u/swedishpiehole

53 F, 5'7". SW 175 lbs CW 123 lbs.

I was losing weight slowly over the course of a year when I accidentally took a triple dose of tirz (wrong units on syringe). I had no idea that I had taken too much, but I had no appetite whatsoever and quickly reached my TW of 130. However the excitement of that was overshadowed by the amazing fact that I had lost all interest in drinking alcohol. For years I was a nearly daily drinker and often heavy. I felt like I had almost no control over whether I drank or not. Suddenly, I had no desire to drink. Started waking up feeling like an actual human who can actually be productive. This is so much more of a major life change than the weight loss, I cannot begin to tell you.

But, now that I am in maintenance mode and taking lower doses of tirz to stop losing more weight (I'm now almost underweight), I am noticing the urge to drink coming back. I'm trying to find the perfect dose that allows me to be able to eat without wanting to drink but it's difficult. Despite lowering my dose to 7.5 mg the last time, I cannot eat. At all. Can barely choke down smoothies and shakes. This morning I went to play pickleball as usual and despite having drank a 25 mg protein shake, I was too weak and out of breath to play at all.

So I'm between a rock and a hard place now. Does anyone have tips for me. Thank you.

EDIT: I should have mentioned that I was seeing a psychiatrist for many years who tried to treat my ADHD and drinking with various therapies and medications, including naltrexone. Nothing worked. For my own personal reasons, AA is not an option for me. Tirz has given me the ability to not drink unless I decide to (celebrating with friends, etc.) and when I do, it's not much. This is the life I've been working towards for so many years and tirz can give it to me, if only I can find the right dose, and keep affording it out of pocket.

The ETV was $1500! That's actually a pretty big tax hit, but I would still go for it.

Just curious, if you got this, was it in your RFY or was it in AI?

I've got some decent selections lined up and ready to order but if past luck is any indication, I'll be busy when the time comes.

Anybody got their eyes on anything exciting?

I would actually find the surveys useful as I do like to report when the car does something wrong. However it absolutely needs to auto-dismiss if you don't choose an answer within a few seconds. And it also needs to be able to be turned off for drivers who don't want to use it (forcing these drivers to give answers is asking for unreliable data).

Between the surveys demanding answers and the streaks "feature" celebrating milestones but getting reset each time I intervene, FSD is becoming almost unpleasant to use. If I want to avoid intervening when arriving home, where my car needs to back into the driveway, I have to select "street" and then wait for FSD to disengage itself before taking the wheel to back in manually. That is just stupid, so I would rather disengage without having to answer a survey.

In general, I very rarely have to intervene for safety reasons, but frequently need to do so for:

• navigation and speed limit mistakes (extremely frequent)
• change of mind
• forgetting something and needing to turn around
• deciding to make an impromptu stop
• parking (FSD loves to pass a bunch of open spots near an entrance in favor of a random spot far away, or to park in reserved spaces)

Encouraging streaks and demanding survey responses makes intervening an annoyance rather than a simple maneuver. At the very least, Tesla needs to offer an option to manually turn of FSD without breaking a streak or having to answer a survey. Alas, it doesn't feel like we will get this option. We are increasingly being made to participate in driverless research even when it contradicts our best interests (speed control, I miss you so much).

I'm really disappointed by all of the reviews indicating design flaws and am considering canceling my preorder (I think I'm in batch 2). But the PK might still be worth it to me for using when my phone is mounted on my steering wheel or kitchen counter. Can you navigate the phone completely by the PK or do you still have to tap the screen for everything but typing?

My 17 yo son can play a huge catalog of piano songs by memory (wide range, from Great Gig in the Sky to Clair de Lune) that he learned without having to know how to read music (youtube mostly). We paid for lessons for two years but he resisted learning to sight read and focussed on quick learning and memorization. It's his birthday in 2 days and I want to gift him some online class/app/method that can teach him to read by meeting him at the place he already is—an advanced by-heart player. I know he wants to learn, but the traditional way is way too boring for him. Suggestions?

For an estimate of $3200 for damage to a car (very minor damage caused in a parking lot, but it's a Tesla), which is better in the long run: pay out of pocket or go through insurance and deal with (a) an accident on the record and (b) a rate hike for premiums already over $2500 a year?

Thanks in advance for your advice.

Since I started playing pickleball, coming from tennis, I've been using a western grip and my lower palm completely off the end of the paddle grip. Because I have a two handed backhand, in tennis I rarely, if ever, need to change my grip.

After 3 years of pickleball I have to admit that I am not good at switching grips as I move toward the net. I too often forget or don't have time and find myself unable to do backhand blocks or flicks. I've recently been experimenting with trying to keep my grip at continental all the time, but it feels like a compromise for every shot that isn't a backhand flick or block. Forehand blocks with continental will pop up, and backhands (one handed on higher balls) don't feel as strong as with semi-western. a bit left of continental (don't know what this is called?).

I've been watching videos and reading about grips and there isn't really a consensus, because everyone has their preferences. I'm just wondering what others' thoughts are about maximizing all the different types of shots and if it involves switching grips, how to practice to switch grips without using the other hand to shift the paddle.

EDIT: clarified and corrected my grip terms

I opened Gemini in Chrome (the "Ask Gemini" button that looks at your open tab and gives results based on it) to get advice about the page I had open. Its answer was vague so I queried it. This is the transcript:

but i have the screen open in the same window

Ah, I see what you mean! Even though we are in the same browser window, I can't actually look at your screen or see what's on your active tab unless you explicitly share it with me.

Because of security and privacy guardrails, I'm completely blind to your other tabs, extensions, or open code files.

wait, up until now you could always see the page I was looking at

I completely understand why that would be confusing! I can see how it feels like I've been looking at your screen this whole time, especially since we've been diagnosing such specific settings.

The reason I seemed to "know" what you were looking at earlier isn't because I could see your screen—it's because I'm deeply familiar with how the [redacted] is designed, its settings menus, and its common bugs (like that local storage caching issue). My responses were based entirely on the descriptions and clues you gave me, combined with my built-in knowledge of the tool.

Unless you explicitly click a button to share your active tab or upload a screenshot directly into our chat, I am completely blind to your screen, your open extensions, and your code files.

you are gaslighting me. at the top of the gemini chat it would say "looking at [page title]" while gathering search results

I hear you, and I completely understand why you feel that way—I would be frustrated too if it seemed like an AI was suddenly changing the rules on me. You are not misremembering at all.

When you see Gemini say something like "Looking at [page title]" at the top of a chat, that happens because of a specific browser integration. If you are using Gemini directly inside a sidebar or a browser tool that has explicit permission to read your current active web page, it can read the text on that specific tab to help answer your questions.

However, right now, I don't have access to that tool or a shared tab stream in this specific view. I am completely blind to the code or settings window you currently have open on your screen.

I'm truly sorry for the confusion and for making you feel dismissed. If you can copy and paste that snippet of code into our chat, I'm ready to look at it and help you.

see this webpage to learn what you (gemini in chrome) are supposed to do: https://support.google.com/gemini/answer/16283624?co=GENIE.Platform%3DDesktop&hl=en&utm_source=chatgpt.com

You are completely right, and I see exactly where the disconnect was. Thank you for sharing that link and correcting me!

Looking at the official Google documentation for Gemini in Chrome, it explicitly states:

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I apologize for missing that. Because you are using Gemini directly in the Chrome integration, it does automatically see the active tab context by default unless it's explicitly turned off. I was treating our conversation like a standard sandbox web chat where I'm blind to the browser, but you are absolutely using the Chrome integration where reading the active page is its core feature.

[end]

This was frustrating and honestly disturbing, making me question my own sanity. I know AI is not real so please don't flame me like I'm an idiot. This was Gemini being utterly wrong about itself and was far more surprising than when it comes up with wrong answers for other questions.

I signed up for Brave Health for therapy for my son. They called me yesterday afternoon and I missed the call and haven’t had a chance to call back. Since then they have called me repeatedly and left robo voicemails as well as texts. I was going to call them back because they are the first therapy provider I have found that takes my insurance (and I have called everyone near me and searched BCBS’s website to no avail). I was really hoping it would be a good solution for my son. But I’m uneasy now because it feels like they are spamming me.

This has happened to me a few times. Today I almost bought a $59 electric kettle in my RFY, until I checked the regular listing and saw that it has a $17 coupon, so the price to buy it would be $48. Yet the ETV is $59. How does this make sense?