u/psycholover12

So on the left I was around 130-133lbs. I had just got back into working out after taking a year off so the left is 2 months back in the gym. I ended up taking a break February 2026 due to my severe back pain. I got on Reta to lose weight because I could tell I was getting fat. I bulked way too hard and just got.. fat. lol. So 6 months later and after taking Reta I’m now at 115lbs and I’m 2 weeks back into the gym. As you can tell I held on to muscle pretty good granted I do look a little “flat” because I haven’t worked out in 6 months and I lost weight but I still look great I feel like. I’m currently just eating at a maintenance and the goal is to put on size without getting fat again lmfaoooo.

I was talking to my fiance right now about how I’ve been feeling SO much more confident with the appearance of my stomach now that I started working out again (I took 6 months off due to a back Injury). I just got back into the gym 2 weeks ago but prior to those 2 weeks I’ve been doing deep core workouts. I didn’t realize how massive of a difference it’s made until I found the top picture. Like WHAT. I was literally about to drop several thousands on a tummy tuck because it was weighing so heavily on me. Like seriously I was crying all the time because I hated my stomach. Then I told myself you know what I’m going to give myself 2-3 more years I’m going to try toning up my stomach working out and then in 2-3 years if I still don’t feel happy then I’ll get the tummy tuck. Several people online told me the only way to fix my belly button and the surrounding skin that I despised was a tummy tuck but I’ve been able to achieve a noticeable difference just working out and I’ve been using tretinoin as well. Just wanted to share a small win I’ve made! I’m still going to continue working out my core and abs and I’ll see how far I can get. The goal is abs but that’s going to take awhile lol I cut down 20lbs now I’m 115lbs and going into a recomp/maintenance to grow muscle and lose fat.

So the photo on the right I was 10 months postpartum and I was around 130lbs. I was so unhappy with my body I was carrying majority of my weight in my midsection. I have always been a super thin and lean person but i gained quite a bit of weight from eating poorly. Now the photo on the left I'm 15 months postpartum I've leaned out of quite a bit and I've been working on my core health. I've also been more intentional with my eating and trying to eat healthier.
I'm also wanting to build up abs so l've been working on that as well still have a ways to go but I'm very happy with where I'm at right now. Minus my flabby crooked wonky belly button skin I posted in here the other day from my old belly button piercing 😂🙄

Hi ladies. I’m 15 months postpartum currently and I just hate how my body looks specifically my belly button. For starters I got my belly button pierced back in 2017ish after my first born. It ended up migrating and getting crooked as you can tell in this photo it makes it very obvious. It used to not be as obvious before I had my 2nd baby I actually had no idea it migrated until my piercer told me. Now that I had my 2nd it’s so obvious and that little sliver of skin just bugs me sometimes it’s more hanging / wrinkly it seems like it’s varies.. some points of the day it’s more wonky looking and other points of the day it’s not it’s really weird. I just hate it and I don’t know if it’s something that will get at least A little better with time. I’ve been doing deep core exercises. I also hate how my stomach looks like bulging like I’m holding more fat in my midsection and I’m only 115lbs idk if my core is still weak from the pregnancy or what. I used to be super flat before this pregnancy and now I’m not I want to be able to get back to that. How can I get back to that? I also have a stage 1-2 prolapse I’m not sure if that can play a factor in my stomach appearance. I added a photo of my stomach after my 1st baby

So I’ve been really depressed about my body since I had my daughter April 2025. I’m a mom of 2 after my first born I bounced back quick I had him in 2015. I did have stretch marks and they did bother me so I got my belly button pierced to kind of put a bandaid on the issue. The piercing migrated so it was crooked I took it out back in like 2018 so it’s been closed for a long time. then I got pregnant with my daughter. I didn’t overly gain weight or anything I gained like 20lbs. My belly button piercing naturally stretched and now it just looks awful. I also just hate the way my body looks in general my old stretch marks look just weird?? Not like they used to like more pronounced less smooth I guess? I thought about getting a tummy tuck but I don’t think I really even have loose skin necessarily I’m not sure though. I just hate how my stomach doesn’t look flat cause I’m literally only 117lbs I don’t know what more to do to get back to my body before. It’s depressing. So I’m wondering should I just get the belly button surgery to fix that or what do you guys think?

Keep the bob or grow my hair back out? I feel like it’s two diff vibes and I’m having a hard time choosing! 😭 I love both. Which looks better on me and my facial features?

So I had badly damaged hair to the point it was like literal straw, barley even tugging with zero effort on a strand it would break off I had alot of breakage underneath my hair. So I had to cut it and I was absolutely terrified to cut so much off but I actually love it! It’s definitely new for me having to figure out how to style it to look good especially the bangs. I do love it though and I feel like it accentuates my features so much more. I feel like my long hair even though I love it I feel like it elongates my face a bit. Anyways! Im obsessed and my fiancé loves it as well 🥰

So I have super damaged hair from a perm that I got in October. I chopped off a ton of hair in march & The perm is half grown out now with my current length. I would like to continue getting haircuts to cut off the perm as my hair grows. I would like to cut off more like the pictures on the right just to get more of it off because I’m getting tired of constantly having to eat style my hair every day and the more hair I have the longer it takes to heat style especially with it being so poofy and frizzy from the perm. I just don’t know if it’d look good on me. Would the shorter hair on the right suit me or should I keep my current length. Photos of me on the left is my current length

Okay so I got a perm back in October 2025 it was done bad it made alot of my hair fall off and feel like straw. It was also curlier than I wanted. I before had very long beautiful hair. Back in March I cut off quite a bit of my hair and she pretty much botched my haircut. Now I want to cut off more hair to make it easier to style (cut off more damaged perm which means less time having to straighten it because this part makes me so unmotivated it takes forever to straighten it) and just get rid of the excess damage as much as possible without going too short. The length I’m at right now the perm is grown out about half way. I’ll add in my current length and what I’m wanting. I just don’t know what would be flattering I don’t want to look like a young boy lol I want to look feminine, cute, and not unflattering that is my biggest fear. I just need some help! Please :(

I have these 2 pairs of size 40 GG. The sabots are brand new I only wore them once. I bought both of these pairs off ppl. Both are unfortunately too big and I don’t know what to do with them. I have both cross posted on several platforms and unfortunately have gotten no bites. I paid $600 for the sabots and 299 for the ballstars and I just want to at least get close to making my money back. Any advice on what I can do? Is there a website that buys shoes off you and gives you at least somewhat of a good payout? I just don’t want to have them sitting here collecting dust.

I ordered this item on the 12th on the 15th she still hadn’t shipped I didn’t think anything of it really. Poshmark then emailed me on the 15th saying they reminded her to ship the item. Well an hour after that email at 5pm I got a notification that the order had been shipped. It’s now the 18th and there’s been zero updates on the tracking. I’m just confused. Especially because she has great reviews, she’s active every day , and it says she’s a posh ambassador lol doesn’t that mean they’re supposed to provide good customer service and quick shipping?

I bought these used off someone for $350 (box says they were bought from Nordstrom so they are legit) there’s some imperfections. Scuffs and scratches in the patent leather. I’m just curious if this could be fixed by a cobbler. I do plan on getting the red soles redone but I’m just curious about everything else.

I plan on purchasing the So Kate’s from Doris and I’m wondering if anyone has gotten them repped well?