u/lurvchickenugs

We broke up around 3 months ago and we’ve slowly gotten back in contact recently after I noticed he was watching my Instagram stories (we didn’t follow eachother at the time) so I watched his and saw he got his nose surgery to fix his broken nose. I texted him to wish him well with the recovery and we spoke a bit then silence for a week. He thought I had him blocked and we both heard rumours about eachother after the breakup but we got to clear those up then it was silence again. Today he sent me a video on tik tok and he added me on Snapchat and now have each other added on some social media. We’ve been snapping and sending each other tik toks and talking through out the day, but tonight it’s quiet again. We’re very slowly talking because I think we are both scared and don’t know what to feel or make of it. I’m not sure if this is just to be friends because he was a bit flirty. I have my expectations set very low it’s just shocking how far we’ve come compared to the beginning of our breakup. It’s like im talking to my best friend again it’s like nothing ever happened we’re using the same humour and jokes. Has anyone had this happen to them? Or any advice you could give?

We broke up around 3 months ago and we’ve slowly gotten back in contact recently after I noticed he was watching my Instagram stories (we didn’t follow eachother at the time) so I watched his and saw he got his nose surgery to fix his broken nose. I texted him to wish him well with the recovery and we spoke a bit then silence for a week. He thought I had him blocked and we both heard rumours about eachother after the breakup but we got to clear those up then it was silence again. Today he sent me a video on tik tok and he added me on Snapchat and now have each other added on some social media. We’ve been snapping and sending each other tik toks and talking through out the day, but tonight it’s quiet again. We’re very slowly talking because I think we are both scared and don’t know what to feel or make of it. I’m not sure if this is just to be friends because he was a bit flirty. I have my expectations set very low it’s just shocking how far we’ve come compared to the beginning of our breakup. It’s like im talking to my best friend again it’s like nothing ever happened we’re using the same humour and jokes. Has anyone had this happen to them? Or any advice you could give?

We broke up around 3 months ago and we’ve slowly gotten back in contact recently after I noticed he was watching my Instagram stories (we didn’t follow eachother at the time) so I watched his and saw he got his nose surgery to fix his broken nose. I texted him to wish him well with the recovery and we spoke a bit then silence for a week. He thought I had him blocked and we both heard rumours about eachother after the breakup but we got to clear those up then it was silence again. Today he sent me a video on tik tok and he added me on Snapchat and now have each other added on some social media. We’ve been snapping and sending each other tik toks and talking through out the day, but tonight it’s quiet again. We’re very slowly talking because I think we are both scared and don’t know what to feel or make of it. I’m not sure if this is just to be friends because he was a bit flirty. I have my expectations set very low it’s just shocking how far we’ve come compared to the beginning of our breakup. It’s like im talking to my best friend again it’s like nothing ever happened we’re using the same humour and jokes. Has anyone had this happen to them? Or any advice you could give?

We broke up around 3 months ago and we’ve slowly gotten back in contact recently after I noticed he was watching my Instagram stories (we didn’t follow eachother at the time) so I watched his and saw he got his nose surgery to fix his broken nose. I texted him to wish him well with the recovery and we spoke a bit then silence for a week. He thought I had him blocked and we both heard rumours about eachother after the breakup but we got to clear those up then it was silence again. Today he sent me a video on tik tok and he added me on Snapchat and now have each other added on some social media. We’ve been snapping and sending each other tik toks and talking through out the day, but tonight it’s quiet again. We’re very slowly talking because I think we are both scared and don’t know what to feel or make of it. I’m not sure if this is just to be friends because he was a bit flirty. I have my expectations set very low it’s just shocking how far we’ve come compared to the beginning of our breakup. It’s like im talking to my best friend again it’s like nothing ever happened we’re using the same humour and jokes. Has anyone had this happen to them? Or any advice you could give?

I’m 17 and I’ve just recently started working at McDonald’s. I’m not going back to school in the fall so I am available full time but after my 3rd shift which im completing this week my training will be over. So far with training im only getting booked 1 day a week. I’m wondering if I have to ask a manager about that or if they will start to give me more hours once I’ve stopped my training? I’m not sure this is my first job if anyone can help thanks!

I’m 17 and I’ve just recently started working at McDonald’s. I’m not going back to school in the fall so I am available full time but after my 3rd shift which im completing this week my training will be over. So far with training im only getting booked 1 day a week. I’m wondering if I have to ask a manager about that or if they will start to give me more hours once I’ve stopped my training? I’m not sure this is my first job if anyone can help thanks!

We dated for 9 months and have been broken up for 3. He only started stalking me a few months after our breakup and views every story I post even though we don’t follow each other. I don’t stalk him but I do miss him a lot . He knows where to find me but won’t reach out and is watching from a distance. Anyone know what this could mean? Is it just curiosity, if it is I don’t know why he would care enough to even bother to look. He made it clear he didn’t want me and said that maybe in the future we’ll get back together once we both matured and aren’t so hurt by each other. If anyone can help cause im really confused.

We dated for 9 months and have been broken up for 3. He only started stalking me a few months after our breakup and views every story I post even though we don’t follow each other. I don’t stalk him but I do miss him a lot . He knows where to find me but won’t reach out and is watching from a distance. Anyone know what this could mean? Is it just curiosity, if it is I don’t know why he would care enough to even bother to look. He made it clear he didn’t want me and said that maybe in the future we’ll get back together once we both matured and aren’t so hurt by each other. If anyone can help cause im really confused.

He only started stalking me a few months after our breakup and views every story I post even though we don’t follow each other. I don’t stalk him but I do miss him a lot . He knows where to find me but won’t reach out and is watching from a distance. Anyone know what this could mean? Is it just curiosity, if it is I don’t know why he would care enough to even bother to look.

There’s nothing I can do about this but my mind won’t stop thinking. My ex is making me go crazy. When we first broke up he wanted nothing to do with me and said maybe in the future we’ll get back together, few months later he keeps watching every single story I post even tho we don’t follow each other. He constantly views my profiles but a few months ago didn’t care to view my stuff or hear from me. We last spoke about a week ago because I heard he was in the hospital from an injury and wanted to wish him well. He told me he thought I blocked him from iMessage but especially now he knows he’s unblocked and exactly where to find me but isn’t doing anything he’s just silently watching all the time. He could just be curious but why would he even care if he doesn’t want me? He has that much time in his day to be watching me but won’t reach out? It’s messing with my head because I miss him and I can’t tell what he wants.

There’s nothing I can do about this but my mind won’t stop thinking. When we first broke up he wanted nothing to do with me and said maybe in the future we’ll get back together, few months later he keeps watching every single story I post even tho we don’t follow each other. He constantly views my profiles but a few months ago didn’t care to view my stuff or hear from me. We last spoke about a week ago because I heard he was in the hospital from an injury and wanted to wish him well. He told me he thought I blocked him from iMessage but especially now he knows he’s unblocked and exactly where to find me but isn’t doing anything he’s just silently watching all the time. He could just be curious but why would he even care if he doesn’t want me? He has that much time in his day to be watching me but won’t reach out? It’s messing with my head because I miss him and I can’t tell what he wants.

There’s nothing I can do about this but my mind won’t stop thinking. When we first broke up he wanted nothing to do with me and said maybe in the future we’ll get back together, few months later he keeps watching every single story I post even tho we don’t follow each other. He constantly views my profiles but a few months ago didn’t care to view my stuff or hear from me. We last spoke about a week ago because I heard he was in the hospital from an injury and wanted to wish him well. He told me he thought I blocked him from iMessage but especially now he knows he’s unblocked and exactly where to find me but isn’t doing anything he’s just silently watching all the time. He could just be curious but why would he even care if he doesn’t want me? He has that much time in his day to be watching me but won’t reach out? It’s messing with my head because I miss him and I can’t tell what he wants.

We dated for 9 months and broke up 3 months ago. We were each other’s first real relationship and we last spoke about a week ago cause i heard he was in the hospital from an injury and wanted to wish him well. He thought i had him blocked and was dating someone else that people told him i cheated on him with? Which wasn’t true at all so we cleared that up. The guy was there for me after my breakup but stayed a friend, now I don’t speak to him either because he met someone else (btw he’s also watching my stories). At the beginning of our breakup my ex wasn’t stalking me or cared to even bother with me. Lately he’s been watching every story I post and I thought it was only because he thought I was with someone new and was curious but I posted a story last night and he viewed that again even knowing im single and alone he’s still stalking so I wonder what’s it for now? Is he just going to keep playing games? I’ve been silent and it seems to make him more curious now. I don’t get what’s so intresting that makes these guys watch me from afar but do nothing about it.

We dated for 9 months and broke up 3 months ago. We were each other’s first real relationship and we last spoke about a week ago cause i heard he was in the hospital from an injury and wanted to wish him well. He thought i had him blocked and was dating someone else that people told him i cheated on him with? Which wasn’t true at all so we cleared that up. The guy was there for me after my breakup but stayed a friend, now I don’t speak to him either because he met someone else (btw he’s also watching my stories). At the beginning of our breakup my ex wasn’t stalking me or cared to even bother with me. Lately he’s been watching every story I post and I thought it was only because he thought I was with someone new and was curious but I posted a story last night and he viewed that again even knowing im single and alone he’s still stalking so I wonder what’s it for now? Is he just going to keep playing games? I’ve been silent and it seems to make him more curious now. I don’t get what’s so intresting that makes these guys watch me from afar but do nothing about it.

We dated for 9 months and broke up 3 months ago. We were each other’s first real relationship and we last spoke about a week ago cause i heard he was in the hospital from an injury and wanted to wish him well. He thought i had him blocked and was dating someone else that people told him i cheated on him with? Which wasn’t true at all so we cleared that up. The guy was there for me after my breakup but stayed a friend, now I don’t speak to him either because he met someone else (btw he’s also watching my stories). At the beginning of our breakup my ex wasn’t stalking me or cared to even bother with me. Lately he’s been watching every story I post and I thought it was only because he thought I was with someone new and was curious but I posted a story last night and he viewed that again even knowing im single and alone he’s still stalking so I wonder what’s it for now? Is he just going to keep playing games? I’ve been silent and it seems to make him more curious now. I don’t get what’s so intresting that makes these guys watch me from afar but do nothing about it.

We dated for 9 months and broke up 3 months ago. We were each other’s first real relationship and we last spoke about a week ago cause i heard he was in the hospital from an injury and wanted to wish him well. He thought i had him blocked and was dating someone else that people told him i cheated on him with? Which wasn’t true at all so we cleared that up. The guy was there for me after my breakup but stayed a friend, now I don’t speak to him either because he met someone else (btw he’s also watching my stories). At the beginning of our breakup (I’d say the first 2 months) my ex wasn’t stalking me or cared to even bother with me. Lately he’s been watching every story I post and I thought it was only because he thought I was with someone new and was curious but I posted a story last night and he viewed that again even knowing im single and alone he’s still stalking so I wonder what’s it for now? Is he just going to keep playing games? I’ve been silent and it seems to make him more curious now. I don’t get what’s so intresting that makes these guys watch me from afar but do nothing about it.

For context, we dated for 9 months we were eachothers first real anything and have been broken up for 3. I initiated the breakup during a big argument but he really followed through with it and wouldn’t take me back. He’d heard some rumours I was dating someone new or cheating with him but he was just a friend and helped me while I was lonely. I reached out and broke no contact few days ago because we’d been stalking eachothers instagram ( it started when he viewed a story I posted) he got nose surgery to fix his broken nose so I texted to wish him well. Wasn’t expecting an answer even because we both thought we had eachother blocked but he answered and we had a conversation and cleared up confusions and then said some old jokes and it felt like how it used to with our humour. We spoke again yesterday because I sent him something funny but then the convo faded out. I’ve decided im not going to text him anymore because every time we speak it’s me who texts first even tho he does seem intrigued and asks me questions. Maybe we’ll never speak again now or he’ll reach out who knows. I do miss him very much but I can’t do this to myself with our casual conversations and being unsure if he wants anything.

For context, we dated for 9 months we were eachothers first real anything and have been broken up for 3. I initiated the breakup during a big argument but he really followed through with it and wouldn’t take me back. He’d heard some rumours I was dating someone new or cheating with him but he was just a friend and helped me while I was lonely. I reached out and broke no contact few days ago because we’d been stalking eachothers instagram ( it started when he viewed a story I posted) he got nose surgery to fix his broken nose so I texted to wish him well. Wasn’t expecting an answer even because we both thought we had eachother blocked but he answered and we had a conversation and cleared up confusions and then said some old jokes and it felt like how it used to with our humour. We spoke again yesterday because I sent him something funny but then the convo faded out. I’ve decided im not going to text him anymore because every time we speak it’s me who texts first even tho he does seem intrigued and asks me questions. Maybe we’ll never speak again now or he’ll reach out who knows. I do miss him very much but I can’t do this to myself with our casual conversations and being unsure if he wants anything.

We dated for 9 months and broke up about 3 months ago, I initiated the break up but he really followed through with it and it was during a big argument. After that I begged for him back but he wouldn’t take me. He said maybe with time we can be together and it’s whatever the future holds. We were both very hurt and it was messy. Then I started talking with this guy but nothing ever came out of it because I realised i still had feelings for my ex. He found out and people were telling him I was dating this new guy and I was talking with him while still in the relationship with my ex, which was not true at all. So about a week ago I reached out to him because he viewed my story on insta and since then we’ve been viewing each others back and forth and I saw he finally got nose surgery back from when he broke his nose a while ago. I wished him well and wasn’t expecting an answer or anything. But he answered a lot and asked me questions about myself too. We spoke for a bit and cleared some confusions up and we even started joking with each other like we used to. A few days later I sent him this tik tok on I message cause that’s our only way of contact but I didn’t answer back for a while cause I was working and he double texted me more jokes. We started talking again after it then again the conversation just faded out. His responses were cold but he asked me questions. I’ve been the one to start all our conversations and now it seems we’re capable of having casual talks and he doesn’t seem hurt anymore. He hasnt moved on with someone else and just been with his friends but from our last conversation it kinda feels like this is the end from here. I’ve decided im not going to be the one to text first anymore and i dont think he’ll text me again but who knows. I’m going to just leave it at that but I do miss him deep down and I wish we could try again and make things right. I feel like im the only one who wants that so im just leaving him alone now. I don’t know if he’ll ever text me again, but I feel confused on why he even answers and jokes with me if he appears to want nothing from it.