Tl;dr a it really worth it? Because some people say go and have fun while you still can and make memories, some say save up and don't waste money, plus you will do some dumb shit
a it really worth it? Because some people say go and have fun while you still can and make memories, some say save up and don't waste money, plus you will do some dumb shit
Ia it really worth it? Because some people say go and have fun while you still can, some say save up and don't waste money
So I broke up with my ex about six months ago, and I'm planning on to get back with her because I actually love her. Like, 100% love her. However, because I'm so young, like, I'm 17, I want to explore, but at the same time, I don't want to lose her. Yeah, I know, you would say if you actually love her, you wouldn't want to explore, but sometimes, like, lust take over, and I want to experience other body parts, other faces, like, basically different experiences. it makes me really confused because I actually love her, but at the same time, want to explore and go out with other girls. It's very confusing. If i exlpore i will probably lose her and not have chance with her anymore, if i don't explore i am going to feel like i am missing out on smth because everyone my age does it. What do I do? It really confusing
I broke up with my ex about 6 months ago, i told her it was because i was leaving the country in one year i couldn't see myself doing a long distance relationship, also because i was confused about my feelings. These reasons are true, however i didn't tell her that i had a corn addiction, and thats what made my feelings numb and mixed. And here i an now, ny corn addiction is mosty fixed and my feelings are way more stable, and i am planing on asking her out, apologising and explaining everything, but when we talked 4 days ago she sounded like she hated me kinda, and didn't want to be with ne ever again. She is the only girl i can see myself to have real feelings and a real connection with and i ruined it. Help, what should i do
I broke up with my ex about 6 months ago, i told her it was because i was leaving the country in one year i couldn't see myself doing a long distance relationship, also because i was confused about my feelings. These reasons are true, however i didn't tell her that i had a corn addiction, and thats what made my feelings numb and mixed. And here i an now, ny corn addiction is mosty fixed and my feelings are way more stable, and i am planing on asking her out, apologising and explaining everything, but when we talked 4 days ago she sounded like she hated me kinda, and didn't want to be with ne ever again. She is the only girl i can see myself to have real feelings and a real connection with and i ruined it. Help, what should i do
I really don't get it. My idea of inlove is that, you never think negatively about your partner, or you always want to be with them. Isn't that it? I thought i was inlove but there where times where i didn't want to be with her, or thought negatively about her or i conpared her to other girls. And i question was a really inlove? Or was it just excitement. Because i 100% love her but idk if i am inlove with her for these reasons. I really need answers pls. Are tou supposed to think about then positively all the time or is this normal?
I really don't get it. My idea of inlove is that, you never think negatively about your partner, or you always want to be with them. Isn't that it? I thought i was inlove but there where times where i didn't want to be with her, or thought negatively about her or i conpared her to other girls. And i question was a really inlove? Or was it just excitement. Because i 100% love her but idk if i am inlove with her for these reasons. I really need answers pls. Are tou supposed to think about then positively all the time or is this normal?
TL;DR inlove
I really don't get it. My idea of inlove is that, you never think negatively about your partner, or you always want to be with them. Isn't that it? I thought i was inlove but there where times where i didn't want to be with her, or thought negatively about her or i conpared her to other girls. And i question was a really inlove? Or was it just excitement. Because i 100% love her but idk if i am inlove with her for these reasons. I really need answers pls. Are tou supposed to think about then positively all the time or is this normal?
Ph addiction ruined my mind, my relationship, my discipline, my perception. I think everything would be wayyy better if i never discovered ph.
Also how does each make you feel? Really need answers
Hi everyone. I'm 17 and I really need some honest opinions because I've been stuck on this for months.
About 5 months ago I broke up with my first girlfriend. She was my first relationship, first kiss, and honestly the first girl I ever felt completely comfortable with. Before I met her I almost never cried. After being with her, something changed. I became way more emotional and now I cry much more easily. It feels like she opened up a part of me that had been closed for years.
The problem actually started around 2-3 months into the relationship. I started constantly asking myself things like "Do I actually love her?", "Am I attached enough?", "What if there's someone better?" At first it happened every few days, then near the end it was almost every day.
We dated for 5 months, but we never really did much physically because she wasn't ready. We kissed, hugged, etc., but nothing more sexual. Looking back, I honestly think that if we had done more sexual stuff together, I probably wouldn't have broken up with her. I think a lot of my curiosity about other girls would've been lower because I wouldn't have felt like I was missing out.
After we broke up, I thought I'd move on, but I haven't. I still think about her every single day. There hasn't been one day where she hasn't crossed my mind.
My biggest problem is that my feelings keep changing depending on my mood.
When I'm calm and having a normal day, I think about her positively. I miss talking to her, I miss being around her, I think about our memories, and I genuinely enjoy thinking about her. If someone asked me who I'd want to spend an entire day with just talking, walking around, eating, and doing nothing, she'd be one of the first people I'd think of, along with my best friend and my cousin.
But if I'm emotionally exhausted, after crying a lot, or after a really bad day, I become emotionally numb. During those moments I don't really want to be with anyone. Not her, not my friends, not anyone. Then my brain immediately tells me, "See? You don't love her."
The weird part is that I don't think like this with anyone else. I can feel neutral about my parents, siblings, friends or cousin for a day and I still know I love them. But with her, every little emotional change makes me question everything.
Sometimes I wake up missing her so much that I cry. Other days I wake up feeling almost neutral. Sometimes I feel like I love her 100%, then a few hours later I'm questioning everything again.
Another thing is that I still find other girls attractive. But it's different.
When I think about other girls, it's mostly physical. I don't want a relationship with them. I'm just curious about what it's like to kiss someone else, experience different body types, and have experiences I've never had because she was my only relationship.
But when I think about my ex, it's almost the opposite. I think about the comfort, talking to her, spending time together, laughing, feeling safe around her. I honestly don't think about sex with her that much. I do find her attractive, but that's not the main thing I miss.
I also struggled with porn during the relationship, and I compared her to other girls way too much. Over the last couple of months I've improved a lot with that, i changed mostly for her, and my thoughts about her have become much more positive.
Another problem is that in about a year I'm planning to move to another country, so even if we got back together we'd probably have to do long distance, and I don't know if I could handle that.
If she texted me today asking to get back together, I know I'd be happy, but I'd still be unsure because I'm scared of making the wrong decision. Part of me still wonders if I need to explore before settling down.
One more thing: I don't think I'd actually want another girlfriend. It's more that I'm curious about the physical side because I've only ever been with one person.
So yeah, i have been stuck on two questions, i am inlove and do i love her
So my questions are:
- Does this sound like I genuinely love her?
- Is it normal to sometimes feel neutral about someone you love?
- Is it normal to still find other people attractive and even want physical experiences with them while loving someone?
- Why does my brain accept that I don't have to feel positive all the time about my family or friends to love them, but it refuses to accept that with my ex?
- If you were me, would you focus on becoming emotionally stable first before deciding whether to try again?
-should i get back with her? Because i have a feeling she may be the one, but on the other hand i am a teen and you knwo how that ends..
I'd really appreciate honest opinions, especially from people who've been through something similar.
She also 100% loved me.
Hi everyone. I'm 17 and I really need some honest opinions because I've been stuck on this for months.
About 5 months ago I broke up with my first girlfriend. She was my first relationship, first kiss, and honestly the first girl I ever felt completely comfortable with. Before I met her I almost never cried. After being with her, something changed. I became way more emotional and now I cry much more easily. It feels like she opened up a part of me that had been closed for years.
The problem actually started around 2-3 months into the relationship. I started constantly asking myself things like "Do I actually love her?", "Am I attached enough?", "What if there's someone better?" At first it happened every few days, then near the end it was almost every day.
We dated for 5 months, but we never really did much physically because she wasn't ready. We kissed, hugged, etc., but nothing more sexual. Looking back, I honestly think that if we had done more sexual stuff together, I probably wouldn't have broken up with her. I think a lot of my curiosity about other girls would've been lower because I wouldn't have felt like I was missing out.
After we broke up, I thought I'd move on, but I haven't. I still think about her every single day. There hasn't been one day where she hasn't crossed my mind.
My biggest problem is that my feelings keep changing depending on my mood.
When I'm calm and having a normal day, I think about her positively. I miss talking to her, I miss being around her, I think about our memories, and I genuinely enjoy thinking about her. If someone asked me who I'd want to spend an entire day with just talking, walking around, eating, and doing nothing, she'd be one of the first people I'd think of, along with my best friend and my cousin.
But if I'm emotionally exhausted, after crying a lot, or after a really bad day, I become emotionally numb. During those moments I don't really want to be with anyone. Not her, not my friends, not anyone. Then my brain immediately tells me, "See? You don't love her."
The weird part is that I don't think like this with anyone else. I can feel neutral about my parents, siblings, friends or cousin for a day and I still know I love them. But with her, every little emotional change makes me question everything.
Sometimes I wake up missing her so much that I cry. Other days I wake up feeling almost neutral. Sometimes I feel like I love her 100%, then a few hours later I'm questioning everything again.
Another thing is that I still find other girls attractive. But it's different.
When I think about other girls, it's mostly physical. I don't want a relationship with them. I'm just curious about what it's like to kiss someone else, experience different body types, and have experiences I've never had because she was my only relationship.
But when I think about my ex, it's almost the opposite. I think about the comfort, talking to her, spending time together, laughing, feeling safe around her. I honestly don't think about sex with her that much. I do find her attractive, but that's not the main thing I miss.
I also struggled with porn during the relationship, and I compared her to other girls way too much. Over the last couple of months I've improved a lot with that, i changed mostly for her, and my thoughts about her have become much more positive.
Another problem is that in about a year I'm planning to move to another country, so even if we got back together we'd probably have to do long distance, and I don't know if I could handle that.
If she texted me today asking to get back together, I know I'd be happy, but I'd still be unsure because I'm scared of making the wrong decision. Part of me still wonders if I need to explore before settling down.
One more thing: I don't think I'd actually want another girlfriend. It's more that I'm curious about the physical side because I've only ever been with one person.
So yeah, i have been stuck on two questions, i am inlove and do i love her
So my questions are:
- Does this sound like I genuinely love her?
- Is it normal to sometimes feel neutral about someone you love?
- Is it normal to still find other people attractive and even want physical experiences with them while loving someone?
- Why does my brain accept that I don't have to feel positive all the time about my family or friends to love them, but it refuses to accept that with my ex?
- If you were me, would you focus on becoming emotionally stable first before deciding whether to try again?
-should i get back with her? Because i have a feeling she may be the one, but on the other hand i am a teen and you knwo how that ends..
I'd really appreciate honest opinions, especially from people who've been through something similar.
She also 100% loved me.
Hi everyone. I'm 17 and I really need some honest opinions because I've been stuck on this for months.
About 5 months ago I broke up with my first girlfriend. She was my first relationship, first kiss, and honestly the first girl I ever felt completely comfortable with. Before I met her I almost never cried. After being with her, something changed. I became way more emotional and now I cry much more easily. It feels like she opened up a part of me that had been closed for years.
The problem actually started around 2-3 months into the relationship. I started constantly asking myself things like "Do I actually love her?", "Am I attached enough?", "What if there's someone better?" At first it happened every few days, then near the end it was almost every day.
We dated for 5 months, but we never really did much physically because she wasn't ready. We kissed, hugged, etc., but nothing more sexual. Looking back, I honestly think that if we had done more sexual stuff together, I probably wouldn't have broken up with her. I think a lot of my curiosity about other girls would've been lower because I wouldn't have felt like I was missing out.
After we broke up, I thought I'd move on, but I haven't. I still think about her every single day. There hasn't been one day where she hasn't crossed my mind.
My biggest problem is that my feelings keep changing depending on my mood.
When I'm calm and having a normal day, I think about her positively. I miss talking to her, I miss being around her, I think about our memories, and I genuinely enjoy thinking about her. If someone asked me who I'd want to spend an entire day with just talking, walking around, eating, and doing nothing, she'd be one of the first people I'd think of, along with my best friend and my cousin.
But if I'm emotionally exhausted, after crying a lot, or after a really bad day, I become emotionally numb. During those moments I don't really want to be with anyone. Not her, not my friends, not anyone. Then my brain immediately tells me, "See? You don't love her."
The weird part is that I don't think like this with anyone else. I can feel neutral about my parents, siblings, friends or cousin for a day and I still know I love them. But with her, every little emotional change makes me question everything.
Sometimes I wake up missing her so much that I cry. Other days I wake up feeling almost neutral. Sometimes I feel like I love her 100%, then a few hours later I'm questioning everything again.
Another thing is that I still find other girls attractive. But it's different.
When I think about other girls, it's mostly physical. I don't want a relationship with them. I'm just curious about what it's like to kiss someone else, experience different body types, and have experiences I've never had because she was my only relationship.
But when I think about my ex, it's almost the opposite. I think about the comfort, talking to her, spending time together, laughing, feeling safe around her. I honestly don't think about sex with her that much. I do find her attractive, but that's not the main thing I miss.
I also struggled with porn during the relationship, and I compared her to other girls way too much. Over the last couple of months I've improved a lot with that, i changed mostly for her, and my thoughts about her have become much more positive.
Another problem is that in about a year I'm planning to move to another country, so even if we got back together we'd probably have to do long distance, and I don't know if I could handle that.
If she texted me today asking to get back together, I know I'd be happy, but I'd still be unsure because I'm scared of making the wrong decision. Part of me still wonders if I need to explore before settling down.
One more thing: I don't think I'd actually want another girlfriend. It's more that I'm curious about the physical side because I've only ever been with one person.
So yeah, i have been stuck on two questions, i am inlove and do i love her
So my questions are:
- Does this sound like I genuinely love her?
- Is it normal to sometimes feel neutral about someone you love?
- Is it normal to still find other people attractive and even want physical experiences with them while loving someone?
- Why does my brain accept that I don't have to feel positive all the time about my family or friends to love them, but it refuses to accept that with my ex?
- If you were me, would you focus on becoming emotionally stable first before deciding whether to try again?
-should i get back with her? Because i have a feeling she may be the one, but on the other hand i am a teen and you knwo how that ends..
I'd really appreciate honest opinions, especially from people who've been through something similar.
She also 100% loved me.