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I (and my partner to some degree) have had a close, completely platonic dynamic with a teenage boy for a while. We’ve always had intense telepathy , i can usually feel when he’s not okay, or pick up on what he’s thinking/feeling without him saying anything. Being around him and helping him out feels energetically good for me too.
A few months ago he started texting an older woman. Almost immediately I started feeling strange, uneasy and had panic attacks. I tried warning him to be careful, but he didn’t really take it seriously. She ended up causing a lot of chaos for him.
I’ve noticed a pattern now: every time he talks to someone new, it follows the same script — love-bombing, oversharing and concern within a week, “I like you so much,” etc. Whenever this starts happening, and especially when I get the strong intuition that the person isn’t good for him, I get psychically attacked. I just start feeling terrible and crying for no reason. It’s to the point i cannot function on some days.

I’m looking for practical ways to protect myself so I’m not constantly taking on this energetic hit and also i want to under why this is happening as it’s not happened with anyone else to this degree.
Has anyone dealt with something like this?

I (and my partner to some degree) have had a close, completely platonic with a teenage boy for a while. We’ve always had intense telepathy , i can usually feel when he’s not okay, or pick up on what he’s thinking/feeling without him saying anything. Being around him and helping him out feels energetically good for me too.
A few months ago he started texting an older woman. Almost immediately I started feeling strange, uneasy and had panic attacks. I tried warning him to be careful, but he didn’t really take it seriously. She ended up causing a lot of chaos for him.
I’ve noticed a pattern now: every time he talks to someone new, it follows the same script — love-bombing, oversharing and concern within a week, “I like you so much,” etc. Whenever this starts happening, and especially when I get the strong intuition that the person isn’t good for him, I get psychically attacked. I just start feeling terrible and crying for no reason. It’s to the point i cannot function on some days.

I’m looking for practical ways to protect myself so I’m not constantly taking on this energetic hit and also i want to under why this is happening as it’s not happened with anyone else to this degree.
Has anyone dealt with something like this?

I know I’m being psychically attacked. I can constantly feel it. I feel the strange heaviness. I recently felt something heavy on me and it leaving me. I get weird feelings of being choked and constant gag reflexes. I get sleep paralysis. My partner and i lost our cat. I get random panic attacks. I go to a therapist but he believes it’s my brain trying to make sense of things. I posted about this issue on the energy work subReddit and got banned for posting about it a couple of times. There is a huge backstory with a psychic landlady threatening us. All of the crazy things started then.
I was helping out a kid and things started to get really bad for me.
I feel really really alone and honestly scared. I feel like i need an exorcism. I need to talk to someone who understands this and can help.

I’ve been helping a boy through his final year of high school as he’s from a terrible family. His father is an abusive alcoholic and his mother hasn’t been in their lives. I helped him with tutoring and paying his school fees. My bf and I tried to give our spare room during his exams and our land lady told my BF that she’s a psychic and she feels that we’re having an affair and that he’s a dangerous person.
I’ve now been raising funds for his college and things have been getting worse.
Everyone in my life who don’t even know him are saying they get an off vibe
My partner who was always supportive says he feels like a bad vibe around him now. Our flatmate says he feels terrible whenever the boy comes even if he’s unaware that the boy has come over. My close intuitive friend randomly texted me saying she gets a bad feeling about me helping him.
Ever since I started to help him things have become worse for me.
I have to note that I used to not feel drained or negative around this boy in-fact I used to feel nice helping him but recently I’m feeling very anxious around him.

Ever since I started to help or I’ve been trying to improve his life things have gotten so messy and a lot of weird energy is at play cause I’m constantly affected by it. If he’s not okay I don’t feel okay. The past 15 days I’m getting nightmares and sleep paralysis and I’m constantly throwing up.
Please help me make sense of this

I’ve been helping a boy through his final year of high school as he’s from a terrible family. His father is an abusive alcoholic and his mother hasn’t been in their lives. I helped him with tutoring and paying his school fees. My bf and I tried to give our spare room during his exams and our land lady told my BF that she’s a psychic and she feels that we’re having an affair and that he’s a dangerous person.
I’ve now been raising funds for his college and things have been getting worse.
Everyone in my life who don’t even know him are saying they get an off vibe
My partner who was always supportive says he feels like a bad vibe around him now. Our flatmate says he feels terrible whenever the boy comes even if he’s unaware that the boy has come over. My close intuitive friend randomly texted me saying she gets a bad feeling about me helping him.
Ever since I started to help him things have become worse for me.
I have to note that I used to not feel drained or negative around this boy in-fact I used to feel nice helping him but recently I’m feeling very anxious around him.

Ever since I started to help or I’ve been trying to improve his life things have gotten so messy and a lot of weird energy is at play cause I’m constantly affected by it. If he’s not okay I don’t feel okay. The past 15 days I’m getting nightmares and sleep paralysis and I’m constantly throwing up.
Please help me make sense of this

My partner 29 M (dx ADHD and ASD ) and I 29 F have been together for 10 years. In the beginning he straight up was very narcissistic and made a lot of enemies in college where we both met. Over the years things have been so challenging that I have now become a very angry person and I’m completely not myself around him. He is quite empathetic when I tell him how others hurt me but there are a lot of double standards when I’ve told him I’m hurt by him. Whenever I share an opinion about something he disagrees for the sake of disagreement without even thinking about a topic. Almost all positive changes I’ve seen over the years are because I have had to repeatedly bring it up and at this point I feel exhausted, tired and devoid of emotion towards him. He now has a problem because I’m caring and empathetic to everyone else but him and speaks of it as though he hasn’t led to this dynamic. I have wanted to leave but at times I’ve felt that he will not be okay at all and I’ll be blamed for it and also in some ways I’ve been dependant on him when I was chronically ill. I feel constantly heavy and low when I’m around him which I don’t feel otherwise. He’s very optimistic about working on the relationship and how everything will be okay though it hasn’t been. I now feel close to nothing for this person as I’ve been hurt way too much and now I’m made into the villain. Does anyone else feel the same?

I teach 8th and 9th grade in one of the most popular (and supposedly “premium”) schools in Bangalore. I joined this year with 2 years of prior experience and I’m getting paid ₹35.5k per month.
My daily schedule: Leave home at 7:30 AM and usually reach back by 6 PM. I handle 4 sections with around 70 students each. Saturdays are also working days and I get home only around 4 PM.
It’s been just a month and a half and I’m already completely burnt out as I have other health issues. On top of regular teaching, we have to:
Act as coordinators for different clubs and subjects,
Do endless documentation, Write lesson plans, Conduct tests after every chapter, Prepare for festivals, events, feasts etc.

The students are quite disrespectful and managing 70 kids in one class is extremely difficult. Motivation is hitting rock bottom. There are also quite a few neurodivergent kids who clearly need more support, but with these numbers it’s impossible to give them the attention they deserve.
The pay feels really low for the workload, especially for a school with such a big name.
Is it unreasonable to expect better pay and slightly saner working conditions? I’m in my late 20s and honestly don’t know how long I can sustain this. Already thinking of quitting.

Fellow teachers (Bangalore schools) how is your experience? Is this the norm? Any advice on whether to stick it out or look for other options since it’s also the middle of school year.
Would really appreciate honest replies. Thanks!

I’ve (29f) been helping a boy (18) through his final year of high school as he’s from a terrible family. His father is an abusive alcoholic and his mother hasn’t been in their lives. I helped him with tutoring and paying his school fees. Things became quite chaotic for me at work soon after. His gf accused him of having an affair with me. My bf and I tried to give our spare room during his exams and our land lady told my BF that she’s a psychic and she feels that we’re having an affair. I’ve now been raising funds for his college and things have been getting worse.
Soon after she said this things have been terrible (she’s probably sending negative energy because my bf did not believe her). Things have been crazy we constantly have friction with our other flatmate. Our pet cat died. Now in the last week my bf and I are having constant fights about this boy and in general too. My mental health has been tanking. Ever since I started to help him things have become worse for me.
I have to note that I dont feel drained or negative around this boy in-fact I feel nice helping him. He’s very distant and quiet with everyone else. But he’s very helpful, kind and caring with me as he feels no one else has cared to help him out. I have always had a platonic dynamic with him but also a very close dynamic.
Ever since I started to help or I’ve been trying to improve his life things have gotten so messy and a lot of weird energy is at play cause I’m constantly affected by it.
Please help me make sense of this

I’ve (29f) been helping a boy (18) through his final year of high school as he’s from a terrible family. His father is an abusive alcoholic and his mother hasn’t been in their lives. I helped him with tutoring and paying his school fees. Things became quite chaotic for me at work soon after. His gf accused him of having an affair with me. My bf and I tried to give our spare room during his exams and our land lady told my BF that she’s a psychic and she feels that we’re having an affair. I’ve now been raising funds for his college and things have been getting worse.
Soon after she said this things have been terrible (she’s probably sending negative energy because my bf did not believe her). Things have been crazy we constantly have friction with our other flatmate. Our pet cat died. Now in the last week my bf and I are having constant fights about this boy and in general too. My mental health has been tanking. Ever since I started to help him things have become worse for me.
I have to note that I dont feel drained or negative around this boy in-fact I feel nice helping him. He’s very distant and quiet with everyone else. But he’s very helpful, kind and caring with me as he feels no one else has cared to help him out. I have always had a platonic dynamic with him but also a very close dynamic.
Ever since I started to help or I’ve been trying to improve his life things have gotten so messy and a lot of weird energy is at play cause I’m constantly affected by it.
Please help me make sense of this

My partner and i have been together for almost a decade. And things were okay and we’ve always handled things better than the people around us (which some of them have told us). But we had some unresolved resentments which were getting better through therapy and understanding their autism/neurodivergence.
3 years ago i started having intense negative thoughts about him and the fights grew. The intensity of the fights was out of nowhere but they were about the relational challenges that already made me unhappy. 2 energy healers told me i had an entity attachment and they were able to help a little. They said i had the entity attachment but these “episodes” that i had only showed up in our relationship.
But even now i get sudden intense angry thoughts about my partner which i know is not me and fueled by these negative energies. I do not feel this way at all outside of the relationship context. How do i know if it’s the entities that are causing this or if the relationship is not right for me? Over the 3 years I’ve grown extremely distant with my partner and there’s no intimacy and warmth.
One energy healer just said i could marry my partner as they’re a good person. I’m having difficulty seeing if it’s the entities causing this or the relationship is doomed. We have always had some or the other external issues that’s caused us these issues.
Any advice on what I can do would be appreciated

My partner and i have been together for almost a decade. And things were okay and we’ve always handled things better than the people around us (which some of them have told us). But we had some unresolved resentments which were getting better through therapy and understanding their autism/neurodivergence. 3 years ago i started having intense negative thoughts about him and the fights grew. The intensity of the fights was out of nowhere but they were about the relational challenges that already made me unhappy. 2 energy healers told me i had an entity attachment and they were able to help a little. They said i had the entity attachment but these “episodes” that i had only showed up in our relationship. But even now i get sudden intense angry thoughts about my partner which i know is not me and fueled by these negative energies. I do not feel this way at all outside of the relationship context. How do i know if it’s the entities that are causing this or if the relationship is not right for me? Over the 3 years I’ve grown extremely distant with my partner and there’s no intimacy and warmth. One energy healer just said i could marry my partner as they’re a good person. Any advice on what I can do would be appreciated