Girls, have you ever heard men talk about women like this?
I was on a call with a guy friend today, and at one point one of his other friends came over and I could hear the whole conversation.
He was talking about a place he had visited and casually said something along the lines of, “Bhai kya maal ladkiyan thi wahan, tereko jaana chahiye. Kal chalte hain, dekhne.”
A while later, the same guy was showing him some girl and said something like, “Imagine having a girlfriend like this. Look at her body.”
The weird part is that he already has a girlfriend.
I genuinely don't know if I'm being naive, but do men actually talk about women like this when they're with their male friends? Is this just normal guy talk that women don't really hear, or is this considered disrespectful even among men? Because tbh, I've never really seen a man stop another man from saying stuff like this.
I'm genuinely curious because I've heard people say “boys are just like that,” but I've never really understood how common this actually is. Do men really talk like this about women when they're around each other?
I've had female friends who have bfs and honestly, bolte toh hain sab aisa, but do men not say stuff like this in front of their girlfriends and only do it when they're not around?
Girls, have you ever encountered something like this or overheard your male friends talking this way and how do you feel?