u/newtnutsdoesnotsuck

I learnt this and I'm trying to become a good man; I want to share it with you guys too.

Don’t be rude to women in general. Don’t be rude to the one you love, be a gentle good person, be her harbor, be her safety, don’t argue, don’t yell, give her a good life, let her live a prosperous life. 

Often men realize their mistakes and stupidity later on, and regret, after stupid dumb arguments – they are not worth it at all. No stupid argument is worth ruining your relationship. Communication and understanding is the key. Winning arguments is NOT the point. Learn to be cooperative.

It’s just nature; to be a good man, you must learn to be soft, be kind, be happy. Love yourself so you can love others.

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I mentioned in post im bi, and he sent me explicit pic, such a creep
u/Fun-Replacement-2621

me vry boreddd... YAP! if you don't know jokes

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I mean, think of it, the ratio of depressed men and boys is wayy more than that of girls, further more, it's way difficult to talk to about a personal problem or yap about a relationship problem or anything with the boys.

Toxic masculinity is another things. There's also less empathy. Like, I wish boys were listen to each other and support each like, back each other like girls do with their friends.

Talking about crushes, feelings, personal problems, mental health, life, it's just not the same with boys.

I'm not generalizing, it's just based on personal experience

Ughh, my other friends, I'm kinda fed up with religion being mentioned again and again.

Dm me

Why was I not enough for her?

Almost 2 years and she chose a guy over me who she only knows for 3 months

My world ended on her terms

It's hurts so much

I can't even eat, lost all appetite

It physically aches

I wanted her to be my forever

I can't move on. How can she move on so quickly, she liked me too, we both liked each other.

I don't even wanna deal with it anymore, it's just hurts too much.

She's giving him the attention I longed for.

I see people often planning light meetups in r/LahoreSocial

abhi tak iss subreddit mein nai dekha.

What do u guys think about meetups?

There are many reasons many of us quit.

I'm currently 18

I started having thought at 14 or 15, left at 16.

What made you leave? Ik it's a vague question.

I've had really bad personal experiences, and I used to think a lot, it just didn't make sense.

I just feel kinda down, and lonely so... Id love to talk if u want

I could use a friend

bigbiryani69 - some weird ahh person

reeemreeemreeem - unemployed

I made an online friend 1.7 years ago. We had uni entry tests together and stuff, we'd study, laugh, chat like basically ALL DAY. I felt like the happiest person. Things happened, and naturally, we both developed crush on each other (she didn't confess yet). I'd asked her to become my gf multiple times, but she said she wasn't ready.

She'd tell me that you are only my bestfriend, basically letting me go; It was hard but I recovered. I then saw her as bsf.

Then In November 2025, I started liking another girl - and I'm so stupid, I'd discuss this with her as platonic bsf, which I thought was okay. I thought bsf discuss this stuff and other stuff about life.

This new girl whole thing lasted didn't even a month, it was all one-sided, and I was heartbroken. Around this time, my bsf of almost 2 years, she confessed NOW! When she knew I liked this person. She confessed and blocked me, and I emailed her, and like we got back to being bsf.

so, mera to idhar se bhi kat gaya (the one sided), this one-sided was in my friendgroup, I lost all the boys as well. The loneliest person I was!

My online bsf changed around that time. I'd told her, why would you not confess in time? I swear I asked you multiple times, and you do it now?

I had always instincts that she'd find my "replacement".

She found other guys, texted me lesser.

All that, I still have feelings for her (my bsf), and I'm so fucking attached. We used to talk about marriage, dates, and travelling together.

fast forward, things weren't exactly sound. I was heartbroken.

In March, she found another guy. Gosh, she's so close with him now, totally slapping my almost 2 years of commitment. In 3.5 months, she's closer to him than I doubt she was with me. I was so fucking open.

I'd literally learn songs for her on guitar and send her videos.

She has a crush on the new bsf guy. She defends him.

It feels so effing unfair man, I'm so heartbroken, I still love her. She says we're still bsf, but contact is minimal now. I have trust issues now. WHAT was so less in me? I'm pretty handsome.

I'll still be here for her, but man.. when we met, she was all shy, and I was too. We grew up with each other kind of. We met each other at a tough time in our life, and I never left her side. Always there to support her. If she had told me in time, that she liked me too, that'd have been really good!

This is confusing, I can't even write properly.

I still love her. She keeps on bringing that other girl (less than a month one-sided), and it's not fair.

TLDR;
I made an online best friend almost 2 years ago, and we became extremely close. We both developed feelings, but every time I asked her out, she said she wasn't ready, so I eventually accepted being just friends. Later, I developed a crush on someone else, and only then did my best friend confess—too late. We stayed friends, but things changed. She grew distant, found new guy friends, and eventually developed a crush on one of them. Now she barely talks to me, even though she still calls me her best friend. I'm still deeply attached and heartbroken because I stayed by her side through everything, imagined a future together, and can't stop wondering why I wasn't enough.

Hi everyone, idk if post requires age or smth (18M)

I want to gift something to my friend on her birthday, what would you suggest? It's going to be surprised so I cannot exactly ask her for suggestions 😭

I thinking of a perfume.. or a book (she doesn't read lol), or what(no idea 😭)

I have problems with anxious attachment.

I have bestfriend online, we are friends for like 1.5 years, we used to talk daily, and now she barely talks. I had practically begged for her attention, but I guess she has more friends than me.

My whole attention diverted towards here, even now, it's been 9 hours since she hasn't replied. We used to text so often.

I don't have friends IRL, just small chats and aquaintances.

Why do I get so attached

I'm not even comfortable with my own self. I have dealt with depression since I was 15, due to some chronic health problems, a friend's sui**de recently, and just loneliness, and now I have major issues and scared of attachment but still lonely. I am now 18 and still suffering. Sometimes I feel like I'm all alone, the world isn't kind.

I wanna have more friends, but attachment is so scary

I was lonely as a child, kinda autistic (self diagnosed lol), ADHD, and honestly a brilliant, now I'm just a depressed loser who smokes to release stress and academically below average. Everything is going down.

The loneliness never goes away, even when I have friends. It's just always there. I wear a bright wide smile in front of people, but when I'm alone, it's just empty inside of me. I can't focus on anything

Sorry,if I yapped too much.

Right now it is saying that last date is 8th june, is there any possibility that it might extend, maybe for 5 days more?

I think it is pretty cool, and there should be one for the Islamabad campus as well. Is there any available alternative?