u/literaturedeviel

So, I have had many problems with this “best friend” because there are times im okay with it and others where I hate him and don’t give a shit about whatever he got going on. One night we were normally chatting and joking and he took it too seriously and confessed to me that he wanted to be with me. I had an anxiety attack because of it and after saying to him in the nicest way that I wouldn’t date him I started to avoid him. He says he cares about me and wants a second chance, our dynamic was okay and sometimes was fun but at the same time there were times I grew tired of him. I know I’m part of the Aplatonic spectrum but don’t know where so It makes it more difficult. Any advice?

Okay so, what the title says, I started creating tulpas out of some parts of my personality/Hyperfixations etc and it went out of control because I started creating more… to the point we were too much and I think none of them were correctly formed because once I started University and I had less time to focus on them because I was busy and Tired they started disappearing… except for 3, one that basically is the personification of nothingness, one of the first I formed that I’m the closest to and doesn’t talk a lot but I can still feel their responses and hear them in my mind once I ask (the ones that disappeared can’t answer the same way as before because yeah, they are gone) and one that is a fictive and that comes and goes. Does anyone had a similar experience? Why am I able to hear their voices and feel them when the rest are gone? Why only this three remain?

Sometimes I overthink if they’re actually talking, but I love them too much and can’t let go of them (the ones that still remain) what should I do?

I'm not sure if I'm allowed to do this here, or if this is appropriate, but anyway. I'm a student researching Puerto Rican military personnel, specifically their experiences in the armed forces, their stories about what they did, and even the difficult situations they faced. I'm also interested in hearing about the history of Vieques (I'd be grateful if you have any book recommendations). I'm doing this research because I want to write a military novel (even if it's fiction, I want to be well-informed and I'm looking for reliable sources). Thank you very much!

Edit: Aclaro que estoy investigando también en libros y demás que me dan acceso en mi universidad, no me fío solo de Reddit, jajaja solo busco experiencias acá como extras.

Hey so, I’m new and Kinda not? I have been trying to get into the religion for over a year, but had to step back dozens of times and kinda can’t have “real” shrines or lots of stuff for them in my house because of catholic family, most stuff are in boxes or chests. And i had a long step away because I wad do lost and I incredibly still don’t know where to start. So again a new beginning… I’m interested in worshipping Anubis, Osiris but also Min or any god related to Love, Queerness and Sex and thats why I want to know if there are specific resources or books on any of them as well as recommendations of gods or goddesses related to it. And I would also be grateful for any recommendations on a good place to start. :) Thanks to all and Dua Netjeru. (i think was typed? Sorry if it’s misspelled)

Yeah so what the title say. Anything about intimacy and strong sexual feelings/connection. Queer obv.

So I like dividing my bookshelf, journals and more for each headmate (sometimes a but complicated since we are 22 now, how things change in a few months huh) but I do some sort of dividing so that everyone has like a space in it, even if in headspace is better I do my best in real life, divide different to be reads or journals, bookshelves by sections and genres so that all my headmates feel that they have their space in the “””real world”””

Does anyone else do this?

So, I’m new in the system, name’s Connel (He/Him or They/Them) and well I’ve been here for less than 24 hours. First thing I notice is my host mental state, another headmate (Abe) had talked about our host panic attacks but I can see it goes deeper, our headmate has depression and anxiety but more than that he has been battling their low self esteem that his own parents caused. They are not extremely overweight but he isn’t in his “ideal weight” (like 40 or so lb over it, yeah is not that little either) but because of his parents way of handling it and their change of opinions they have developed a bad eating habit (Eating disorders, they either dont eat a lot or eat too much, always check the calories and weight) they have been doing better but their parents haven’t. They try that the low self esteem don’t affect their depression or join together to fuck him again, so following our advices they try to find new things to distract so they don’t overthink or self harm. Ambrose (another headmate) had the idea for us to learn skating, or host told their parents… His dad? (Who for a long time after Our host got better from eds told them he was perfect how he was and they weren’t too bad in weight) now told them “You need to get ready to break bones and fall, oh! And you better lose weight, you don’t want to break the skate do you?” And now our host is very demotivated and sad, even paranoid of his weight and thinking of stopping eating again. Any advices in how can we help?

So we are aware of in-system relationships, but I find it curious how different they can work. For example, there have been two new headmates that our host had felt attraction to (The headmates kinda feel the same?) but had been too sudden, do other people experience the same?

-Ambrose (She/Her)

Do anyone happens to be in Pinterest casually, see a name, aesthetic or something you like then out of nowhere feel like a fictive/headmate may form from it unwillingly? Like- is it normal or? 😭

I’ve been having more trouble remembering things before my headmates and even some things after them, is it normal? Or am I just forgetful?

IFor context I’m Latin American and my skin color is white (stick with me in this one) what happens if a headmate it’s from a different ethnicity? Does that can happen? At least “in appearance”? Is that a weird thing?

What the title says, really anything Apagender, Agender or Bigender :)