u/life_noob00

I think the fear of marriages breaking has resulted in people being extremely picky and rigid about choosing a partner in arranged marriage.

Somewhere, we have forgotten that marriage is supposed to be 2 people building a life together instead of being a partner with checklist qualities.

I want to adopt a cat but I am not sure if I will be able to care for one, haven't had a pet ever. Is there anyway I can foster a cat to try if I want to adopt one? I don't want to adopt one and then decide I can't care for it, that's just cruel 🥲

Hello,

I am looking for a room near sector 132 in an already occupied flat. Female flatmates only.

About me : I am 28 and a software developer, easy going and respectful of personal and common spaces.

I've been playing around with an idea and wanted to see if people would actually be interested.

Imagine spending an evening with 6–8 people in a cozy apartment over great coffee.

The experience would include:

☕ A guided tasting of three coffees from three countries

🍪 Curated bite-sized food pairings

🌍 Stories behind the coffees and the cultures they come from

🥛 A Coffee Playground, where you can experiment and create your own drink with different coffees, milk options, syrups, and sweeteners

💬 A relaxed space to meet fellow coffee lovers and have good conversations

The experience would last around 90–120 minutes.

I'm thinking of calling it The Coffee Apartment.

I'm considering pricing it around ₹899 per person, but before I put this together, I'd love some honest feedback.

Would you attend something like this?

Does ₹899 feel reasonable?

What's one thing that would make this a must-visit for you?

This isn't a promotion or a ticket sale—I'm just trying to validate whether people would be excited about something like this.

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Hi!

I'm a 28-year-old woman based in Delhi/NCR, working as a software engineer. My weekdays are usually split between writing code, grabbing way too much coffee, and stressing about random things.

Outside work, I love traveling, running (currently working towards getting stronger and doing more races), exploring cafés, and documenting little moments from life. I'm also into crochet and other creative hobbies when I get some free time. I'd describe myself as independent, ambitious, curious, and someone who values good conversations over small talk.

I'm looking for a genuine connection that could hopefully lead to marriage if we're compatible. I'm not interested in casual dating or endless texting without intent. I'd love to meet someone who is kind, emotionally mature, communicative, and has their own goals and interests. A good sense of humor definitely earns bonus points.

Preferably looking for someone in IT and living in Delhi NCR and baniya by caste. (Family requirement)

Looking forward to hearing from you!

When I first started this process I thought it would be easy to find someone for me, mainly because I consider myself to be a good blend of successful and sanskaari. High earning, good looking, good family, what else does one look for?

Turns out, these have become my negatives. No one cares how high earning or successful a girl is, it all boils down to how thin her waist is.

Funny thing is, if I was a guy earning this much, no one would care if I had a few extra kilos.

Happy Monday to all :)

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This was never a part of my goal in my life. I never ever considered that I would be able to do this in my life.

It is slow according to the race standards and I would not qualify for any race if I signed up but I did it and I am crying because I cannot believe it 😭😭

Planning on setting up an Airbnb in haridwar, would it work? Do people see the need for it there?

I bring a lot to the table. I am pretty, from a good college, earning good, fun, love to travel, can cook, and I like to think I have a great personality too. But I am unable to find anyone who matches that for me. Why is this happening? Did I over achieve in life so now I am over qualified? I don't think my standards are too high, I am just looking for what I am providing.

Any idea where I can get one? Want one in a decent price. Also okay to rent if that is an option.