Daycare.
My husband and I almost never fight, we just never have and we've been together since we were teenagers.
Last night we had a huge fight over sending our twins to daycare this fall. They'll be three in October.
I think we should hire a nanny. He thinks they need socialization. I don't disagree.
Hadley our daughter is very outgoing and adventurous but Henry our son is not. He's very clingy. We've tried everything we can think of to assuage his fears.
Last week the twins slept over at my in-laws and things were fine at first but Henry wouldn't go to sleep and cried for almost an hour.
I finally went and picked him up. He was fine, no fever, no visible problems. But since then he won't let me out of his sight.
I'm a doctor, he's been looked over and tested. He's hit every milestone.
I know this is probably just a phase but I'm worried about thrusting him into an environment he's not prepared for.
I hate having tension with my husband.
Any advice?