Is this allergies or vocal damage? Should I see an ENT? How can I fix this?

I’m 17f and I sing in choir, take voice lessons, and record YouTube covers. it’s been really hard to sing in my mixed voice for any significant period of time. my throat doesn’t hurt and my voice isn’t raspy but after like 5-10 minutes of light singing I feel my voice get all phlegmy and I cant produce a clean mix. my head Is also super breathy and it didn’t used to be that way. its like I can either sing in rlly breathy falsetto or in chest mix voice but can’t do a normal quiet heady mix with this breathy ass voice I have now. my voice teacher doesn’t seem to notice anything wrong and seems to think that I just need better technique. but I could sing very easily before and this didn’t happen before. could this be vocal damage that I need to see an ent for or is this just phlegm from allergies or something???

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u/ur_mom_hehe67 — 4 hours ago

I’m 17 and my mom is worried that I’m being exposed to porn by listening to Hazbin Hotel songs

little does she know that any pornographic content I’m exposed to is from Bukhari, Muslim, and sunan abu Dawud 🤮🤮🤮

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u/ur_mom_hehe67 — 7 hours ago
▲ 150 r/exmuslim

My dad said Muhammad’s not a rapist cuz ‘Aisha “asked for it” 🤮🤮🤮

he also said Muhammed didn’t rape poor Safiyya cuz she also apparently wanted it... right after he murdered her father brother and husband. not to mentioned she was a literal teenager. I brought up that it wasn’t normal to marry nine yr olds cu must wanted to marry Muhammeds 18 yr old daughter and Muhammed said she was “too young” but then apparently that’s different cuz it’s his daughter (what?) my dad said sex slavery isn’t rap cuz it was their culture and they needed to do it for war. wow poor Muhammed he has no choice but to rape teenage girls whom he widowed. Muhammed was just a little guy and such a gentlemen are so nice he helped safiyya up into the camel (after he raped her) see so gentlemen. 🤮🤮🤮🤮🤮🤮🤮 I don’t wanna look at my dad anymore

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u/ur_mom_hehe67 — 1 day ago

Islam is a feminist religion. Change my mind. When will u ex Muslims see the truth?

I don’t understand how women say Islam is misogynistic. Islam is so feminist it even gave women the right to breathe oxygen! what more could u ask? all of you are just ingrates!

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u/ur_mom_hehe67 — 2 days ago

My mother has cancer and won't accept Jesus

I'm 17F and raised Muslim and have myself become a believer and accepted Jesus Christ as my Lord and Savior. My parents however are still Muslim. I pray for them to accept the truth, but I never had much hope for my father. My mother however, I thought could come to the truth if I tried to show her. And I did. I pointed out all the things about Islam that show it's not the truth. The historical errors, the sexual immorality, the manmade descriptions of heaven, the lies it tells about Jesus (like that he'll come back and wage Jihad) but she wouldn't accept. She said she'll never become Christian and now she has cancer and I'm worried she won't accept before it's too late. Will she go to hell if she passes without accepting Jesus or is there hope for her?

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u/ur_mom_hehe67 — 2 days ago

How can I become Catholic?

I'm an 17F ex-muslim and have accepted Jesus Christ as my Lord and Savior. However, though I would consider myself a Christian, I wanna become Catholic as I know it's the truth but I can't attend church because I live in a Muslim household and am unbaptized. Is there a way for me to become Catholic?

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u/ur_mom_hehe67 — 2 days ago

Do Catholics not believe Jesus to be God?

I’m Christian but not Catholic but I was watching Young Sheldon and Sheldons family is Baptists and he was asking his Catholic friend about his faith. the friend said he prays to Jesus, God and Mary and Sheldon said “you don’t believe Jesus is God?” and the Catholic friend said “no. he’s the Son of God.” is this true? obv I believe that Jesus is the Son of God and also God himself but is this not what Catholics believe? Di Catholics believe Jesus is not God or was this a misunderstanding of catholic theology by the show runners?

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u/ur_mom_hehe67 — 3 days ago

Should I become Catholic???

I'm a convert to Christianity and was raised Muslim. I know Christianity is the truth, but I'm not so sure if Catholicism is the way to go. I know many Catholics believe that the Catholic church is the true church of Jesus Christ and the originially established one, and historically that is factual, as the protestant reformation came much later. But, the issue for me is, there are some things about Catholicism that don't make sense to me that I really need someone to explain. Like prayer to Saints and especially to Mary which Catholics seem to do a lot. Although I respect and love Mary as a perfect sinless woman and the Mother of our Lord and Savior, i respectfully do not understand why I would pray to her when I could just directly ask Jesus or the Father. I mean, God can hear me all the time, why ask a human to pray for me? If Mary even hears my prayer, it's only by God's permission, so why not just talk to Jesus??? I am not trying to be disrespectful I just genuinely do not understand the purpose of this.

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u/ur_mom_hehe67 — 3 days ago

How come I lost my mixed voice and my head voice is no longer resonant??

If you listen to the video, the first part is me singing Addict from today, and my mixed voice is completely non-existant and my head voice has absolutely no resonance to it. I can only sing in chest voice or a super breathy falsetto. This worries me because about 3 months ago even, I had a pretty solid mix voice. In clip two i'm singing for forever from 3 months ago. My mixed voice didn't sound that great, but it wasn't difficult to produce and my head voice was resonant and not breathy and everything felt pingy. I'm very worried because my ability to lighten my chest voice into a chest mix has completely gone away, and that was something I had naturally before I started training to sing. My middle mix voice is completely impossible to produce and I can't get any resonance in my head voice. Am I doing something wrong? Could it be that my voice changed or smth cuz I started when I was 14 and now I'm 17, and I'm worried that I'm possibly and alto rather than a soprano anymore and am singing songs out of my range. Plz help thnx!

u/ur_mom_hehe67 — 4 days ago
▲ 1 r/teenrelationships+1 crossposts

Am I (17F) a creep for liking a boy who is younger than me? (14M)

So I like this boy in my choir and it's a mixed age group and I feel like I'm weird because he's younger than me. I'm 17 but I'm not sure if it's weird or not because I look younger than him (he's 14) but everyone in class who doesn't know my age thinks I'm 12 because I'm very small and I hit puberty really late like just a year and a half ago. I'm also completely asexual, so I have no sexual attraction whatsoever, just like a romantic crush, but I'm still worried that I'm a creep for liking a boy who's so much younger than me. I've been acquainted with him for like a year and talk to him sometimes but I obviously never told him that I liked him and no one else knows because I feel like it's weird only my one friend knows cuz she guessed. I feel bad like I'm so weird but he's so cute and I keep catching myself staring at him in class and now I'm not sure if I should feel bad or not cuz he has a crush on another girl who's literally my age and she likes him back and she texts him all the time but IDK i still feel like I'm weird. Plz answer honestly, am I a total creep for liking him???

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u/ur_mom_hehe67 — 4 days ago

I’ve been raised a Muslim girl and converted to Christianity cuz I realized Islam is a cult and my dads being an asshole

he fucking told me he doesnt wanna hear “christian nonsense” in the house and im “lucky” he doesn’t force me to wear a hijab. and he told me that I’m mentally ill for saying that Muhammed sleeping with a nine year old is rape. he told me im mentally ill and stupid for saying that Muhammed having sex slaves makes him a rapist and I’m “disrespectful” for calling Muhammed a rapist porn addict pedo. he fcuking told me that I’m a “fucking little piece of shit” and that im secretly a porn addict and that’s why I care about Muhammed. I’m apparently the porn addict for saying that Muhammed diddying a little child was wrong. fuck my dad. fuck him! he worships a fucking rapist

He literally told me that I'm so "obsessed with sex" because I complained about Islam being a sex cult where heaven is a fucking brothel for men. I'm apparently a sex addict porn addict according to him and secretly watch porn cuz I complained that I don't wanna go to his stupid ass brothel heaven and am traumatized that the prophet u love raped a prepubescent little girl as well as a teenager whom he had just widowed by murdering her husband. I'm a fucking porn addict according to him because i complained how islam sexualizes everything about a woman and turns me into an object. Bitch im fucking asexual i don't want anyone coming near me I just wanna don't wanna worhsip ur stupid pedo rapist. I apparently have to respect his fucking shitass sex religion in his house but im not allowed to say 'christian nonsense' can't go to church and can't where a cross. But I have to respect fucking Muhammed. Fuck muhammed i hope he burns in hell for raping that little girl. and fuck my dad. My dad literally said Muhammed's not a rapist and 'Aisha "wanted it." Bitch what the fuck she literally said she was PLAYING ON A SWING WITH HER FRIENDS and didn't know what was happening and she was handed off to muhammed for sex. THe fact taht i don't like thtat heaven is fucking adult entertainment studios makes me the FUCKING PORN ADDICT. and my dad cliams to follow all the prophets even tho I told him Jesus said you can't lust after women or have multiple wives or sex slaves and he's like "muhammed overrides Jesus.' FuCK you dad. You're not gonna follow the perfect man who was liERALLY GOD AND PERFECT AND YOU FUCKING WORSHIP A PEDO. FUCK THIS. I WANNA MOVE OUT I HATE MY DAD. He told me he would be ok with an old man marrying and fucking me when I was 9. FUCK FUCK FUCK! I know Jesus doesn't like me swearing, but I think he'll understand and forgive me for this. My dad told me that God's gonna punish me for saying Muhammed's a rapist! FUCK.

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u/ur_mom_hehe67 — 4 days ago
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My crush likes someone else…

I met him at my high school choir and have liked him for like a year but I don’t talk to him that much cuz I’m shy. I saw him for the first time after the semester ended and now he likes a girl he met at show choir camp during the last month and has been texting her all the time. I’m so sad lol I never had the courage to ask for his number and now Ive lost my chance lol. lollll I’m so saaaaaaaaaad. I had to see him all day yesterday at a choir activity and his hair looked so freaking cute I’m so maaaaad

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u/ur_mom_hehe67 — 4 days ago

My crush likes someone else…

I met him at my high school choir and have liked him for like a year but I don’t talk to him that much cuz I’m shy. I saw him for the first time after the semester ended and now he likes a girl he met at show choir camp during the last month and has been texting her all the time. I’m so sad lol I never had the courage to ask for his number and now Ive lost my chance lol. lollll I’m so saaaaaaaaaad. I had to see him all day yesterday at a choir activity and his hair looked so freaking cute I’m so maaaaad

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u/ur_mom_hehe67 — 5 days ago

17F Recent ex-muslim converted to Christianity, what are some good prayers to say??

I just accepted Christianity and I have to pray the five daily muslim prayers cuz I'm not ready to deal with my parents knowing I'm no longer muslims so what are some good prayers I could say in those? Also are there any specific prayers to help convert parents, I want them to see the truth?

Also should I join a specific denomination

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u/ur_mom_hehe67 — 14 days ago

Ex-muslim 17F and accepted Jesus Christ as my Lord and Savior, I'm in America in a muslim household and don't know what to do

I wanna get baptized and attend church, but I'm in a muslim family and my mom will be super mad and say I'm being whispered to by the devil if I tell her I'm Christian. I don't know what to do, I have to just pretend I'm muslim. But I wanna save my parents from Islam but I don't think they would ever accept. They can't see that it's a cult. What should I do, and can they be saved if they don't accept Jesus? Is there a way to make them see that islam is fake???

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u/ur_mom_hehe67 — 15 days ago

Am I sinning by still praying the Islamic prayers?

I'm 17 and have been raised Muslim and just accepted Jesus Christ as my Lord and Savior but I still live with my parents so I pray the Muslim 5 prayer which include reciting Qur'an cuz I don't want them to know and also IDK my OCD makes me feel like I somehow still have to pray them. Is this a sin? Should I stop praying the Muslim prayers?

Also how can I get my parents to accept Christianity. I'm especially worried about my mom because she has cancer and want her to accept Jesus before it's too late but she says she never will cuz Islam she says is the truth. Can she still be saved if I pray for her?

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u/ur_mom_hehe67 — 16 days ago

The Qur'an is full of braindead arguments and is therefore, not from God

Arguments presented as some sort of mic drop moment in the Qur'an are straight up logical fallacies that don't prove anything...

1. Abraham and Nimrod

Nimrod claims that he is God, and Abraham says "no, my God is God and created everything." Nimrod asks Abraham to prove that his God is the true God and Abraham says "my God makes the sun rise in the East, can you make it rise from the West?" And then Nimrod is dumbfounded.

From a logical perspective, this makes no sense. If we grant the premise that God exists, Abraham pointing out an observable natural phenomenon in no way proves that the God he describes is the one making this natural phenomenon occur.

2. If the Qur'an was not from God, it would have many contradictions

If we ignore the fact that the Qur'an does have many contradictions, and grant that it is completely internally consistent, that in no way proves that it's from God unless we grant the premise (as the Qur'an does) that a book not from God must contain many contradictions. However, this premise is nonsensical because it is perfectly possible and a reality that humans have written books without contradictions.

3. If it's not from God, write something like it

Aside from the fact that "like it" is vague and subjective which means the goalpost could simply be moved any time someone does meet whatever criteria this is meant to entail, uniqueness does not prove divinity. I would bet that nobody today could write something "like" (whatever that means) Lord of the Rings, but I know for a fact that Lord of the Rings was not written by God himself.

4. Look at the complexity of the world, obviously this book is from God

I believe in God and will grant that the complexity of the world indicates that it must have an intelligent creator (ie. God) but that in no way proves that the Qur'an itself is from God. The fact that God must necessarily exists does not prove in itself that this book in question is from God.

5. you wouldn't believe even if you saw a miracle

Don't ask to see a miracle, because God COULD send one, but then u still wouldn't believe cuz ur idiots, so he won't send a miracle, so u better just believe.

I don't think I need to say more on this one

6. Ad hominem attacks

Look at the one who disbelieves in the Qur'an, that is the one who repels the orphan. Like what? There a plenty of non-muslims who are nice to orphans. Also pretty ironic seeing as how the Qur'an said that an orphan who calls his adopted father 'father' is cursed and won't enter heaven.

It's very hard for me to believe that the Lord has the reasoning skills of kindergarteners. Saying these arguments are from God is an insult to God.

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u/ur_mom_hehe67 — 17 days ago

From an ex-muslim who's converting to Christianity: Why is Islam so hypocritical??

Christian's worshipping Jesus is a terrible sin (according to islam) and yet Muslims venerate Muhammed to a semi-divine level. The whole idea of Christianity is "walking with Christ" and yet Muslims are always trying to follow the Sunnah to a T which is basically just "walking with Muhammed." We have to praise Muhammed every time we praise God. You have to love Muhammed as more than you love ur mom and dad. Like tf why was bro tryna be Jesus???? And then he says Christians are mushrik for worshipping Jesus yet Muslims basically worship him. Muhammed says anyone who doesn't wish police- sorry I meant peace upon him every time they hear his name willl be cursed. LIke Bro Be so FR.

Also why does the Qur'an say that God supported JEsus with the Holy Spirit but then thinks Mary is the third of the Trinity? QUr'an seems to think the Holy Spirit is Gabriel

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u/ur_mom_hehe67 — 17 days ago

I've been raised Muslim and accepted Jesus today...

I'm 17F been raised Muslim and today I accepted Jesus as my Lord and Savior and prayed to the Father in Heaven and thanked him for saving me from my sins and asked him to save my parents too and fill me with the Holy Spirit. I'm worried because I didn't feel super different right away and worried I did something wrong or made a wrong decision? What will happen to my parents they're still muslim???

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u/ur_mom_hehe67 — 17 days ago