u/pansycarn

I don't know what is overpriced and sucks or what is actually worth it and is durable and lasts for a long time. I throw this question to the masses lol

DISCLAIMER: There is no true one way to "pass" as nonbinary or agender. It is up to you and what feels right.

But for MY personal goal, it has always been to get people, especially random strangers, to not be able to know what I am, I think I pass.

It's a crapshoot on whether I get he or she'd in public, or cashiers saying "sir-uhhhh-ma'am uhhhh im so sorry" occasionally.

Several times, my housemate has reported being asked, "Which way is pansycarn transitioning?" by our wider circle of trans and queer friends. Or something along those lines. A more polite way of asking if I'm AMAB or AFAB lol.

The last four times I had a hookup, they have reported either being unsure what genitals I had until we got to that point or have straight up asked me what gear I had beforehand.

Sorry that this is a bragpost but it's been such slow progress it just kind of all hit me now. I'm really happy.

I got my mom into it and she convinced my very stoic dad after a couple months of talking it up. She told me he even stayed up past his bedtime reading, which she says she has not ever seen him do.

Princess Posse is too charismatic!

comments on my ancient ship art on dA from when I was 16