u/tuxedocatmum

35 F4M from nova scotia looking for someone to connect with

Hello all

35F here looking for a childfree person

About me

5'3 brown hair blue eyes smaller build

I love animals I ahve a dog and a cat. I have been riding horses for 30 years. My dream is to have a homestead farm with horses, chickens and all kinds of animals. I am going back to school for medical office administration after taking some time off from working for myself

some may consider me boring because I don't drink or smoke. my idea of fun isnt going to a bar drinking. its exploring museums, seeing concerts or going bowling. ​

I am a huge hockey fan, I love to read, knit, skate, ski and ride horses

music preference are rock mostly.

i like bands such as

three days grace, mcr, green day, tom Macdonald, yungblud, and many others

movies— i like all kinds but I love lotr ( j am a bit nerdy that way)

Looking for someone between ages 30-35(ish)

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u/tuxedocatmum — 12 days ago
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35[F4M] canadain looking for a childfree partner

Hello all

35F from Canada here looking for a childfree person

About me

5'3 brown hair blue eyes smaller build

I love animals I ahve a dog and a cat. I have been riding horses for 30 years. My dream is to have a homestead farm with horses, chickens and all kinds of animals. I am going back to school for medical office administration after taking some time off from working for myself

some may consider me boring because I don't drink or smoke. my idea of fun isnt going to a bar drinking. its exploring museums, seeing concerts or going bowling. ​

I am a huge hockey fan, I love to read, knit, skate, ski and ride horses

music preference are rock mostly.

i like bands such as

three days grace, mcr, green day, tom Macdonald, yungblud, and many others

movies— i like all kinds but I love lotr ( j am a bit nerdy that way)

Looking for someone between ages 30-35(ish)

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u/tuxedocatmum — 13 days ago

My [35 F] husband [30 M] constantly fjght snd feel disconnected

Tldr— husband and I fight a lot due mostly to my adhd and I feel very disconnected

please don't dm me asking questions— please ask here

So for starters we live apart right now due to him going to school in another country

For the last few months it seems as if we're really disconnected. Even when we talk on the phone there's not much talking. And if we do talk it turns to an argument ( usualy cause of my adhd) I find myself not missing him, and not really wanting him to come back​. Yet, the first few days hes back I am glad but after that I want him to go and i need my space

It may be worth noteing I am dismissive avoidant and hes anxious.

I do not like confrontation unless I started it ( dopamine ​) i am seeing a theripest for my adhd.

But I just feel as if we have lost our connection.. is this normal?

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u/tuxedocatmum — 13 days ago

Saddle covers

Hello all. I am looking to make saddle covers with one side being water proof. Being horse people do you think this is something that you would like? ( starting off with English and Dressage covers first) ( I am in Canada just as an fyi)

I can do diffrent patterns on the outside and inside and put the barn name or your name or horses name on the cover

I am just looking to have it as a small business nothing huge

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u/tuxedocatmum — 14 days ago

So I have fairly bad psoriasis on my scalp. The only thing that has worked is medicated shampoo. I am wondering if anyone knows of a colour safe shampoo that also will help. Also if not will the shampoo strip the colour out fast?

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u/tuxedocatmum — 17 days ago

Being childfree and following Jesus

Something I wonder — is it ok to be childfree and follow Jesus. I read in the Bible that you must be fruitful and multiply .. but i though that ment that you had to bring more people to jesus.

Also if you are childfree do you also find it hard to find people who are followers of jesus and childfree

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u/tuxedocatmum — 18 days ago

Still looking into homestedding

So I have a gluten and lactose intolerance. I was wondering if its even possible to do gluten free and still be self sustainable.

Also, does anyone home sted in colder areas? If so what do you do during the winter?

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u/tuxedocatmum — 18 days ago

If you like hockey, animals, reading, skating and a bit nerdy . Bonus if you are childfree Send me a message..

I love lord of the rings and Harry potter.

I like music like. Queen, three days grace, green. Day, tom Macdonald and more

I am fairly active as i like to skate and ride horses.

I am heading back to school for medical office administration, I also used to run my own business before covid

I am a HUGE Hockey fan ( canes and oilers) feel free to comment if you want to chat

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u/tuxedocatmum — 20 days ago

I am 100% childfree

If you like hockey, animals, reading, skating and a bit nerdy . Send me a message.. my preferd age range would be 30-35

I love lord of the rings and Harry potter.

I like music like. Queen, three days grace, green. Day, tom Macdonald and more

I am fairly active as i like to skate and ride horses.

I am heading back to school for medical office administration, I also used to run my own business before covid

I am a HUGE Hockey fan ( canes and oilers) feel free to comment if you want to chat

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u/tuxedocatmum — 20 days ago
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If you like hockey, animals, reading, skating and a bit nerdy . Send me a message..

I love lord of the rings and Harry potter.

I like music like. Queen, three days grace, green. Day, tom Macdonald and more

I am fairly active as i like to skate and ride horses.

I am heading back to school for medical office administration, I also used to run my own business before covid

I am a HUGE Hockey fan ( canes and oilers ) feel free to comment if you want to chat

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u/tuxedocatmum — 20 days ago

If you like hockey, animals, reading, skating and a bit nerdy . Send me a message..

I love lord of the rings and Harry potter.

I like music like. Queen, three days grace, green. Day, tom Macdonald and more

I am fairly active as i like to skate and ride horses.

I am heading back to school for medical office administration, I also used to run my own business before covid

I am a HUGE Hockey fan ( canes and oilers ...i kno i know they were eleminated but i stilllike them) feel free to comment /DM if you want to chat

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u/tuxedocatmum — 20 days ago

So I don't have peas yet. But I am wondering what setup i need to raise snails and any other food a group of puffers may like. I am new to Peas but not new to fish tanks . So any info you can give me would be great. Should I get a 5 gal? Also I am open to any YouTube channels that might help ​

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u/tuxedocatmum — 20 days ago

So I am getting this 35 gal tank in a few weeks

I am wondering if its ok for peas? If so how many could I put in it?

u/tuxedocatmum — 21 days ago
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Found this 30 oz steeper at dollar store for $5.00 !!! First cup was a yourkshire loose leave tea!

u/tuxedocatmum — 21 days ago

Hello all

So back ground i had a blood clot in my left leg and now my leg swells a bit.

I unfortunately can't get my half chaps zipped up when they do. But if I go a size up they won't fit my other leg. For reference I am a slimmer build and need slim boots / half chaps.

Should I buy a size up or what would be best ?

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u/tuxedocatmum — 23 days ago

So I am planing on going to England summer or autumn 2027. Please note I am going to see family. They are in. Kimberly, Nottingham, derby,ilikson. And i have a friend i am seeing in bedford. * i will have access to a car or family will take me*

I already have a plan to go to London and do a couple other things but I am wondering what else I should do.Also, I won't have a car and may spend 2 days in London

My itinerary so far is

10-14 days in England

2-3 days in London

London

British museum Royal air force museum Harry potter studios Natural history museum London transport museum Hunterian Museum Changing of the guards London eye And do some shopping

Also I want to go to— Santa pod Coventry transport museum Cadbury world

I am looking for ideas on where to go in Nottingham, or anywhere near where ill be staying

Also any pubs I have to go to? Or any historical things I should see

Bonus for any hidden gem antique stores

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u/tuxedocatmum — 23 days ago

So I am planing on going to England summer or autumn 2027 for 1-2 weeks. Please note I am going to see family. They are in. Kimberly, Nottingham, derby,ilikson. And i have a friend i am seeing in Bedford.

I already have a plan to go to London and do a couple other things but I am wondering what else I should do.Also, I won't have a car and may spend 2 days in London ( not sure where exactly but we want to be close to everything or able to get to some placses via cab or bus)

My itinerary so far is

London ( the only mud tdo things ara harry potter studios, British museum and natural history)

British museum

Royal air force museum

Harry potter studios ( this would be a day dedicated to just that and it doesnt have to be apart of the london portion

Natural history museum

London transport museum

Hunterian Museum

Changing of the guards

London eye And do some shopping

Also I want to go to—

Santa pod

Coventry transport museum

Cadbury world

I am looking for ideas on where to go in Nottingham, or anywhere near where ill be staying

Also any pubs I have to go to? Or any historical things I should see

Bonus for any hidden gem antique stores

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u/tuxedocatmum — 23 days ago

So, I have an odd question thst maybe someone can help with.

First of all.

My cat is almost 4 I adopted him a year ago. He loves to be outside on his harness. I would love to take him placses but I am scared ill loose him. I see cats going on adventures and I was wondering how people do this

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u/tuxedocatmum — 25 days ago

So, I have an odd question thst maybe someone can help with. First of all. My cat is almost 4 i got him a year ago. He loves to be outside on his harness. I would love to take him placses but I am scared ill loose him. I see cats going on adventures and I was wondering how people do this

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u/tuxedocatmum — 25 days ago