u/fluidxrln

I am recently depressed, Why does everyone you know or everyone in university have everything. internships, jobs, multi million user visits on their creation, president role, etc.

I am an active person and feel like did a lot but despite the things they have is not even my goal, makes me still feel so left behind.

Im bad at time management, I dont use AI, my pc isn bloated with node_modules for the hundreds of projects I made, and it became this routine on development of scaffold new project via a template I made, custom libraries I made, code snippets, component libraries, page libraries, code generation, wireframes database I made and assets & images database

Any tips to fasten development more? I have this project of mine to develop things very fast and set an high score everytime.

Current high score is 2-3 hours

My first idea of how can I make uni the best of it is meeting new people. Through my experience, some people you casually met in random tuesday was the reason I became an exec, and other opportunities and life and some became an inspiration and aspiration and sometimes even helped me on a lot of aspects of my life especially academics.

Another one is joining events, from learning new stuffs in game development, art, etc. taught me a lot of things and allowed me to branch out my interests and things I can do

I also want to hear how other people do it and how maximize their uni experience? maybe it's through partying: meeting people in social clubs, etc.

DROP YOUR TIPS BELOW so that other people can see it:)

I'm making a club, a social, tech related perhaps?, art creative freedom, good in members' CV, etc.

Any Ideas? Apparently we already have tech clubs like CS club, IEEE, web3, developers, web developers, google dev, startups club, etc. and the staffs wants me to find a differentiator

I received an email for a survey for a proposal for a new bachelor BCompSci - as an alternative to the BSc with a Major in Computer Science.

For me personally, I am not a fan of BCompscie because as from what I assume, this means the `any stage science` might not work anymore in courses that is science related but not within CompScie including but not limited to Math papers, or other science related papers that might interest you to expand your scope of knowledge and be a differetiator in current career state

My proposal would be rather than a new bachelor programme, Staffs should list recommended papers people should take within the major if they plan on specializing in a specific area. e.g. cybersec is recommended take xyz

I feel like what is currently lacking is the lack of information in orientation or beforehand about the papers you are going to take especially as from my personal observation among students that they have no idea about what papers they should actually take beyond the core papers. thats why most people resort in reddit and ask strangers for papers to choose (im guilty), the problem is most advices are anecdotal

but that's only my personal take, what do YOU feel?

I checked up possible names of my situation and I got combination of fear of death, revenge bedtime procrastination and fear of sleeping

It is when

1. You woke up late, so your time to do stuff narrows,

2. Since you are procastinator and a perfectionist, it tskes you time to do things and do things a lot of it! Very ambitious and generalist and want to try everything

3. and you cant focused too (self diagnosed/assumption?) ADHD with my inability to focus

4. since im sometimes slow, It will take me time to do problem solving especially in math related and computer related problems

5. I love life, because I get to experience the ups and downs and mainly because I notice the priveleges, the blessings I receieve every single day (the fact that im healthy, I get to see my family, etc.)

6. This leads to fear of death, so I stay up late because im scared I will lose everything when I sleep so I do things even if Im bored

7. or I finish everything I procastinated

8. It's 5AM and I need to wake up at 6AM

9. The anxiety that tomorrow is a big shot, I feel like I need to do more work now because I might not have enough time tomorrow

I feel like I wont wake up, even if I wake up, the future is nearer and a day passed and im a day more from to whatever is happening in the future, not enough time to do things I procastinated, and I get sleep deprived and even if tomorrow is weekend, I get to sleep and wake up at around 1PM and I wasted half of the day afain and this viscous cycle repeats

PS: Im aware that this is wrong and eventually everyone need to sleep

I know in hackathons we have devpost, etc. but what about for game jams?

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Im interested in joining as much game jams and let me know if you are keen to team up. Im inexperienced but willing to put in the work to learn!

Not sure if its possible but I want to aim it. Lets find out lol. Is anyone keen on joining?

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Most of these are online hackathons

Becoming rich and retiring their family is a goal people want to attain but personal experiences consumed from TV shows, rumors, people opening up, forums, documentaries always says that their family dynamics changed greatly after they started spoiling or giving money

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We grew up poor, We migrated 3 years ago to a first world country and my parents got major promotions. Combined income both of my parents is around $200kish including investments and assets so we are not that struggling financially

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Both parents dont have other hobbies, taking care of us was something they focused on. We are currently renting and not only because a house costs millions to buy, but also it keeps you stuck to a place. But me and my brothers still rely on ourselves, other than because we are men, our parents can fund that much to us so each one of us had to work hard and rely ourselves to pay student loans or something. We are not poor but not rich either, just enough to live with having food in the table and so some side trips

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I recently became rich financially through businesses I made online. What is the proper way to spoil my family without all the family drama and changing the relationship we all currently have?

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I want to spoil my family, I want to have a luxurious life, I want to be that Pinterest I always dreamed of. but I dont know how to start this? What is the best goals? Im still stuck on goal setting.

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but Im extremely blessed to have this type of concern and blessing in my life! Thank you for yall response!

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Hi! Im not sure if this is outside of the academic conduct, please let me know.

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I would like to ask if someone has personal notes for chinese100G or link to an external book for it. thank you. Im about to take it next year sem1

I failed one of my courses, there is a lot of self blame and regrets especially the considerable amount of time and resources given to me and me failing is maybe because of self negligence? over working? slow? or everything?

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I was looking for other alternatives to save me such as aegrotat, etc. and unfortunately it was for people who legit have medical situation or loss of someone or something far greater than exams.

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I just realized that these people who took aegrotat, exam was the least of their concerns and made me snap back to reality that there are far beyond more important things. Am I saying this to cope because I failed? maybe. but I know a fact that me not being in a medical situation or a loss of someone is a blessing enough that I overlook and such a privelege to be even in uni, to study the things I once dreamed of, to do my goals, to have a family that supports me, etc.

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This is a reminder that a bad grade doesnt define you, doesnt define your overall success and definitely not worth ruining your health. I legit lost weight and the headache is insufferable because of exams

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I saw a tiktok where this guy was standing beside someone and the person behind him got pranked with a large fly trap. He got pissed and he thought it was the guy beside him so he placed two big fly traps onto this guy's face and it took this guy a whole day to remove it

The guy never apologized, but what happens if these "pranks" or things you have been wronged repeated? e.g. Saw another guy where a large bowl of spaghetti was dropped onto his bed

I made successful accounts before especially since I pull up my phone, make a reel, edit it and then upload

but what if Im managing a client and they cant provide media especially when they are busy? How can I start making reels without just using stock photos or reusing pictures.

When I make reels, I ideate first, set up the settings and the props then edit. e.g. a construction company and im far away so I cant record it for them too

Financial aside, let's say hypothetically im financially capable to live my own decently. buy a car, rent/buy a house, solid stable income. Im 19. when should I leave the house?

I love my family, there are instances where I feel I need a separate room for more privacy or privacy in terms inviting someone over or making my own decisions but at the same time there are times where I just want to see my parents, my brothers.

We are the type of family who dont really show affection that much, no hugging, no saying I love you but our love language is through showing up. Talking to each other, doing things together. I fear that if I move out, the time will come this will create somewhat invisible separation especially when we all get used to because of the setup.

I feel loneliness and seeing my family after getting home from uni (late at night) sometimes do feel like a blessing. (there are food in the table, etc.) and even the very least seeing thier face at the end of the day even after an argument is worth it

There are times too I feel like I need some growth, more flexibility and more things that I get to decide on.

Any advice? would appreciate advice for ppl who been in the same shoes:)