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Ale to kurwa niedobre nie kupujcie 😔

Jak do tego doszło? Jak znaleźliście coś dla siebie?

I've recently started using menstrual cup. For context I'm not a virgin and I never used tampons. It's honestly so much better than pads, especially when it's this hot outside. However, I often struggle with taking it out, especially after wearing it for longer. Sometimes it comes out no problem but sometimes it's such a struggle. Is there a way to prevent that? I really like the comfort of wearing a cup, but every time I can't get it out easily I freak out.

EDIT: For clarification, I don't take it out by pulling the stem. The issue is that sometimes I struggle to break off the pressure and get the cup down.

I'm so mad at myself. My whole life till uni I was exceeding academically. I did million stuff at once, made time for everything and was still sane and content with myself.

Ever since starting uni I feel like a complete failure. From semester to semester it's getting worse. I tried therapy, then got my diagnosis. Now I'm on 30 mg medikinet, but it doesn't help me at all apart from making me clean my room and have some more energy.

I feel like I've hit a wall. I fail on the smallest stuff. Today I was the only person in my year that didn't pass an exam. I had time, I knew I had to do it, I had every opportunity to do it. The worst part is l'm in such a comfortable situation and I still struggle. I don't have to pay for housing, for education, anything, I just have to study. I have very supportive parents and good friends. People not even half as lucky do better than me. I feel so guilty for wasting my parents' money.

My task paralysis got so bad this semester I feel like I can't do anything college related. I can't bring myself to wash my hair or eat well. I don't sleep because I'm trying to make myself work, but I end up sitting thinking about it, distracting myself with anything possible. Even texting back people became so difficult.

I really really want to change things. I know I'm able to thrive on my major. I thought diagnosis and medication would help, but I'm only getting worse and worse. I don't know what to do I feel so stuck.

How do I get out of this? I can't go on like this. I hate what I've made of myself.

EDIT: I've managed to beat social anxiety after working on myself so hard. I stopped my disordered eating habits and turned my life for the better in so many ways yet this one thing is something I cannot overcome. I wish I could function normally. I can't stand feeling and looking like an idiot.

Has any one of you find it extremely hard to text back people? I find myself ghosting people for days because texting back feels like such a big chore to tackle and I feel horrible for it. Most of my good friends got used to it and seemed pretty understanding. Do you have any systems that helped you with it?

Is there really a way to beat severe ADHD burnout without changing your field of study/career? I feel like me not being particularly passionate about my major is largely contributing to my burnout, since my ADHD became unmanageable only when I went to uni. I had some burnout symptoms when I was in high school, but not nearly as bad as now.

Every time I see this topic here people bring out having to do major life changes. I don't know what else I could study besides my major, but my burnout is slowly making me useless at EVERYTHING.

Has anyone found a way to power through without quitting everything and changing your life drastically?

I'm so mad at myself. My whole life till uni I was exceeding academically. I did million stuff at once, made time for everything and was still sane and content with myself.

Ever since starting uni I feel like a complete failure. From semester to semester it's getting worse. I tried therapy, then got my diagnosis. Now I'm on 30 mg medikinet, but it doesn't help me at all apart from making me clean my room and have some more energy.

I feel like I've hit a wall. I fail on the smallest stuff. Today I was the only person in my year that didn't pass an exam. I had time, I knew I had to do it, I had every opportunity to do it. The worst part is l'm in such a comfortable situation and I still struggle. I don't have to pay for housing, for education, anything, I just have to study. I have very supportive parents and good friends. People not even half as lucky do better than me. I feel so guilty for wasting my parents' money.

My task paralysis got so bad this semester I feel like I can't do anything college related. I can't bring myself to wash my hair or eat well. I don't sleep because I'm trying to make myself work, but I end up sitting thinking about it, distracting myself with anything possible. Even texting back people became so difficult.

I really really want to change things. I know I'm able to thrive on my major. I thought diagnosis and medication would help, but I'm only getting worse and worse. I don't know what to do I feel so stuck.

How do I get out of this? I can't go on like this. I hate what I've made of myself.

EDIT: I've managed to beat social anxiety after working on myself so hard. I stopped my disordered eating habits and turned my life for the better in so many ways yet this one thing is something I cannot overcome. I wish I could function normally. I can't stand feeling and looking like an idiot.

Mam 21 lat i dłuższy czas temu otrzymałam kwotę kilku tysięcy na 18 urodziny. Od tej pory te pieniądze leżą i ich nie dotykam. Mam również dwa tysiące w gotówce, które również leżą. Studiuję, dorabiam i nie muszę się sama utrzymywać. Chciałabym włożyć tą wolno leżącą kwotę w coś sensownego póki jeszcze jestem w tak komfortowej sytuacji życiowej.

Jako, że nie znam się na temacie, myślałam nad otworzeniem konta mieszkaniowego lub na włożeniu wszystkiego w 4 letnie obligacje. Trochę czytałam o ETF-ach, ale nie jestem przekonana, czy aby to na pewno dobre rozwiązanie dla osoby takiej jak ja, która szuka maksimum stabilności przy minimalnej wiedzy.

Jedyne co mnie martwi, to że przy koncie mieszkaniowym o wiele więcej tracę na wypłaceniu pieniędzy wcześniej niż na obligacjach. Czy ma ono sens, czy lepiej odkładać sobie taką "poduszkę" na usamoudzielnienie się/ewentualnie jakiś biznes, jeżeli będę mieć pomysł?

Proszę nie pisać komentarzy typu inwestuj w zachcianki, bo jak będę potrzebować, to będę więcej pracować. Co do inwestowania w siebie - nie mam jakiegokolwiek pomysłu w jakim kierunku mogłabym się dodatkowo rozwijać, żadnych droższych hobby, żeby wkładać w to pieniądze.

Z góry bardzo dziękuję za każdą poradę :))

For context we've known each other for about 5 years. During this time he had an online gf for two years and I dated two guys since starting college, but nothing serious.

We always hang out one on one and don't really have mutual friends since we don't live in the same city. We're both pretty awkward (probably both on the spectrum lol) and I feel like he's always kept a safe distance, but I'm not sure if that's him making sure I don't get ideas or just being polite/wanting personal space, since idk how he acts around his other friends. We don't hug while greeting, just dab up. It's my first time trying to make a move first (I can't flirt), but I don't mind.

This year we've just got closer and closer as friends and started to bicker/tease each other more. I'm just wondering if I could subtly test if I have any chances with him. I don't want to ruin a great friendship by being direct, and I don't mind backing off if I see clear signs he's not interested. I'm just scared of risking it all since he's an amazing buddy and I'd appreciate him in my life either as a friend or sth more.

EDIT: I know it's childish but I really really am not able to be direct.

How do I do it it's literally impossible

Hi I wanted to dust off Venti by building him as main dps. I have durin and Nicole, however I don't have C6 faruzan nor C6 prune. What would be my best option for the last slot?

For context, I've been diagnosed with ADHD this year. Due to college I've hit the wall and I could no longer manage with my problems and way of functioning. I've tried therapy, then got the diagnosis and I'm officially on meds. Still very much struggling, but I want to believe I'm making some progress and doing something for myself.

I have very loving and supportive parents. At first I never planned on telling either of them about therapy and stuff. I got a job and paid for every session and other stuff myself. Eventually, in the heat of emotion I told my mom about therapy and since then she's known about everything for the last ±6 months. I asked her not to tell dad. Eventually my sister also found out, so now he's the only one in the blue.

Now the issue is that I do trust my dad and I know he would support me, but I have this thing where I want to seem capable in front of him/I'm having more trouble being vulnerable with him than my mom. They give me everything, every opportunity to thrive in college and yet I struggle. I am also his child and he deserves to know what's going on in my life, but I'm scared of coming off as someone who's making excuses for themselves. I will tell him everything eventually, but I'm scared he'll be hurt, that I only told my mum and not him at first.