To my sapphic transfemmes, how do you flirt?
It's come to my attention that Ive forgotten how to flirt, and beginning my transition has made it even harder and stranger. I also can't tell when people are flirting with me. I literally just misread a man trying to take me home for trying to put my band up for the night.
How do you flirt? How do you know someone is flirting with you?
I've heard eye contact, but to me that just means you're listening. I've heard touching people, but it feels rude and inappropriate to touch people you haven't established enough of a friendly rapport from. I've heard complimenting them, but that's never seemed to move the needle for me and I assume people complimenting me are being nice.