▲ 11 r/PointeHelp+1 crossposts

Just got my second pair of shoes and i kinda hate them...

So ive been on pointe for about 10 months now, and i've been dancing on the same shoe for about 9½ of those months. That shoe is now dead. I went to the fitter and they said the wings of my shoe had completely detached from the shank, or that area. I tried on maybe 3 pairs before landing on my new shoe, vertisse's dahlia shoe. I really loved my old shoes, they made my feet look pretty, and just felt good, so i tried on my old shoe, and then tried on one ¼ of an inch wider or something. The fitter sent me to a diffrence location and the fitter at the second location made me try on 3 diffrent vertisse shoes. The first one i couldn't even get on, the second i couldnt feel the floor, and the third is the one we ended uo purchasing. They looked and felt good in the store, but once i put them on in pointe class, they hurt more than my dead shoes and i felt like i was sinking in brand-new shoes. The box was also really soft and i was going over the box. Does anyone have any advise as to what i could do? I can't afford a new pair of shoes, and i've already tried jet gluing.

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u/the_spurs-loving_bal — 10 days ago

My friend is rude to me sometimes

So i have this friend at school, and I've known her since like first or second grade. She's always been kinda rude to me and we've almost always been off and on. She's always giving me backhanded compliments and saying stuff thats… wierd ig? Like she's always telling me "when I look at your style and then your room, its like not what i would expect. Like your so grunge and tomboyish and your rooms so girly." I painted my room purple when i was 7, and i am still in the process of redecorating it. I personally love my room and when she told me this, she hadn't been in my room for like almost a year. On my birthday, she gave me a birthday card telling me that she'll always love me even if I'm a pain. She also is just kind of wierd when i tell her my struggles with speaking spanish. I'm mexican, but I didn't learn spanish till I was 5, and my parents never spoke spanish to me so I never really got to practice. I would tell her stuff like "I don't like speaking spanish because i can-t really get the accent right and I sound like an american going to mexico for the first time (no offense)" and she would respond with stuff like "could never be me."

I am nonbinary, and it took me 3 times to finally get her to grasp the fact that I am non-binary and go by they/them pronouns. But she still calles me girly and never really pays attention to my pronouns. She even signed my yearbook saying "love you, girly!" I do ballet, and i have a very busy schedule, but i still try to hangout with my friends whenever i can. But i don't think that she sees that because she and another girl we hangout with go over to her house alot, and it seems that i'm never invited. She didn't even ask to see if I had the day off (a couple of times I did). They also left me behind at school. Usually, me, her, and the other girl walk to the public library near my school together. The day that I got left behind, we got released from school at diffrent times and I had to get my cello music from the music room. She sent me the first text saying "where the heck are you?" I replied with "the bell barely rang hold on" she said "girl we're already halfway there" i followed up by asking why they didnt think to wait for me and stuff. She basically said that it was because I leave them behind. Which, by leave them behind, I tried telling them that I was leaving 3 times but they didn't listen to me so the both of them walked to the library together. They also have inside jokes and when I ask what they mean she responds with "its nothing" or "you wouldny understand because you were an ipad kid" instead of explaining them to me.

What should I do? I feel like I would miss her if we stopped being friends, but i have some other friends that are way nicer to me and include me even though i barely met them in 6th grade.

Sorry yall had to read all that, i have alot to say ❤️

Edit: the pics are the same, i accidentally aded 2

u/the_spurs-loving_bal — 2 months ago

I think my parents know i'm non binary

The reason? I have bracelets that say my name and non binary. I also have a non binary, leabian, and rainbow kandi cuffs. I usually hide them, but i took a nap today and accidentally left them on the couch. My mom asked about them and asked if they were mine, and what they meant. I said that some were for a friend, but i don't think she bought it. My parents arent homophobic or transphobic or anything, but I'm still figuring myself out . I dont know what to do.

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u/the_spurs-loving_bal — 3 months ago

I think my parents know i'm non binary

The reason? I have bracelets that say my name and non binary. I also have a non binary, leabian, and rainbow kandi cuffs. I usually hide them, but i took a nap today and accidentally left them on the couch. My mom asked about them and asked if they were mine, and what they meant. I said that some were for a friend, but i don't think she bought it. My parents arent homophobic or transphobic or anything, but I'm still figuring myself out . I dont know what to do.

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u/the_spurs-loving_bal — 3 months ago
▲ 14 r/GenBeta

How does this subreddit work?

Genuinely, how does this subreddit work when gen beta starts at 2025? My gen beta neice (born 2025) cant even talk yet! The oldest gen beta is 1 year and 7 months old

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u/the_spurs-loving_bal — 3 months ago

Is 13 old enough for a MCR concert?

So mcr is coming to San Antonio in September, and I REALLY wanna go. I'm worried if I will be too young. I wouldn't go alone, I would go with my mom or (hopefully) my amazing cousin (whos 19). My apologies if thsi question has been asked before.

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u/the_spurs-loving_bal — 3 months ago
▲ 11 r/Pride_and_Positivity+1 crossposts

Does a pride flag exist for non-binary people that only like women/men/other non-binarys?

I'm non-binary, and questioning right now. But i feel like non-binary people shouldnt have to use the lesbian flag or the gay man pride flag because theres not another option. If you only like women, there should be a flag for non-binary people that solely like women, so that we dont have to use the lesbian pride flag.

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u/the_spurs-loving_bal — 4 months ago
▲ 17 r/911FOX

S3E5 13:45

This episode really reminded me how bad racism is right now. I also think that Athena is in the wrong for defending the cops that wrongfully pulled a gun out on a family. And this isnt a new problem either. My family is mexican and before I was born, in like the early 2000s, my parents got pulled over for no valid reason. Tell me your thoughts please.

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u/the_spurs-loving_bal — 4 months ago
▲ 12 r/BALLET

What was the first variation you learned en pointe, and what was your experience?

I just learned my first variation en pointe yesterday! It hurt a lot, and had a lot of bourres (it was the prayer variation from copellia). Im curious to hear your story!

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u/the_spurs-loving_bal — 4 months ago
▲ 2 r/BALLET

When to buy a new pair of pointe shoes?

I've only been en pointe for a couple of months, (since the end of october), and my shoes are still hard. All my friends shoes are rly soft, amd theyre all on their 2nd pair of shoes. I asked my teacher if i should get new ones, because i didnt know if they were dead or not (since theyre my 1st pair). She said they were still hard, but to consider getting fit for a new pair. She said that she didnt want me to go to the summer intensive that i am going to and have to dance on dead shoes. But idk if i should hold off on getting a new paid because idk for how long these shoes will last, or if my feet will grow.

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u/the_spurs-loving_bal — 4 months ago

What are some paranormal experiences that have happened to you in San Antonio?

I love the paranormal, and I want to hear your experiences. Whether it's UFO sighting (not wemby 👽), ghosts, or anything similar, i want to hear it. Don't hesitate to add any stories passed down from generation to generation!

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u/the_spurs-loving_bal — 5 months ago

San Antonio's version of whatsername

Thought I ran into you on commerce street Then it turned out to only be a dream I made a point to go honking after the spurs won last night Wemby went away, and then spurs took a different path I remember the face, but I can't recall the full name Now I wonder how Whatshisname has been Seems that he disappeared without a trace Did he ever get traded ol' Whatshisface? I made a point to honking after the spurs won last night Wemby went away, and then spurs took a different path I remember the face, but I can't recall the full name Now I wonder how Whathisname has been Remember, whatever It seems like forever ago Remember, whatever It seems like forever ago (Remember) the regrets (Whatever) are useless in my mind (It seems like forever ago) he's in my head, I must confess (Remember) the regrets (Whatever) are useless in my mind (It seems like forever ago) he's in my head, so long ago Go, go, go, go Go, go, go, go, go And in the darkest night If my memory serves me right I'll never turn back time Forgetting you, but not the time we won the western conference semi-finals

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u/the_spurs-loving_bal — 5 months ago

San Antonio's version of Whatsername by Green Day

Thought I ran into you on commerce street Then it turned out to only be a dream I made a point to go honking after the spurs won last night Wemby went away, and then spurs took a different path I remember the face, but I can't recall the full name Now I wonder how Whatshisname has been Seems that he disappeared without a trace Did she ever get traded for ol' Whatshisteam? I made a point to honking after the spurs won last night Wemby went away, and then spurs took a different path I remember the face, but I can't recall the full name Now I wonder how Whatshisname has been Remember, whatever It seems like forever ago Remember, whatever It seems like forever ago (Remember) the regrets (Whatever) are useless in my mind (It seems like forever ago) he's in my head, I must confess (Remember) the regrets (Whatever) are useless in my mind (It seems like forever ago) he's in my head, so long ago Go, go, go, go Go, go, go, go, go And in the darkest night If my memory serves me right I'll never turn back time Forgetting you, but not the time we won the western conference semi-finals

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u/the_spurs-loving_bal — 5 months ago
▲ 1 r/doublebass+1 crossposts

Tips for transitioning from cello to bass

I've played the cello for 2 years, and I am getting bored of it. When I first started with my cello, I knew that I would eventually transition to bass, I just wanted to learn how to read bass clef. I just got fitted for a bass, and I found out that the strings are diffrent. Any tips on how to get used to bass and how to put my cello skills to good use on my bass?

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u/the_spurs-loving_bal — 5 months ago