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▲ 9 r/etiquette

How to approach a woman whose husband passed away. His band was scheduled to play a neighborhood concert and I will need to rebook.

I book a summer concert series for my local park (sponsored by a neighborhood arts council). I was scrolling social media last night and saw an “In memoriam” for a man whose band is booked to play in the park this summer. My contact for booking the show was his wife, but my contract was with him.

How do I tactfully say, “I’m sorry for your loss, is the band still playing?” without sounding completely heartless and tactless? I’m sad that he passed away on a personal level. I also need to find out if I need to rebook that concert. He passed away approximately a month ago.

I have no idea how to even approach this. I don’t know any of the other band members, I only knew the singer/leader who passed away. Help.

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u/mtoomtoo — 3 days ago
▲ 812 r/traderjoes

Peonies Are Massive and Such a Beautiful Coral Color

Pic: a green vase with peonies, alstroemeria, sunflowers, tulips, and some kind of white filler.

u/mtoomtoo — 7 days ago
▲ 52 r/heungtan

Wine charm set freebies for mature ARMYs

Had some leftover wine charm bands from crafts I made for friends. When I got tired of making bracelets I decided to make wine charms! Force your friends to pick a bias when you’re entertaining. Will be at D1 Vegas.

u/mtoomtoo — 11 days ago
▲ 53 r/StLouis

Great activities all over the St. Louis region including fishing, archery, outdoor cooking, shirt making, compass reading, stream and pond exploration and more. All free. And they clean up after you. Did I mention it’s free?

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u/mtoomtoo — 20 days ago
▲ 105 r/heungtan

I’m trying to make freebie bracelets but I’m running out of time. How’s this for a freebie: a three pack of batteries for ARMY bombs with a card that has fan chants for names and Arirang on either side (taken from Threads with permission). All put in a cellophane bag and stapled together with a card that says, “Stay Bright, ARMY!”

I know it’s low effort, but it’s something. Will this work?

u/mtoomtoo — 20 days ago
▲ 936 r/Yosemite

It was raining when we arrived on Sunday, but sunny and gorgeous on Monday 4/27. Had a lovely dinner at The Mountain Room (with stunning views) and a beautiful souvenir necklace from the Ansel Adams Gallery.

u/mtoomtoo — 22 days ago
▲ 46 r/morganhill

Visited Morgan Hill this weekend and had some delicious carne asada tacos at Burritos, Tacos Y Mas, a nice breakfast at The Breakfast Club, and a beautiful wedding at MOHI Winery. Hit up to Trader Joe’s for some Dubai chocolates too.

You have a lovely city.

u/mtoomtoo — 22 days ago