u/allydemon

Often times I find it hard to find friends or relate to people here because it feels like 90% gay men. Thankfully trans spaces have alot of women which is great but I do still find it hard to find afab people, generally trans spaces are nicer and feel safer but I wonder why queer spaces at large feel so male dominated around here. Ive met more queer women than men in my personal life, its not like there's a shortage, and i wish i found more sapphics, or possibly more non binary people, It just feels a little isolating.

I do still enjoy the company of people I meet here, lets be clear.

It was a meme, probably from the late 2010s, on youtube. A black woman with a fringe(? Im not to sure about appearance) Was singing a song that has the lyrics "lay me at the throne"

I think the song was "Take Me to the King" by Tamela Mann

The next line was "leave me there" but she sang it really fast to the point where it sounded like "lemonade" sort of, and then the clip cut.

It was in one of my playlists but i cant find it anymore, I checed the playlist by date added and its not there, it was really funny, the comments were the highlight.

For some more visual descriptions, the quality wasn't great, it swapped between 2 camera angles if im right, she was wearing black and holding a microphone, it didnt look like a stage and the background was white or beige.

The first line "lead me at the throne" had a little vibrato. The title was some sort of phonetic transcription of the second line, it was like "lehmethen" or something like that.

Like I just do not understand, he doesn't speak one of the many dialects, he grew up in the states, he just has Italian lineage, but i feel like people here mention it all the time, it honestly feels pretty weird idk how to describe it, i feel like if I were famous and people were speculating about my lineage, or my connection to my lineage, or acting like my lineage was a joke, I would be creeped out.

I have a couple 100 subs on my main channel but I recently realised that there is no longer form youtube content in urdu for gen z, all of it is for 60+ year olds, all the funny urdu speaking pakistanis are on tiktok, so i started a second channel and idk what to do.

My main channel is about music and linguistics, I think this one will be music and sports, and general pakistani pop culture, maybe gaming, but I need your guys help.

Current ideas:

Ranking poles in lhr

Pakistani 2025/26 meme complication

Urduifying memes

Weird signs in lhr

How to get into urdu music

Customise my hockey stick

How i built a guitar

Urdu shorts:

Top ten pakistani guitar riffs

My impression of different sports players/fans

I want less videos ABOUT urdu and more videos about the very unique and irreplaceable culture of being a teenager in pak, and yes, I will credit you guys if yall give me good ones.

I have a couple 100 subs on my main channel but I recently realised that there is no longer form youtube content in urdu for gen z, all of it is for 60+ year olds, all the funny urdu speaking pakistanis are on tiktok, so i started a second channel and idk what to do.

My main channel is about music and linguistics, I think this one will be music and sports, and general pakistani pop culture, maybe gaming, but I need your guys help.

Current ideas:

Ranking poles in lhr

Pakistani 2025/26 meme complication

Urduifying memes

Weird signs in lhr

How to get into urdu music

Customise my hockey stick

How i built a guitar

Urdu shorts:

Top ten pakistani guitar riffs

My impression of different sports players/fans

I want less videos ABOUT urdu and more videos about the very unique and irreplaceable culture of being a teenager in pak, and yes, I will credit you guys if yall give me good ones.

Every time ive watch an American TV show, it seems like dinner is ready while the sun is still out, where im from we eat dinner at 8, or later, always when its already dark.

This has always confused me when watching American shows, can someone explain?

the pakistani artist sudan wrote a song called "can you?" which i think is great, it just sounds amazing, but the hindi version as sung by ankur tewari sounds so much better to me, what do you guys think?

60+% of all motorists on the roads are motorcycle drivers, there are absolutely people in this city who cant afford cars and need alternatives, but considering lahores terrible smog, we need a carbon neutral solution, wee need cycle lanes, better bus stops, and the major thing we need is SIDEWALKS, like ofmg.

I feel like the quality of life in this city would improve so much if we had sidewalks that could support more than 2 people next to each other, we desperately need to move away from car centric infrastructure and towards a walkable city. One issue i see is the climate, but generally I feel like if we constantly had good sidewalks in this city we would all be alot happier, getting to that point is just a struggle.