u/darkerthanyourfuture

So I am 2023- 2025 B . Ed passout student. I'm CTET Qualified too. I was preparing for govt teacher job too.

I did a BA in Geography political science and economics. I did a master's in Political Science but my master's was from was distance education (IGNOU). I've a CCC Certificate too. I live in Lucknow.

Now I want to start off my career in a mid or good private school. I don't want to sit idle anymore. How can I apply ? Do i have to just mail my CV to the school's email? How to approach the schools? Help me out please. I live in Lucknow so I am looking for the Lucknow Schools.

So I am 2023- 2025 B . Ed passout student. I'm CTET Qualified too. I was preparing for govt teacher job too.

I did a BA in Geography political science and economics. I did a master's in Political Science but my master's was from was distance education (IGNOU). I've a CCC Certificate too. I live in Lucknow.

Now I want to start off my career in a mid or good private school. I don't want to sit idle anymore. How can I apply ? Do i have to just mail my CV to the school's email? How to approach the schools? Help me out please. I live in Lucknow so I am looking for the Lucknow Schools.

So I am 2023- 2025 B . Ed passout student. I'm CTET Qualified too. I was preparing for govt teacher job too.

I did a BA in Geography political science and economics. I did a master's in Political Science but my master's was from was distance education (IGNOU).

Now I want to start off my career in a mid or good private school. I don't want to sit idle anymore. How can I apply ? Do i have to just mail my CV to the school's email? How to approach the schools? Help me out please. I live in Lucknow so I am looking for the Lucknow Schools.

Um so since March ending I(27 yo) am seeing this boy (25 years old). It's my first proper dating experience ( i dated a guy for a month back in 2017 and there was no chemistry, and he also says he never had a girlfriend) This guy sent me chocolates on my birthday before seeing me in person. So when we met , everything went well , we met a few more times and once he tried to hold my hand but I got scared so I pulled away. I am a little bit conservative in this stuff so I asked him what are we ? are we dating ? So he got nervous and said yeah I thought we were dating, i think u r also thinking the same thing? So I said yeah . Then it was confirmed that we r dating. The dates ent well, he was respectful , took care of me , everything was good. Then a few days ago, i asked him if he is my boyfriend? He said u know better than me, you should tell me that. So I said no you should decide that . So he said "how can I tell something that is yours to decide". Then i said "yeah I think so" to which he replied "ok then 😘 😘" It felt like he is interested in me but he's scared of those big talks and he lets me decide what it is. He also accepts what I am saying, like confirming that we are dating, being my boyfriend.. he's not denying or ghosting or something. What do u guys think why he does that? Also tell me what to expect, what to assume? How could our relationship be? It feels different and overwhelming because I've no dating experience and he also says he never had a girlfriend. Also we don't talk too much due to our busy schedules. Apparently he seems more busy . So we don't really talk too much like new couples or something. Is it bad/red flag ??

So I had a menstrual issue so I had to get it checked by a gynaecologist. So a relative suggested that I go to this Dr. xyz. Now when we went there, I went to the hospital with my father just for moral support, but inside the cabin I used to go alone. I went there 3 days but the thing is that specific XYZ doctor didn't even look at me, she was busy dealing with other patients who were pregnant and i was getting advised by the other young intern doctor who was one girl one day , and another girl another day. Basically those intern doctors were changing all 3 times there was a different young intern doctor. And these intern doctors were not telling me anything like what happened to me, they were just writing a bunch of examinations and we did all those exams which were very costly.

So I told my father the doctor by whose name the hospital is making bills , she is not checking me , we wanted to get checked by that XYZ doctor, because we thought she was the senior doctor, she would take care of my problem. This XYZ doctor was like 45-50 years old.

So after 3 consultations , my father went inside the cabin and asked her very politely to see my reports while handling the reports to her. My dad was retired and was 61 years old at that time. So she threw the report in his direction with attitude and said "go somewhere else, if u don't trust me" my dad still talked to her calmly sorry u took us wrong u know better than us but we wanted if u can advise my daughter, but she was very rude.

Guys I was suffering from very low iron and was feeling very tired and weak (i got to know about that by the reports) otherwise i would have made a scene there. I got very angry. Apart from that she also said things to my dad like can't u see your daughter, she's so pale, looks like she's lifeless and nonsense. We never went to her again.

So I had a menstrual issue so I had to get it checked by a gynaecologist. So a relative suggested that I go to this Dr. xyz. Now when we went there, I went to the hospital with my father just for moral support, but inside the cabin I used to go alone. I went there 3 days but the thing is that specific XYZ doctor didn't even look at me, she was busy dealing with other patients who were pregnant and i was getting advised by the other young intern doctor who was one girl one day , and another girl another day. Basically those intern doctors were changing all 3 times there was a different young intern doctor. And these intern doctors were not telling me anything like what happened to me, they were just writing a bunch of examinations and we did all those exams which were very costly.

So I told my father the doctor by whose name the hospital is making bills , she is not checking me , we wanted to get checked by that XYZ doctor, because we thought she was the senior doctor, she would take care of my problem. This XYZ doctor was like 45-50 years old.

So after 3 consultations , my father went inside the cabin and asked her very politely to see my reports while handling the reports to her. My dad was retired and was 61 years old at that time. So she threw the report in his direction with attitude and said "go somewhere else, if u don't trust me" my dad still talked to her calmly sorry u took us wrong u know better than us but we wanted if u can advise my daughter, but she was very rude.

Guys I was suffering from very low iron and was feeling very tired and weak (i got to know about that by the reports) otherwise i would have made a scene there. I got very angry. Apart from that she also said things to my dad like can't u see your daughter, she's so pale, looks like she's lifeless and nonsense. We never went to her again.

How many women get their man to do extreme things for them, whereas I feel guilty if a guy pays for my lunch?

How can I stop doing the emotional labour, seek validation, and do things that exhaust me as a woman especially in relationships with parents, relatives, s/o. How to not imagine the future scenarios too soon in my head? How to stop being a "too easy" woman. Basically how to be that baddie girl who is unbothered, magnetic, attractive and keeps her s/o wrapped around her finger?

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I'm 27 F. Did my BA (geography, political science and economics) , MA (Political Science), B. Ed.. After my graduation I was preparing for govt jobs but I couldn't get selected. So I have literally zero experience. I thought about going for the pgdm program but I couldn't study well for the cat/ mat etc as my other govt exams were lined up.

I am CTET qualified (centre teaching eligibility test, it's kind of a preliminary exam for upcoming teachers vacancy).. I have not much time as my family will start pressuring for marriage and all and it feels too late to do PGDM now. I was not joining as a private teacher because of low pay and all, but now I have also made up my mind for joining a school maybe, basically now I'm trying to get the best of what I have. I have also taken the entrance exams of GL bajaj greater Noida, and GIMS Greater Noida and I'm selected for GIMS... ( I have heard the placement is not so good there and there's too much struggle for years to get in a better position) Should I join that GIMS College as I have a time crunch? Or should I join as a private teacher and prepare for a government teacher job as I have a CTET too?? Please help. I can't take 2026 cat or so because of the same time crunch thing. I've to do anything just now.

Profile: 10th: 8.8 CGPA

12th: 68.8%

Graduation: 60%