising, all it wants to do is express itself. So I kind of have this hard time balancing the two and understanding that relationship between them my whole life. Rising is 1st house leo, chiron is 12th house Leo. Chiron degree is 4. Rising degree is 9. What is the healing to be done here? How might this pertain to career? I do feel called to performing and public image type careers, but I'm not really sure in what way to express it and feel like there's just mountains of healing still needing to be done to get there. But I am motivated probably now more than ever before. I moved back home where my Chiron wound and line are both prominent and having thoughts on the whole thing. Born and raised on my Chiron AC line

Also to add I do have a 10th house stellium in Taurus with Sun (23 degrees), Mercury(4 degrees) and Venus (14 degrees). Mercury is the lowest degree which I'm told indicates strongest stellium positioning. 10th house is about recognition so I figured thats a factor too.

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u/adebade4 — 21 days ago

Chiron and rising both in leo

I guess I'm trying to understand what this means. And how the 2 relate to each other. The chiron in Leo has left me with sort of blockages to self-expression. Dancing always felt like a foreign language and I was a shy (LGBT) kid even with leo rising. Now as an adult I'm much more open though still feel like I'm working through the blockages constantly. Whereas my rising, all it wants to do is express itself. So I kind of have this hard time balancing the two and understanding that relationship between them my whole life. Rising is 1st house leo, chiron is 12th house Leo. Chiron degree is 4. Rising degree is 9. What is the healing to be done here? How might this pertain to career? I do feel called to performing and public image type careers, but I'm not really sure in what way to express it and feel like there's just mountains of healing still needing to be done to get there. But I am motivated probably now more than ever before.
Also to add I do have a 10th house stellium in Taurus with Sun (23 degrees), Mercury(4 degrees) and Venus (14 degrees). Mercury is the lowest degree which I'm told indicates strongest stellium positioning. 10th house is about recognition so I figured thats a factor too.

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u/adebade4 — 26 days ago

Chiron and rising both in leo

I guess I'm trying to understand what this means. And how the 2 relate to each other. The chiron in Leo has left me with sort of blockages to self-expression. Dancing always felt like a foreign language and I was a shy (LGBT) kid even with leo rising. Now as an adult I'm much more open though still feel like I'm working through the blockages constantly. Whereas my rising, all it wants to do is express itself. So I kind of have this hard time balancing the two and understanding that relationship between them my whole life. Rising is 1st house leo, chiron is 12th house Leo. Chiron degree is 4. Rising degree is 9. What is the healing to be done here? How might this pertain to career? I do feel called to performing and public image type careers, but I'm not really sure in what way to express it and feel like there's just mountains of healing still needing to be done to get there. But I am motivated probably now more than ever before.

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u/adebade4 — 27 days ago

Chiron and rising both in leo

I guess I'm trying to understand what this means. And how the 2 relate to each other. The chiron in Leo has left me with sort of blockages to self-expression. Dancing always felt like a foreign language and I was a shy (LGBT) kid even with leo rising. Now as an adult I'm much more open though still feel like I'm working through the blockages constantly. Whereas my rising, all it wants to do is express itself. So I kind of have this hard time balancing the two and understanding that relationship between them my whole life. Rising is 1st house leo, chiron is 12th house Leo. Chiron degree is 4. Rising degree is 9. What is the healing to be done here? How might this pertain to career? I do feel called to performing and public image type careers, but I'm not really sure in what way to express it and feel like there's just mountains of healing still needing to be done to get there. But I am motivated probably now more than ever before.

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u/adebade4 — 27 days ago
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How to remove white spots from silver

How to remove white spots from silver

Hey so I recently started jewelry making and am running into a wall with getting this piece properly polished. So far I've tried the following:

  1. Tumbling. Made the whole thing shiny but left the white circles around the bumps

  2. Hardell drill polishing tip. Didn't seem to do much

  3. Dipping in tarnish remover

  4. Using a polishing tool with shiny and matted sides

Nothing seems to make these white circles budge at all and I'm starting to get frustrated! Does anyone have any other suggestions? Thanks

u/adebade4 — 28 days ago

Struggling to use spamguardapp

Trying to delete some fake accounts from followers list. I'm using spamguardapp and every time it scans says 7000 fake followers. I select clean to remove them and the process says its done but its been days and all those accounts are still there. I contacted customer support and they were no help. Anyone have this problem?

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u/adebade4 — 1 month ago

Help with friends not being able to see story

So I double checked, and for some reason, only one friend is able to see my story right now. I sent it to a bunch of other ones. And all I get, is this error message. I have stories set to all friend can see and yes we are all definitely friends.

u/adebade4 — 1 month ago
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Looking for gym/hobby recommendations

Just move to weho and I'll be living on my own so I'm trying to figure out how to meet people.  Not really so much about professional networking but just making social connections.  Late 20s gay btw.  I'm still recovering from an broken hand so I'm not really able to join any sports leagues at this point.  And not for at least another couple more months probably.  I do drink a bit but sports bars aren't really my vibe because professional sports don't really interest me a whole lot.  But I do want to join a gym and maybe start taking some easy classes and I just wanted to see what the recommendations would be.  I'm not a huge weight lifter so some place like crunch probably wouldn't be the right fit.  I'm more into taking some chill classes and casually do a little bit of lifting or bench pressing kind of gym goer.  Things like qi gong, yoga eventually. Maybe spin but open to whatever I'd be able to do.  Just looking to tone a bit as I'm kind of a skinny guy haha.   So does anyone know which gyms are I guess the friendliest or easiest to make connections?   Seems like Equinox has a pretty big crowd but also John Reed looks like a pretty social space.  But also anything outside of a gym would be great too!   I do ceramics work and there's a couple places around here but it seems like that's a little bit limited as far as just this area goes.   So hobby recommendations would be super welcome too! 

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u/adebade4 — 2 months ago

Finding a gym/hobbies to meet people

Just move to weho and I'll be living on my own so I'm trying to figure out how to meet people.  Not really so much about professional networking but just making social connections.  Late 20s gay btw.  I'm still recovering from an broken hand so I'm not really able to join any sports leagues at this point.  And not for at least another couple more months probably.  I do drink a bit but sports bars aren't really my vibe because professional sports don't really interest me a whole lot.  But I do want to join a gym and maybe start taking some easy classes and I just wanted to see what the recommendations would be.  I'm not a huge weight lifter so some place like crunch probably wouldn't be the right fit.  I'm more into taking some chill classes and casually do a little bit of lifting or bench pressing kind of gym goer.  Things like qi gong, yoga eventually. Maybe spin but open to whatever I'd be able to do.  Just looking to tone a bit as I'm kind of a skinny guy haha.   So does anyone know which gyms are I guess the friendliest or easiest to make connections?   Seems like Equinox has a pretty big crowd but also John Reed looks like a pretty social space.  But also anything outside of a gym would be great too!   I do ceramics work and there's a couple places around here but it seems like that's a little bit limited as far as just this area goes.   So hobby recommendations would be super welcome too! 

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u/adebade4 — 2 months ago

Help with loading error

Every time I try to send a snap or memory I get the "could not send please try again"

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What I've tried:

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1.Restarting my phone

2.Clearing cache

3.Uninstalling the app

4.Making sure data is running at top speed without power saving

5.Resetting network settings

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I just dont know what else to do. It's been like this for hours and nowhere online does it say the servers are down

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u/adebade4 — 2 months ago

How would younger/ gen z age people say congratulations and welcome?

Like how do people say congratulations anymore because I feel like I haven't heard anyone say congrats in years. And welcome like a greeting, not "you're" welcome

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u/adebade4 — 2 months ago

How to understand sideways cards

In the past 24 hours, I've pulled the Chariot, Wheel of Fortune, the Tower, the Magician and Death all sideways. Plus 3 of swords. Chariot was just slightly leaning upright but very slightly. Right now I'm dealing with a romance issue. And it's cutting deeper than anything I've ever felt before. I've never been more certain about a person in my life. But I have no idea what to make of the delays. It's one of those things where we missed each other by a few hours. And made plans to see each other later but now I'm not sure that those are working out. Like I said, no one has ever made me feel this way before. I've been panicking over him and done several readings to try to understand this. My heart has told me for years he's the one. It came at a time when I had a very sudden and fast realization that I knew exactly what I wanted in a partner and how to make it all happen. The reason it didn't work out is a toxic person in my life got in the way who I'm trying to distance from but haven't curious out entirely. That person gave me my chiron wound and is a family member. This all relates to that it all sort of digs up that wound again. Thanks!

I used Rider Waite.

My question to clarify is whether he and I will still have a chance. it seems like the advice is to move on but I'm feeling pretty hopeless. He's the only man I've ever wanted and literally the only problem is an incredibly toxic person got in the way

I see it as delays but wonder how thats different than reversal delays. maybe some good adpects some bad?

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u/adebade4 — 2 months ago
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What do these sideways cards mean?

In the last 24 hours, I've pulled the Wheel of Fortune, the Chariot, the Tower, the Magician, and Death. All sideways. Plus 3 of Swords. Chariot was just slightly leaning upright but very slightly. I'm not sure what this is supposed to mean. I've been struggling with a relationship issue. And it's hurting me in ways that I've never felt before. It came at a time when I had a very sudden realization of exactly what I wanted in a partner and exactly how to make it happen. The relationship was perfect but a very toxic third person got in the way and delayed things. That person is a family member who caused my original chiron wound. And this has just dug all of that up. I've spent years healing from it and I thought I was healed from it. I've seen this all as delays but also maybe a split between upright and reversed. The problem is chariot for example is pretty much total opposite upright and reversed so I don't know what to make of that. First one then the other maybe. I know it's about control. Thanks! The wheel of fortune could mean some good, some bad luck. Mixed bag. Idk. Thoughts? I also thought maybe sideways represents some adversity to overcome like there's a lot of reversal energy but when you move through it maybe that leads to the upright energy.

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u/adebade4 — 2 months ago

Shoes with the widest toeboxes?

I'm pretty tall and have big feet so need something supportive and won't compress my toes too much. I don't do competitive climbing. Nothing usually above a v2. Very casual so I could even do it in the right sneakers at times. Thanks!

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u/adebade4 — 2 months ago

Help finding where to go! Too much time on Chiron line?

I'm trying to figure out if I should leave California and where I should even go because I feel like my whole life everything's just been delayed or hasn't worked out EVER.  I've lived in LA (born), San Diego and San Francisco. All of which are close to my Chiron line.  I've made a lot of work progressing as a healer and I've basically spent my entire life focused on self-care, healing, spirituality, and even shamanism (thanks Chiron!)

Now, I find myself where the only thing really missing is love, relationships, friendships, but honestly, now more importantly than ever, romance and an actually fulfilling sex life. I met a guy recently from Boise (while in LA) and I know that my Mercury and Lilith lines both go through there. It lasted way too short and just felt like cursed timing, as usual. And I'm just worried that maybe I was in the wrong place at the wrong time, yet again. But otherwise he was basically everything I've ever wanted in a man.  Silly as a clown (super important to me) and absolutely wild in all the best ways, and an artist too. My Lilith is in Aquarius, I'm told that means you kind of have a wild taste in partners. Truthfully, short as it was, I don't think my heart has ever felt this broken. I know everybody says that self-love has to come from within but I basically spent the last 34 years of my life focusing on ONLY self-love and reliving every trauma from my past over and over and I'm ready for some wins!

What I funny enough feel drawn towards is maybe New York.  But I don't have a single line there. Nothing goes through New York or even close and I'm thinking, maybe that's a good thing? But at the same time, I don't wanna just get there and then find that it's sort of a blank energy, or that something's missing.  I absolutely LOVE the people there. But nothing about the city, or the scenery, or the weather appeals to me.  There's also Europe, which has plenty of Venus but not a whole lot of Lilith energy there, which I've realized is actually very important to me. Thanks for reading! 🙏

u/adebade4 — 2 months ago