u/hydrospacw

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i texted my boyfriend (hes in college, his 2nd sem exams are done so hes always at home for the time being) first aur then after around 1 hour i was scrolling on instagram and replied to a story casually. and he replied. but my bf whos probably busier than the country's pm still hasn't texted back

idk why but this is so funny 😭😭😭ive been laughing at this ss for so long😭😆

edit: i posted this cus i thought it was funny, he wasn't being a creep, im not trying to hit on him or flirt, me and my bf are doing absolutely fine its been more than a year, I sent him this ss as well as the post link he thought it was funny too. so if u dont this is funny or have nothing better to say pls scroll

hes such a nice person off screen, very professional too, unless u really piss him off😹

koi ghar jaa raha hai koi kashmir jaa raha hai. mai ye sab dekhke sone ja rahi hu bye

mahima's last day at shoot. post leap shooting will begin soon

I turned 18 today. i dont feel 18 tho. infact it doesnt feel like my bday at all its all very... umm.. boring lol🫠

wish kardo sab jaldi jaldi🥰

shuru se shuru karte hai last year i met a guy on instagram and we've talking for more than 1.5 years now. he never acted creepy, listened to my rants, tried to show sympathy in situations he couldn't offer any advice or help in. and so we became very good friends.

and i liked talking to him cus he listens to me, he judges too when its my fault. so i mightve over the course of time developed a crush on him, because he was emotionally available, which is rare now. also we never even flirted, just good friendship.

but the thing is he lives in some other state, we live almost 1500 km apart. I just assumed we would never meet so i never thought of making a move. I never thought he could like me back.

on 19th june, he suddenly asks me "do u like me?" it took me 2 hrs to process that, and i said yes. and then I asked abt his feelings and he said "i thought it's pretty obv"

ever since hes been flirting a lot. lots of good morning baby, good night jaanu, I miss u, I love u, I wish u were here...

whats worse yesterday he was talking abt marriage and and kids. main tumhare ghar jaake tumhare mummy ko pehle manaunga fir wo humari help karenge papa ko manane me,, how many kids do u want, ladka chahiye ya ladki?

BTW we're both in college rn, barely 20. I dont plan on getting married anytime before 28, at least not to some guy I met on instagram.

my main problem is him being extremely clingy. first of all he never asked me to be his gf, if he did I would turn him down cause an online relationship is the last thing i want. secondly hes acting like my bf, hes flirting constantly and all those cheesy lines which I absolutely hate, and most importantly hes not giving me any space. my space is my first priority rn, I hate it when ppl think they can cross the boundaries i set. I don't want to text him 24/7 i dont want to know if he had lunch, if hes out w his friends or wtv, and i don't want to tell him if I had lunch, if im going out, what im wearing. I JUST CANT DO THIS ITS EXHAUSTING ITS LOWK DRAINING ME!!!

I used to look forward to his texts but now it just gives me the ick idk why. im chronically online on instagram but I havent opened it since morning to avoid him and hes sent 9+ msgs. I thought mayb i was ready for a relationship but ig im not. probably its not his problem, its my problem, the thought of a real committed relationship w anyone rn is giving me a headache. so i need him to breakup w me. I dont want to do it cus i really dont want to be the bad guy here. he told his friends abt us, idk whats there to tell, when he never even asked me in the first place.

so what do i do? I could just block his instagram and his phone number but as I said i don't want to be the bad guy.

TL;DR I liked a guy and he likes me back but hes being too clingy and I realised im not ready for a relationship because its pissing me off and its exhausting. how do I get him to breakup w me?

ive never had a bf, every guy i liked i would admire him from afar cus its a humiliation ritual imo to talk to a guy who doesn't like u back.

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but everyone out there how do yall talk to ur partners? is it always very flirty and cheesy ?

ive seen more, MAHER w kids and all and its straight up frustrating