I am in love with my cis bestie and it's killing me, how do I get off Mr Bone's Wild Ride?
Can't avoid them, we are in a band together. They're also my number one confident and I don't have a relationship with anyone else I could talk to any this, either because they know her or they're tired of me talking about this (it has been YEARS). It's making me I credibly miserable, and of course it's making me feel as if my transition is invalid (I know it's not but I can't stop feeling it). I've seen so much of their ugliness and it only makes me want them more. They've literally changed my life, and helped me transition. Please share some advice, my goof ass is regularly crying over this person and this is so fucking dumb.