▲ 2 r/Amman

any good skateparks?

hi hi! ive been tryna find a good skatepark or flat empty area to go rollerskating/blading in, but i cant find any good ones they either are somewhat ruined or have a ton of guys around not even skating,,, any recs are appreciated !!

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u/arctic_fawn — 6 days ago

makeup style/tips?

(im so awkward @ taking photos so ignore how weird i look :') )
(also idk of this is the right flair, pls correct me!!)

ive been wanting 2 get more into makeup, im a FTM individual so id also like some tips thatd help present a lil more masc (tho idm any since im not socially transitioned and still present fem),
if anyone has like good makeup looks thatd suit my face (ᴖ◡ᴖ)

u/arctic_fawn — 6 days ago
▲ 5 r/OSDD

help unmasking?

ok hi!! we've been working on unmasking more and like actually having separation between us 2 make things easier (telling whos fronting, who had wut thouts, etc).... problem is we're rllt struggling 2 do so.. atleast i am..? :')
i keep like typing more energetically and not dry w less abbreviations, but thats not rlly how i think i speak? its kinda exhausting but i also am too scared to do so bc host/other alters are more energetic typers and people in general, so im scared our friends will think we're mad at them (they know we're sys), i know this is all mostly stuff i gotta work on being more comfy w but does any1 have any tips? ()"

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u/arctic_fawn — 10 days ago

vimms lair down?

is it down? im new to all this and recently modded my psp 3000, i heard vimms lair is a good website but anytime i try it literally loads for like 5 mins then hits me with a 504 error ;-;" idk if this is me being stupid or wifi issue... ty for help in advance!

edit: changed flair, didnt see website down as a flair

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u/arctic_fawn — 10 days ago
▲ 20 r/backpacks+1 crossposts

crossbody bag that can also be worn as a backpack?

hellooo!! im unsure if this is the right sub for this, i just figured because its a bag sub so... point me in the right direction if not :')

but i was wondering if theres a bag thats like a messenger bag or japanese school bags (or mix of? i think japanese school bags have shorter straps), but can also be worn as a backpack with like back straps as it keeps its shape?
(take a very poorly drawn example)

i dont know if it exists... i really hope so TvT"
anyways thank u all for reading and answering in advance!

u/arctic_fawn — 15 days ago

misunderstanding of "gentle parenting"

OH MY GOD I LITERALLY HATE THIS SO MUCH IT ANNOYS ME, idk if misunderstanding is the right word here but im tired, and annoyed (idk if this is the right flair)

but i feel like people always think gentle parenting implies no yelling no punishment no nothing, leaving the kid alone to their own devices and stuff, just gently talking to the kid and asking them of stuff......
i keep seeing videos like "when gentle parenting doesnt work" and its like parent A is asking child to do something, and they dont or dont do it immediately, in which case they either start yelling or parent B steps in and yells/orders them to; usually these are with older kids. (this is popular with older generations of who grew up with physical abuse as punishments i realized: whipping, slapping spanking etc)

my problem with this is.... THATS NOT GENTLE PARENTING, like gentle parenting implies the lack of hitting and yelling for no good reason, reasonable punishments that correlate with what was done wrong, (made a mess? clean up the mess. grades falling behind? limit screen time/distractors and help them study, etc etc).

also gentle parenting really only works if its started early, like if youve been yelling and being aggressive with the child their entire life then suddenly try being gentle with them obviously its not going to fucking work???? they dont understand the like.. difference. i cant explain this part so bear with me.... but i saw an example of which the person tells you to like raise your hand at the sound of the whistle, but then they do like a clap, and ask why didnt you do anything? kids are like that, in a sense that they got used to you being angry and yelling, and then thats when they know you're being serious.

like i feel like gentle parenting has gotten so watered down to absolute bullshit, its not letting your kid do whatever, its being REASONABLE and treating your child with respect and like a normal fucking human
and gentle parenting doesnt work with strings attached, meaning that you have to be in full support of your child no matter their sexual or gender orientation, no matter what disorders/struggles they may have, no matter what style and beliefs they hold.

tl;dr: gentle parenting isn't just not yelling and letting them whatever, its alot deeper and complicated and people need to get a hold of that omfg

(also off topic but felt needed, i always read this sub name as "hate this mug")

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u/arctic_fawn — 19 days ago

binding methods without a binder?

just as title says... what are some ways i could bind—or atleast reduce chest size— i dont have a generally large chest i believe, im unable to get trans tape or a binder currently
i feel like i pass outside my voice + mannerisms (and other such things), but even if i dont pass with binding my chest has been giving my alot of dysphoria :(

what are some ways to bind other than trans tape and binder?

thank u all in advance who read and answered =^^=

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u/arctic_fawn — 21 days ago
▲ 41 r/kandi

apple cuff

how do i continue off here? :') mine is the first img and the second is my inspo/goal

this is like my 2nd or 3rd x cuff/rotator cuff but this is my biggest cuff so far XD

its 30 beads in circumference, and 4 x layers, i do think/notice its wonky, any advice on that as well? ;(

thank u in advance 4 any responses and help!!

u/arctic_fawn — 26 days ago
▲ 234 r/kandi

apple cuff

how do i continue off here? :') mine is the first img and the second is my inspo/goal

this is like my 2nd or 3rd x cuff/rotator cuff but this is my biggest cuff so far XD

its 30 beads in circumference, and 4 x layers, i do think/notice its wonky, any advice on that as well? ;(

thank u in advance 4 any responses and help!!

u/arctic_fawn — 26 days ago

good mp3 players recommendations?

(im unsure of what flair to use so pls correct me if needed!!)

but its as the title says, what are some good mp3 players you recommend?

my only requirements are
bluetooth
aux plug
able to have more than 3 playlists

im not sure if thats alot to ask for T_T" i've heard about the innioasis and it seemed like a solid choice but ive been hearing people complain about it as well, SD card not working, bluetooth having issues... ect ect....
so its got me nervous for what i might pay for.

i do have an mp3 players right now but its only able to have 3 playlists and its kinda sucky (poor bluetooth, slow ui, all that) i dont remember what kind it is as my dad got it for me before i had knowledge on other kinds of mp3 players..

anyways thank you all for reading and ty in advance for anyone who'll answer !!

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u/arctic_fawn — 2 months ago

haiai!! ive been wanting to buy an mp3 for a while, i have one but its kinda slow and laggy, and is a little limited.
i wanted to ask a few things about this one since ive been seeing good reviews on it

so a few questions i had

i heard it can have lyrics but how good are they? like are they synced or does it depend on the file itself i give it?

how many playlists can i have on it? the one i currently own only allows 3 and i definitely need more than that lmao

is it durable? im kinda prone to dropping stuff, i am planning to get its case but also figured i should find out.

ive seen people customize the UI, is it easy to do that? how far can i customize it as well?

okayay thats all the questions i had!! thank you all who answer in advance ♥️

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u/arctic_fawn — 4 months ago

honestly idk if im gonna get alot of answers to this, but worth a shot lmao

i moved from america to jordan around 2-3 years ago and now feel a lil isolated because i can NEVER find any one my age of the same beliefs and interests. i found a one friend from my school but other than that i havent found anyone much.

so if you're around 15-17 years old and are alt or lgbt or support or literally anything along those lines id love to become friends

not lookig for anytbing nsfw, only 15-17 interact please

edit; fogot to mention my arabic is REALLY weak and i normally speak in english :')

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u/arctic_fawn — 4 months ago